Is speaking in a manly/boyish way a turn-off for men?

[CubsterShura]

I've had some guys online pointing out that They think they I'm tomboyish... I recently heard from another guy that I sound like a man because of the way I talk. Apparently I groan and say things like 'ugh' and 'oh man' like a guy would.

Now, I dress in a very feminine way, my face and body doesn't look masculine either, and my voice itself is also quite girly/high pitch. But it's my talking style that I already knew wasn't the most ladylike/girly, but now I'm kinda starting to wonder if it is something unattractive. The guy who made that comment himself doesn't care most probably and nor do I because I am not romantically interested in him now.

Is it a massive turn off? No big deal cuz I'm girly in every other way? Nobody cares? It's rather endearing? What do you think?

[Grond21]

It's not a big deal to me, nor do I think it makes you masculine. I didn't even notice before now, and now that I have my opinion hasn't changed

[Grond21]

Thanks for the MHO

[loveslongnails]

How many guys have said this about you compared to ALL the guys you know?

[CubsterShura]

The thing is, I don't go around asking all guys how I sound nor is that a comment most people care to make. I actually don't know the exact count because some of them were from so long ago I don't even remember properly. But I'd say it's been a few guys.

[loveslongnails]

A few guys does not a general opinion make, so don't worry about it. From what you describe, you're plenty feminine for the cultural norms of your society and country.

[CubsterShura]

Fair enough, thanks 😊

[loveslongnails]

Thank you for the MHO

[AlphaGhost]

I think I have seen your real pictures cuz you use to upload your own pictures on GaG and from what I have seen and gathered by talking to you over the years. You look pretty normal to me considering your Bengali background and local culture... but I have not heard your voice so I can't speak with absolute surety.
Now back to your question,
Men are not single entity yet there are some qualities and characteristics... which are broadly followed by certain group, so some guys like Tomboys some don't and its really down to personal preference.
I like feminine traits but at the same time I require her to have sentience or She should be able to make hard decision by herself cuz I can't be right about everything and when I am wrong/going to make mistake, She will hold me back or knock some sense into me.(relationship is about equality)
I don't think you sound like Tom-boys/Boyish or anything considering your personality in my eyes... I don't think ANYBODY would care WHAT you sound like speaking Foreign/Non-native language cuz I am pretty sure you speak Bengali/Urdu/hindi normally.
Speaking from my Knowledge about you on GaG, I would love to give you some useful advice,
"MOVE-ON FROM WHATEVER SHIT some GaG TRASH has put you THROUGH"
You use to be FUN... now you have become overly critical about he setting you-up (I am really sorry for saying this)

[CubsterShura]

Overly critical about what? I don't get it.

And yeah I admit I became less fun, but that's mainly because I no more have enough time to just write all those fun questions and myTakes that I wrote before. I think about getting back to them but feel lazy.

[AlphaGhost]

I have seen you to respond to people (mutual followers like Manonfire) questions by saying "I hope he didn't ask you to tag me or ask this question... which got nothing to do with original question and you were just tripping.
I will openly accept my fault cuz I was very busy due to Crona lock-down and inflow of patients due to which I had not used GaG for better part of 3 months, so I may have missed somethings but when I left you were stuck at this (or that's what I remember) but now I return for brief period "You are still talking about him"
I will openly accept my fault if its not the case and Now I feel bad for saying it cuz I don't know the story... again I AM SORRY !
Just forget about it and I will not overstep the boundary again...
as for LIFE... YEAH I get it Crona has ruined everything, people are getting bore at home while we have to deal with Horde of angry patients... then GoD decided to sent us 2nd wave which I mean we will be called again !

[Unixion0907]

A girl who’s able to be one of “the boyz” so to speak in personality, where’s she’s able to relate to and uses language that are considered languages that 2 bros use, for example, using the words “dude” or “bro” when referring to friends. This is easily one of the most attractive personality traits in my opinion. I hate when girls are super stuck up and try way too hard to be “feminine”.

[CubsterShura]

I heard from some people it is a turn-off when their romantic interest talks like that.

[Smoke-n-Growls]

I'd say nobody cares, or it's endearing. I'd find it endearing.

Just be you - if someone thinks it's a turnoff, it's their loss. They probably wouldn't be happy with you romantically, anyways.

[Jjpayne]

I think it's attactive and fun to me. Oddly enough, I think it's cute 😂 it should be the opposite Right 😂

[ChiTown33]

I don't like people who call me bro. Man or woman. Cause you ain't my bro! Beyond that pretty much i don't care

[okadsa]

Wtf? Who the hell associates "ugh" and "oh man" with being "manly"? I've seen girls say those words lots of times!
Anyway to the actual question, nah I don't really care. It's not like you have to fit every single feminine stereotype just to be in a relationship with a man.

[CubsterShura]

It's not necessarily just that but just like the way I say them and what not... tbh I always knew I am not the most ladylike when talking but like he reminded me that again lol.

[okadsa]

@CubsterShura Don't pressure yourself to act how you think is "ladylike". Feel free to be yourself.

[Massageman]

Speak however you speak. Most guys will probably like it, as long as the voice is attached to a nice gal.

[AmeerX]

The girl I loved was called a tomboy but I loved her. She was almost like you described. She dressed so nicely.

[the_sinner]

It doesn’t matter at all.
Since when did certain phrases/words become gender specific anyway.

[shub09]

Thats absurd but not a turnoff.
life is full of mix people.. so like thisss, some like thattt.

[Calgarydirty69]

no, if they can't see past that, why you dating him/her

[knight2468]

I like boyish girl it’s a big turn on

[dragoblack]

No, it's actually more relaxing

[Gedaria]

At times...