I can "forgive" most anything, but that doesn't mean I'd continue in a relationship with them. Those are two different things. Just because "I forgive you", it doesn't mean "I want you" again.
I forgive but I don't forget as easily, relationship is bound by trust and loyalty. I may be their friend in the long run but I will not have the same feelings for the person that brought distrusting baggage to the relationship
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Nope not happening. They don't deserve my sympathy or acceptance for their stupid choice to betray my heart.
No use, if they cheat on you they don't love you enough to consider what their actions do to you. I was cheated on and forgave her and then she did it 2 more times. Not saying all cheaters would do it again. But they did it once.
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I don't know. Obviously something wasn't right. Did it get resolved? It would take a hell of a lot for me to forgive them
No, I’d be done with them. I couldn’t even be friends with someone who had done that to me.
They would be very last on the list. So in other words, F no.
Please, I can chaaaaange?
Yeah, thanks for coming. There's the door.
They regret GETTING CAUGHT, not cheating.
But, it was an accident? I was drunk and you were out with your friends. You never spend time with me?
Is this all shit that's been said to you?
No, it's a characterization of what men have told me about their ex's.
Also: you only ask me questions that you think you know the answer to? 😡
Probably not, but if said woman is the mother of my child I can honestly say I probably wouldn't be so readily for a break up.
I can "forgive" most anything, but that doesn't mean I'd continue in a relationship with them. Those are two different things. Just because "I forgive you", it doesn't mean "I want you" again.
Since strictly speaking there is no such thing as cheating, there is nothing to forgive...
No, because I wouldn’t be able to trust them or love them in the way that is needed.
Oh sure, they can come back. I'll have nice dinner waiting for them too..
Poison? It's a thin line between love and hate
@Zen10 Yup poison
It definitely causes a tectonic shift in relationship & makes trust much harder. by the way, stunning photo.
How long have you been married and how many children do you have?
That would be key to your answer.
No I did forgive a cheater once. He went right out & cheated again. I won't give it a chance to happen again.
I'm not a cuckold, so therefore I won't forgive that.
She would be downgraded to a friend-with-benefits only.
forgiving a cheater
is like giving candy to a baby, that's done something wrong
why reinforce negative behavior
you're BETTER THAN THAT
I forgive but I don't forget as easily, relationship is bound by trust and loyalty. I may be their friend in the long run but I will not have the same feelings for the person that brought distrusting baggage to the relationship
Nope not happening. They don't deserve my sympathy or acceptance for their stupid choice to betray my heart.
No use, if they cheat on you they don't love you enough to consider what their actions do to you. I was cheated on and forgave her and then she did it 2 more times. Not saying all cheaters would do it again. But they did it once.
Yes I would, but I won't give them another chance unless she's willing to commit and promise me that she will not do it again.
I would forgive them for my own peace of mind but I’d never have the same relationship with them ever again
Tough question
I don't think I would tbh but depends on the relationship I think I don't know
But ik I'd seek revenge I'd just make it worse
I would on one condition, if I and the man she's cheating with take turns fucking her or DP her.