Are some women irreplaceable to some guys? Like some guys will forever remember a certain woman?

[Anonymous]

I’m dating a guy who I think still is in love with his ex who he dated a couple years ago. They only dated for maybe 8 months but he still is in love with her despite having not seen her for two years besides social media. He recently told me he is going on a trip and it’s her hometown city where she lives and now I just wonder if he is trying to see her. I have reasons why I think he still is in love with her but it’s too long to write here and I’m lazy, but I know he does.

[missiepie]

Yes I know for a fact that sometimes we meet somebody that is irreplaceable to us and don't get me wrong everybody's human but maybe he just has to figure out that she's not perfect maybe they broke up and he still had a perfect image of her if you know what I mean so now he's with you I'm not sure how long you been together but that perfect kind of wears off you know and exciting was off more than the perfect I mean but it gets him thinking about her in a slow times and then that can either turn into something or not but I think that you should hold on to this one thing that I'm going to tell you if in fact he does do something or goes to our hometown whatever if he has sex with her whatever if he does whatever with her let it happen I know that's so hard to hear cuz I'm not that girl either break up with me if you want to fine but be available like for him to talk to you and know that like if he straightened up and begs for forgiveness he'll forgive him you know you just want him to figure out she's not perfect he's got to be around her to do that once she shows her human and most of the time a man will be able to get over her but then again there's some women that they can't get over and that's not your fault or his you have someone else that's meant to be yours out there

[Siren777]

This is so sad as you cannot even talk to him about the way you feel. It doesn't help that he is mentioning going to her town. You should speak to him as soon as possible and voice your concerns.
To be honest I don't know why people would get into another relationship if they're not over their ex. You will hurt the next person in your life.

I do believe some are irreplaceable. However this does not give you the right to hurt the person you are currently with. Sometimes guys realize way too late that she was all he wanted or thought it couldn't work. When he return. Most of the time he does, it's usually too late. The one that got away, is always romanticized. We all will hold a special place for someone in our hearts. Besides they haven't seen eachother in 2 years so she probably moved on by now. If this causes you heartache i suggest you move on from it because longterm this will always be an issue if it doesn't get resolved.

[shade_19]

For me, my first girlfriend who is my ex now still is ones of the most special people I've had in my life
She taught me the real meaning of love, and I've seen that often people like me but she is the reason I'm so.
I wouldn't interfere in her life and love but I'm still and always be graceful to her
I still talk with her and whenever i do so i feel really really good
But it doesn't mean I'd poke her or i wouldn't love my girlfriend (if i make one in future)
Look , ur guy is still graceful to her and has indeed loved ger with all his heart
But it's not that u can love just ince in ur life... he can fall again in love, with u.. u just need to be the person
U don't need to replace his ex
U just need to be a person that he feels good to be with... that he doesn't need anyone else except u.. and only u... u don't need to force it or put ur life on it but it comes from the inside

[Ericky]

That story of yours seems a bit similar to mine. I loved someone but things did not work out. She's irreplaceable. It's been 7 years... I don't think of her too often as I 'used' someone else to get over her. My love life is total blank now whereas some years ago it was complicated. Just a piece of advice. If you really love him, try to 'pin him down' or else move on.

Guys like that will use you to get over their exes and then they will remain single like me. Don't misjudge me! That 'someone else' had bad intentions.

[oliboyboxer]

For me there’s always the one that got away, however as much as I think about her (which isn’t often) those thoughts are not generally about seeing her or getting back with her. Everyone has that one person who they wished things worked out differently, doesn’t necessarily mean they’ll proactively attempt to make that happen.

However a conversation over it wouldn’t hurt, sharing your insecurities about it which are completely natural and understandable. And it’s something you deserve from him at least if it’s got to the point that you’re aware and he’s bringing it up.

[Unit1]

Yeah, absolutely. My first prostitute masseuse was marvelous. She did a legendary performance for me. I miss her and it's been a year already.

[Anonymous]

Ya actually. Some will always have a special place in their heart. And for guys, such a woman will alwyas have a irreplaceable position inside his heart. It's better to break up now or else once his ex might even show a wee bit interest, you're gonna see them in doggy next sec.

[Jess1812]

Yes. There are some women that played crucial roles in a man's life that he will never forget. His first love, first kiss, first partners, etc. Or maybe a woman that was there for him when he needed her.

[Unit1]

Also correct.

[jgokgotit]

Yes. It is typically our first true love that is the one who is hard to forget. My first girlfriend was my first true love. We went out for a year. We have not been in contact for almost 10 years yet I still think about her sometimes.

[bjp23776]

As a guy who has been with over 100 women since I was 17 and I mean sexually. Some were hookup some relationships the answer is YES. at least 1 if not 2

[Asker]

What made the memorable?

[Stoner710]

Yea especially the first one or you were with her for a long time, I got a double whammy first girlfriend and was with her for 3 years so I still remember the good times we had.

[serious]

Yes some women are indeed irreplaceable. I strongly believe that and yes some men will always remember them and even stay with them for life

[Nik1hil]

Yes some women are irreplaceable to men.. And no matter how hard you try you cannot remove them from his life..
But you can join that list..
And becomes an irreplaceable women to him..

[hellacray]

Real life isn't like the movies.

Plenty of fish in the sea. You don't harp over one fish that got away.

[Ericky]

That's easy for you to say

[Asker]

@Ericky yeah I feel like that’s not really common to feel

[Xoirwinkan]

There's an idea about that men aren't romantic. Sometimes, women just won't let them.

[ItsjussZack]

Yea i still do but she ain't in my life so i moved on

[Tuna陶拿恆]

I don't think so, if he still can't move on, there will be problems in your relationship

[jasco]

Yea i imagine there will always be one or two women/men in someone's dating life which they will never ever forget

[StickStickity13]

We remember them, doesn't mean we can't live without them. ALL women are replaceable.

[TheFlak38]

I will forever remember my exes ass.

[Asker]

This is what I hope for most because all of my exes plus men in general have told me I had the nicest ass

[Midnight64]

No why bring up some bitch from my past that pussy old.

[ItsTheNephilim]

Yeah.

[BUNroaster]

Rarely but sure.