Yes we are simple most of us men don't have 6 , 10 or 20 pairs of shoes like many women do we generally have 3 pairs a pair of work shoes or boots , casual pair and a dress pair. We like simple because it's the easiest as we can focus on things we like rather than things we have to do so the simpler the better
Well I begun to realize that all this talk about which gender is this or that is an over-generalization (I for one only have 2 pairs of shoes). But I am referring to rather complexity variances between men when it comes to dating. I hear so many times that men want direct women who tell them straight up what is up but I find it usually scares guys off and would rather a girl who has some mystery about her. My ex had told me that he liked harder to get girls cuz men like a challenge. I've had many guys say they want direct girls but when she is direct call them easy, boring, or "too much". Now to be clear, I don't mean harder to get as in being immature and lying or acting hot/cold. But simply not being too upfront with feelings about them and where we see the relationship going. Guys would rather live in the present and take it by stride. We girls want to plan the relationship
a wise man was once asked "why do you not come to see me more often" he responded "because that question is nicer to hear than "why have you come to see me again""
everyone loses interest if you talk to them too often but that's a human thing not a man thing
I wouldn't say I'm simple, I come with a lot of baggage. But most guys I know seem simpler than me, and they all have partners.
I think I'd prefer a more straightforward girl. I dont pick up signal very well. If you'd have asked me out 5 hour after the first date it would have turned me off.
Well I can tell you from my experience it's true. Guys have told me straight up they like hard to get type. I don't mean all. But they are out there. And even ones who say they don't like it, get put off if they think you're an easy catch and tell them how much you like them too early
You've met some crazy dudes out there (probably Chads, if I had to guess), but regardless of that, you make it sound like most or all men like that, when that's definitely not the case. Most men probably f*cking HATE that "hard to get" bullsh*t. Men don't like to have their time wasted, nor do we play mind games and do subtlety. Those are all female specific traits.
Also you guys are confusing hard to get with playing games. When I say hard to get I don't mean deliberately being stand off-ish and ignoring, playing hot or cold. But just a woman who has a sense of mystery about her naturally.
Those "men" are weird. In fact If I were you I would question whether those "men" would be long term boyfriend material if they say one thing but do the other. You wouldn't miss out on an immature boy. Simply put - I say what I mean. Such silly games belong in kindergarten and not in the adulthood. I rather actually chase a higher salary than playing chasing skirts.
Most guys are simple feedm fuck m and run ur fingers through their hair when u hold them and most would be pretty happy people. But those that play games usually act like girls.
Everything you say is false about men and true for women. No reasonable man who respects himself "enjoys the chase". Chasing is feminine behaviour. It turns the vagina into the Sahara desert.
Well one of the most reasonable and minimal drama men I know enjoy a chase. I don't mean playing games. I think that when guys hear the word chase they think of playing games. I just mean girls that aren't always throwing everything out there. That are not jumping to get into a relationship because they think with their head and not just their feelings. That give space for the man to miss them. That sorta thing
Playing games, chasing and just having fun flirting with a girl are three different things. The only men who chase are desperate idiotic white knights who finish last if at all.
Well in my experience though I get guys by not being accessible. The more withdrawn I am emotionally, the more guys I get who want to seriously date me. If I start being vulnerable too soon it scares the guy. Like the guy I'm seeing now, it took him awhile to decide if he wanted to date me and when I gave him time away from me, that's when he wanted me
Me personally? I'm pretty simple. I tell you how it is and how I feel, so what you see is what you get. Sometimes it's a bad thing but other times it's a good trait
No. Most people claim this and that but in reality most people are a pain to deal with. Watch your local news and just pay attention around the world around you.
People are always moaning and complaining about something from Trump, Biden etc.
HOW OLD ARE THE PEOPLE YOUR DATING? at a certain age” both genders are tired of games. and one tells you that’s a spade, they really mean it’s a spade not a big spoon
A store that sells new husbands has just opened in New York City, where a woman may go to choose a husband. Among the instructions at the entrance is a description of how the store operates.
You may visit the store ONLY ONCE! There are six floors and the attributes of the men increase as the shopper ascends the flights. There is, however, a catch: you may choose any man from a particular floor, or you may choose to go up a floor, but you cannot go back down except to exit the building!
So, a woman goes to the Husband Store to find a husband...
On each floor the signs on the doors read:
Floor 1 - These men have jobs.
Floor 2 - These men have jobs and love kids.
Floor 3 - These men have jobs, love kids, and are extremely good looking. "Wow," she thinks, but feels compelled to keep going. She goes to the fourth floor and sign reads:
Floor 4 - These men have jobs, love kids, are drop-dead good looking and help with the housework. "Oh, mercy me!" she exclaims, "I can hardly stand it!" Still, she goes to the fifth floor and sign reads:
Floor 5 - These men have jobs, love kids, are drop-dead gorgeous, help with the housework, and have a strong romantic streak. She is so tempted to stay, but she goes to the sixth floor and the sign reads:
Floor 6 - You are visitor 3,261,496,012 to this floor. There are no men on this floor. This floor exists solely as proof that women are impossible to please. Thank you for shopping at the Husband Store.
