I say teach him a lesson and go away do your thing for awhile have a break from him, till he understands you mean business and that he won't do it again
Can I ask what you're beliefs are that triggered him?
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Originally he had made a comment saying we were living in our last days considering all that’s going on and I agreed but then He said we were living in the “Rapture” and I’m not sure your beliefs or if you believe in any God or Jesus Christ but me I was raised in a baptist church and I do believe that Jesus died on the cross for our sins and that if you accept him in your heart you’re saved and I don’t read the Bible everyday nor do I know it word from word and I’m not one of those Christians that judge or try to alter your beliefs of not believing in a higher power but there are things that I do know for sure about the Bible and about Jesus and his return that I was taught in church, bible study Etc and my grandmother who passed a few years ago was deep into religion and the rapture is one story in the Bible that she explained and taught to me and so did my youth pastor. I do know and understand that though we may be living in our last days, it’s not quite the rapture. The rapture is when The skies open up, Jesus will return, the dead will rise and those who are still alive who have accepted Christ as their savior will disappear and those who remain will experience the “rapture” basically hell. Considering that that hasn’t happened yet it’s not possible that we’re living in that moment and when I told him that he started to call me names like “Dumb” “Ignorant” and then told me “You can’t really believe in God Or Jesus Christ if you believe we’re not living in the rapture.” He basically tried to tell me my faith in God wasn’t real and that’s when I felt disrespected and said what I said and what occurred after was an experience that scared me and one moment in my life I thought I was actually gonna leave this earth.
I just don't see where kicking the shit out of someone for not believing religious details exactly the way you believe fits into any religion where you are taught to be kind, loving and accepting like your "maker" is said to have been.
Do u know nothing about woman beaters? they always say they won’t do it again and end up beating her all the time and some even murder her, watch more movies n stuff
I don’t understand how someone has no control over their emotions, if I’m really mad even I have the ability to not hit something, ur brain and u make the decision to hit, not the anger, that’s no excuse, he chose to hit u
Just leave him. If you can't peacefully disagree with certain things and he's abusive then get out of that relationship and find someone who'll take care of you and have cooth
That’s great that you do love yourself and that’s something that this anonymous poster has to learn to do because if she did she wouldn’t be asking this question but as far as the “I would never mess with an abuser because I have self respect.” Don’t speak so soon. Abuse is one of those “It couldn’t be me” but then It ends up being you kind of situations. Abusers are great at putting on a facade and also you don’t know just how dangerous they are until situations like the poster described. Then you realize they have real issues that you unfortunately didn’t find out about until their hits start coming. They mentally black out. Or as some people put it they see “red” they’re no longer the person you grew to love so never say you wouldn’t mess with one but hope you never have to deal with this and realize that only by the grace of God you’re not enduring what many women across the world are.
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I say teach him a lesson and go away do your thing for awhile have a break from him, till he understands you mean business and that he won't do it again
Never a guarantee but the more broken he seems because of it, the better the sign
They will most definitely hit you again the dude needs counseling.
No time to leave befor it gets worse not less you hit them for no reason with intent to cause damage to his body
Can I ask what you're beliefs are that triggered him?
Originally he had made a comment saying we were living in our last days considering all that’s going on and I agreed but then He said we were living in the “Rapture” and I’m not sure your beliefs or if you believe in any God or Jesus Christ but me I was raised in a baptist church and I do believe that Jesus died on the cross for our sins and that if you accept him in your heart you’re saved and I don’t read the Bible everyday nor do I know it word from word and I’m not one of those Christians that judge or try to alter your beliefs of not believing in a higher power but there are things that I do know for sure about the Bible and about Jesus and his return that I was taught in church, bible study Etc and my grandmother who passed a few years ago was deep into religion and the rapture is one story in the Bible that she explained and taught to me and so did my youth pastor. I do know and understand that though we may be living in our last days, it’s not quite the rapture. The rapture is when The skies open up, Jesus will return, the dead will rise and those who are still alive who have accepted Christ as their savior will disappear and those who remain will experience the “rapture” basically hell. Considering that that hasn’t happened yet it’s not possible that we’re living in that moment and when I told him that he started to call me names like “Dumb” “Ignorant” and then told me “You can’t really believe in God Or Jesus Christ if you believe we’re not living in the rapture.” He basically tried to tell me my faith in God wasn’t real and that’s when I felt disrespected and said what I said and what occurred after was an experience that scared me and one moment in my life I thought I was actually gonna leave this earth.
They're both confusing the rapture with the tribulation, which happens first...
I just don't see where kicking the shit out of someone for not believing religious details exactly the way you believe fits into any religion where you are taught to be kind, loving and accepting like your "maker" is said to have been.
"Love me or I'll burn you forever." -- God 😇
Guess I'm destined to get burned.
Mmmm, destiny... 👅
Do u know nothing about woman beaters?
they always say they won’t do it again and end up beating her all the time and some even murder her, watch more movies n stuff
I don’t understand how someone has no control over their emotions, if I’m really mad even I have the ability to not hit something, ur brain and u make the decision to hit, not the anger, that’s no excuse, he chose to hit u
I have ONE question...
Are you going to stick around for more?
No. Abusers never stop. They escalate. Dont go back.
You're a grown ass woman, you should know the answer.
He will abuse you again, Don't go back to him!, You can do better than that!
Wall of text, didn’t read.
If you accept the apology then you will continue to be abused.
If you say fuck you and leave... you won’t get abused again.
If he's abusive he won't change. If that was the only time he's been violent, but he's had other opportunities then it may ne okay.
No unfortunately it doesn't, of course it doesn't mean that they will hit you again, you just have to decide how well you know who you're with
Just leave him. If you can't peacefully disagree with certain things and he's abusive then get out of that relationship and find someone who'll take care of you and have cooth
He will definitely do it again, get out now while you can still walk,,,
There is no guarantee Next time hit right back right in the nose and hard
And this is ladies and gents.. why religion kills..
I have respect for myself.
Would never mess with one in the first place.
That’s great that you do love yourself and that’s something that this anonymous poster has to learn to do because if she did she wouldn’t be asking this question but as far as the “I would never mess with an abuser because I have self respect.” Don’t speak so soon. Abuse is one of those “It couldn’t be me” but then It ends up being you kind of situations. Abusers are great at putting on a facade and also you don’t know just how dangerous they are until situations like the poster described. Then you realize they have real issues that you unfortunately didn’t find out about until their hits start coming. They mentally black out. Or as some people put it they see “red” they’re no longer the person you grew to love so never say you wouldn’t mess with one but hope you never have to deal with this and realize that only by the grace of God you’re not enduring what many women across the world are.
No it won't I say dont talk to them ever again cut them out your life
Leave and never go back. That is completely unacceptable. Simple this person has issues that probably will never be fixed.