What if the "friend" thinks she's what's best for him rather than the actual girlfriend? To be honest, I've had that feeling before and, long story short, I ended up being right. She may not be trying to provoke cheating, but she could still be sabotaging the relationship by planting that seed of doubt and being the boyfriend's preferred emotional companion when it counts.
It is totally appropriate to be jealous But if she's legitimately is like a sister to him, I would not worry about that oh, he might just like the photo, or the memory that that photo triggers
Yup... run away and find someone worthy. If you're in a relationship you shouldn't have to put a lock on your phone. If I was a relationship I would never put a lock on my phone I have nothing to hide
A phone is usually put for security. There still are other people in the world beyond your partner. Someone may try to get into your phone Your partner could simply be told the password.
That is a poor excuse. Second of all if you can't keep an eye on your phone and you get it lost or stolen maybe you shouldn't have one in the first place LOL you know they still have landlines. 🤣🤣🤣
Besides you don't keep personal information in your phone. A hacker doesn't need to have your phone to hack into it and get your information. 🙄 plzz... is no valid excuse that you can convince me with
And different relationships are different. I keep a lock on my phone cause I live in a joint family and I need to keep my cousins from messing around with my phone. I've had a girlfriend and she's had a problem with me having a lock on my phone, when we were a bit into the relationship I gave her my password so that she could use mine if needed.
Okay, we get it, you don't value privacy or security, but some of us do. As, @AdithyaR mentioned, it's extremely reasonable to password protect your phone and then just tell your partner the password if it's that important for you to be able to access each other's. If you're so perfect that you've NEVER lost a personal possession, congratulations, but it's very normal to leave things within one's reach for some time at home, school, work, or wherever else with people not necessarily trusted with your device. Even if you ALWAYS keep it on your person, pickpockets exist. And are you really going to tell me you have no personal information on your phone? No contact information for a single friend, family member, or coworker? No logged in social media apps? No text messages or call logs? No internet search history? No saved map locations? No calendar event reminders? Give me a break. Modern phones are basically just portable supercomputers; if you're not using them for at least one of those things, you might as well just use a burner flip phone. Leaving your phone unlocked is like leaving your car or house unlocked; you can hope for the best that no bad actors will try to get in, but nothing's stopping them if they do. If you're okay with that, whatever, but don't start preaching that there's no reason anyone could possibly want to lock their phone.
This post isn't even about that, it's about the lock *screen* as in the photo that shows up when you turn on the phone before you log into it.
It's very much okay to be jealous but I don't think you need to worry. Guys have there relations sorted and he'll never do anything to hurt you or his best friend.
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I get you, but if she's his best friend, then she would want what's best for him and that wouldn't be making him a cheater. Don't worry.
What if the "friend" thinks she's what's best for him rather than the actual girlfriend? To be honest, I've had that feeling before and, long story short, I ended up being right. She may not be trying to provoke cheating, but she could still be sabotaging the relationship by planting that seed of doubt and being the boyfriend's preferred emotional companion when it counts.
It is totally appropriate to be jealous
But if she's legitimately is like a sister to him, I would not worry about that oh, he might just like the photo, or the memory that that photo triggers
Yup... run away and find someone worthy. If you're in a relationship you shouldn't have to put a lock on your phone. If I was a relationship I would never put a lock on my phone I have nothing to hide
A phone is usually put for security. There still are other people in the world beyond your partner. Someone may try to get into your phone
Your partner could simply be told the password.
That is a poor excuse. Second of all if you can't keep an eye on your phone and you get it lost or stolen maybe you shouldn't have one in the first place LOL you know they still have landlines. 🤣🤣🤣
Besides you don't keep personal information in your phone. A hacker doesn't need to have your phone to hack into it and get your information. 🙄 plzz... is no valid excuse that you can convince me with
What if you keep a password but your partner knows it.
And different relationships are different.
I keep a lock on my phone cause I live in a joint family and I need to keep my cousins from messing around with my phone.
I've had a girlfriend and she's had a problem with me having a lock on my phone, when we were a bit into the relationship I gave her my password so that she could use mine if needed.
Okay, we get it, you don't value privacy or security, but some of us do. As, @AdithyaR mentioned, it's extremely reasonable to password protect your phone and then just tell your partner the password if it's that important for you to be able to access each other's. If you're so perfect that you've NEVER lost a personal possession, congratulations, but it's very normal to leave things within one's reach for some time at home, school, work, or wherever else with people not necessarily trusted with your device. Even if you ALWAYS keep it on your person, pickpockets exist. And are you really going to tell me you have no personal information on your phone? No contact information for a single friend, family member, or coworker? No logged in social media apps? No text messages or call logs? No internet search history? No saved map locations? No calendar event reminders? Give me a break. Modern phones are basically just portable supercomputers; if you're not using them for at least one of those things, you might as well just use a burner flip phone. Leaving your phone unlocked is like leaving your car or house unlocked; you can hope for the best that no bad actors will try to get in, but nothing's stopping them if they do. If you're okay with that, whatever, but don't start preaching that there's no reason anyone could possibly want to lock their phone.
This post isn't even about that, it's about the lock *screen* as in the photo that shows up when you turn on the phone before you log into it.
@egarcia1360 🙏🙏🙏 #goat
Red flag.
You sure that "friend" didn't friendzone him in the past?
He seems to be overly attached to this woman. I'd not be okay with it.
That's so inappropriate
He should change the screen and apologize
It's alright I would be jealous too. Do you know this girl?
It's very much okay to be jealous but I don't think you need to worry. Guys have there relations sorted and he'll never do anything to hurt you or his best friend.
That's my opinion.
Your jealousy is warranted. Having her as wallpaper on his phone is just too damn much
Don't be worried about it just be honest and ask him about it. If love is on your side then it'll all work out
I personally don't think that's a problem but if you're that jealous sorry to say but I think you should in these or get over it
A relationship can only work if there is trust on both sides.
you should honestly be worried,, thats the chick he would drop the world for
I think you every right to DEMAND that either his lockscreen or his wallpaper is YOU! 🤔
Your jealousy will ruin your relationship. Let it go.
Uhhh ya, sorry to say this but you should be worried
Yes it is it's just my opinion but the woman that I'm with should and hopefully is my best friend which I would never treat with disrespect
Is he better looking than you? If the answer is yes. You have an ex and just don't know it yet.
Take it from me at times y'all just gotta trust us and let us do things we want
Yes cause he’s hiding something from you stuff like that make suspicious.