What makes him deny his feelings for me?

[Deimy]

He acts differently with me than with other female friends: jokes in the group about sex with me, flirts, but id nervous with me in two, compliments my outfit, is protective of me and jealous when I mention my crushes. When I ask him what he feels for me he deny his feelings... The problem is that he often gets mean to me for no reason and starts to insult me. Still he initiates contact, when he see me he smiles and are very happy or confused. He was heartbroken and says that " love does not exist". Once I thought maybe he hates me... but when he thought something bad happened to me he was so afraid , started to text me, he said his heart was shaking... Why?

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Maybe you will explain it. It makes me sad cause I love him and my intuition says that he is feelimg really bad and fights his love.

[sheezuskist]

He adores you, yet he has a hard time showing you his true feelings, every guy gets jealous over a girls crushes, and that should be kept hush hush, if he asks about them, he's comparing himself to them, one thing I would be more concerned about his his aggressive behavior and name calling. Why is it easy for him to do that rather than express his feelings for you, find that out and then things might be easier to understand, perhaps his upbringing im sure has a lot to do with it, a father can leave long lasting impressions on a son not only good but also bad, not knowing howbto communicate is one thing, but being angry and not communicating is a whole different issue, and will end with no resolution, which leads to more and more questions and again more problems. A revolving door that never shuts, and a relationship that's unhealthy. something to look at now rather than when its too late.

[OutdoorsForLife]

He pities you

[Deimy]

What do you mean? Why he pities me?

[OutdoorsForLife]

He thinks you are inferior to him

[Deimy]

It is not logical , if I would be inferior to him he would never initiate contact or wanted to have sex with me, spend time with me..

[OutdoorsForLife]

Pity sex, he’s mean to you

[Deimy]

It does not make sense still , he has many female friends

[OutdoorsForLife]

No he doesn’t pity them, only you

[Deimy]

Why he should pity me

[OutdoorsForLife]

I don’t know you, why do you think?

[Deimy]

He does not pity me cause it is not logical.. he does not have any reason you just clearly can' t understand situation. Also, person who pities other is always kind to him, protects him, wants happiness for him. It does not describe my situation. I guess you wanted to insult me. Thank you.

[OutdoorsForLife]

Well why do you think he acts like that? You don’t think he’s cute right?

[Deimy]

He was always unlucky in love. I guess that he is afraid of love and he hates those feelings that he has for me. He once asked nervous when we were just two:,, if you like rich guys?". Called to me the last day before I have to move out from our university dormitory where he lived and he just asked about my exam. He was nervous, alone. I think he wanted to confess but was too afraid. Our mutual friends often tease him about liking me.

[OutdoorsForLife]

I mean if you like him and you think he likes you... why ask these repeated questions on gag?

[Deimy]

Cause I search people who was in the same situation, it is not so easy as you think, my friend surely has problems with himself and needs support.

[OutdoorsForLife]

Oh so you are not into him

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I don't know sorry