Guys, Guy friend turns his head when he talks to me?

[Anonymous]

what does this usually mean? shyness? I could be talking to him and then he turns his head and looks down when he talks to me. why?

im sure he doesn't like me... we did have sex however... but we;ve also had sex like 3 times already and he said he didn't like me like that. so this time we had sex... i was like whatever and call him bro and dude and act as if it didn't happen. i still do talk to him though.

i had forgotten my bracelets at his house and he was all like "whats your fave
bracelet?" and i showed him and he's like "nice" and then we talked about work anf he asked where i was going...

so yeaaaaaa...

[jacobsim]

People are so confusing it's impossible to tell from what you have written. Just ask be clear with what you want and you will get your answer. Me personally I'm extra shy around people I really like becuase of issues. If I love you I probably won't want anything romantic becuase I'm afraid of rejection and loosing that person so I date people I like but don't love because if it falls apart then I'm not really hurt

[Asker]

lol he told me that he's a bad guy and he cares about me. he said that he didn't want to lose me. he started dating this girl and he said he didn't like her much... he says he likes her know... but... he cheated on me with her... sooooooo... I don't know.. i feel like i led him on this time bc i grabbed him... i was drunk and we were on the bed by the way...

[Asker]

he literally said that if we date he would cheat on me because thats just how he is... he sid he can't control himself

[jacobsim]

He is kinda starting to sound like a dick. Cheating is a big deal for me and I wouldn't want to date someone who is going to hurt me. He has issues he needs to work on and I wouldn't put yourself on the line. Find someone that is honest and loyal and then you won't have to worry about these kinda things

[Asker]

oh i know... i feel bad too... i feel very bad for the girl but it wasn't my fault he invited me. he knows when i get drunk at his place we ALWAYS have sex... this is the 3rd time its happened. its either that or i start crying... this time i just grabbed him... i feel so bad but i was so drunk... he didn't say no tho haha

[Asker]

but yeah. treat it as whatever. he wouldn't even make a good boyfriend but it makes me wonder why he doesn't look at me when talking to me... like i said he looks down and turns his head... and talks to the floor lol...

again, im treating it as whatever... im literally calling him dude and bro so show him that i dont care

[jacobsim]

I can't tell you why he won't look you in the eyes becuase I'm not in his head but for me. I find eye contact uncomfortable could be a sign of a lot of things. For me it's becuase of anxiety or autism i haven't figured out which one yet but I'm working on it. Sounds like this guy isn't working on him self and you can't do anything he needs to realise he has issues and then work on fixing them

[Asker]

got it... thank you... for no ill ignore ahaha...

[jacobsim]

You can help him if you want and address some issues you see it may help him realise that he may need help in certain areas and having someone to talk about that stuff with. Without judgement is very helpfull to start someone on their journey to better themselves

[spartan55]

Thanks for all that detail about your bracelets. So you had sex with a guy who made it clear he didn't respect you afterwards, then you fucked him again (twice). Why are you so concerned with a guy who clearly doesn't give a shit about you?

[Asker]

I don't know just curious. i’d like to think i used him hahahahahahahah xD idrc about him tbh

[spartan55]

Ooookay

[Anonymous]

Ok, so you fucked him after he said he didn't like you? Then he talked to you about bracelets? I think he likes cock more than pussy

[Asker]

yeah. he's easy and i was horny hahah

[Opinion Owner]

Oh so you wanted dick? easys always good, nice little quick fuck

[Asker]

yeah... hahahah

[Opinion Owner]

How often are you horny? Your pussy gets wett, do you usually find dick or do you have toys you fuck yourself with

[Asker]

im a dude lol

[Opinion Owner]

So why the fuck do you have a female logo? Tell someone next time. I dont wang to be tricked into talking to you

[jsmayo]

he's inconfident. Either because of him crushing on you or feeling awkward in a non sexual situation after already having a sexual experience with you