I have feelings for a guy I’ve been friends with for 20 + years, awhile back I told him how I feel. I was wondering if anyone could give me some insight if it’s just friendly behavior or something more. It seems like in recent months we can’t go a week or so without seeing each other, tell each other we love each other often. In January we were out w/my friend , my shithead cousin showed up was being obnoxious, made me uncomfortable so this friend of mine I hugged and we stayed like that for awhile, he comforted me rubbed my arms. My cousin is at it again being rude, we head to another place while seated I turned wrapped my arms around his one arm and then he grabbed my hand locked fingers with me and rubbed my hand and stayed like that for awhile. He had a bit to drink so we sit in my car for over two hours talking, bring up what we want in relationships, I say what I want, he says all he wants is the same things. when we say goodbye he hugs me a few times and holds me back and looks at me. We both do nothing. FYI I’m a coward lol. I went away for a week recently he wanted to see me beforehand, meet up, hugs me tells me he’s gonna miss me kisses my cheek and asks me to let me know when I land safely. When I get back it’s his bday asks “what are we doing for his bday” meet up have dinner with two of his other friends, but when I get home he calls me, we talk on the phone for 5 hours till about 4 am. And now recently while driving to pick up his friend in another state to work a convention he called me and we talked on the phone for two hours he stopped for a break and gas sent some snaps of himself then called back and talked to me the rest of the way till he got to his friends house for another two hours. While working the convention he’s sent snaps of the con and his friend saying hi that I know and the two of them or just him. I’m not sure if he sees me as a very close friend or if there are feelings there I should act on , if anyone could give me some guidance!
Click "Show More" for your mentions
Most Helpful Opinion(mho) Rate.