THE WIFE STORE
Floor 1 - has wives that love sex.
Floor 2 - has wives that love sex and want a family
The third through sixth floors have never been visited.
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Yes we are simple most of us men don't have 6 , 10 or 20 pairs of shoes like many women do we generally have 3 pairs a pair of work shoes or boots , casual pair and a dress pair. We like simple because it's the easiest as we can focus on things we like rather than things we have to do so the simpler the better
Well I begun to realize that all this talk about which gender is this or that is an over-generalization (I for one only have 2 pairs of shoes). But I am referring to rather complexity variances between men when it comes to dating. I hear so many times that men want direct women who tell them straight up what is up but I find it usually scares guys off and would rather a girl who has some mystery about her. My ex had told me that he liked harder to get girls cuz men like a challenge. I've had many guys say they want direct girls but when she is direct call them easy, boring, or "too much". Now to be clear, I don't mean harder to get as in being immature and lying or acting hot/cold. But simply not being too upfront with feelings about them and where we see the relationship going. Guys would rather live in the present and take it by stride. We girls want to plan the relationship
a wise man was once asked "why do you not come to see me more often" he responded "because that question is nicer to hear than "why have you come to see me again""
everyone loses interest if you talk to them too often but that's a human thing not a man thing
I wouldn't say I'm simple, I come with a lot of baggage. But most guys I know seem simpler than me, and they all have partners.
I think I'd prefer a more straightforward girl. I dont pick up signal very well. If you'd have asked me out 5 hour after the first date it would have turned me off.
Literally everything about this post is wrong. I don't even know where to begin. 100% of it is incorrect.
Well I can tell you from my experience it's true. Guys have told me straight up they like hard to get type. I don't mean all. But they are out there. And even ones who say they don't like it, get put off if they think you're an easy catch and tell them how much you like them too early
You've met some crazy dudes out there (probably Chads, if I had to guess), but regardless of that, you make it sound like most or all men like that, when that's definitely not the case. Most men probably f*cking HATE that "hard to get" bullsh*t. Men don't like to have their time wasted, nor do we play mind games and do subtlety. Those are all female specific traits.
That's such crap, I've never known one guy ever who thought any of t
They might sound crazy since they are different then you but they are actually the most sane and logical men I ever met.
Also you guys are confusing hard to get with playing games. When I say hard to get I don't mean deliberately being stand off-ish and ignoring, playing hot or cold. But just a woman who has a sense of mystery about her naturally.
Those "men" are weird. In fact If I were you I would question whether those "men" would be long term boyfriend material if they say one thing but do the other. You wouldn't miss out on an immature boy.
Simply put - I say what I mean. Such silly games belong in kindergarten and not in the adulthood. I rather actually chase a higher salary than playing chasing skirts.
Most guys are simple feedm fuck m and run ur fingers through their hair when u hold them and most would be pretty happy people. But those that play games usually act like girls.
Everything you say is false about men and true for women. No reasonable man who respects himself "enjoys the chase". Chasing is feminine behaviour. It turns the vagina into the Sahara desert.
Well one of the most reasonable and minimal drama men I know enjoy a chase. I don't mean playing games. I think that when guys hear the word chase they think of playing games. I just mean girls that aren't always throwing everything out there. That are not jumping to get into a relationship because they think with their head and not just their feelings. That give space for the man to miss them. That sorta thing
Playing games, chasing and just having fun flirting with a girl are three different things. The only men who chase are desperate idiotic white knights who finish last if at all.
Well in my experience though I get guys by not being accessible. The more withdrawn I am emotionally, the more guys I get who want to seriously date me. If I start being vulnerable too soon it scares the guy. Like the guy I'm seeing now, it took him awhile to decide if he wanted to date me and when I gave him time away from me, that's when he wanted me
Me personally? I'm pretty simple. I tell you how it is and how I feel, so what you see is what you get. Sometimes it's a bad thing but other times it's a good trait
Both men and women are simple. It's just guys are straightforward about it, where women tend to hide it somehow.
Men think in straight lines.
Women think in mazes.
Men are direct women indirect
Well men aren't always direct. Sometimes they say certain things that they know will get "em laid, even if that means lying about how what they want.
That's called being. PLAYer
No. Most people claim this and that but in reality most people are a pain to deal with. Watch your local news and just pay attention around the world around you.
People are always moaning and complaining about something from Trump, Biden etc.
Riiggght
Pretty much.
"hard to get" turns often in arrogant and entitled. If a guy starts to feel contempt for a girl there is no way it turns in attraction again.
HOW OLD ARE THE PEOPLE YOUR DATING?
at a certain age” both genders are tired of games. and one tells you that’s a spade, they really mean it’s a spade not a big spoon
I would never respond negatively to a girl being direct with me. Directness is always welcome!
As long as you’re generalizing you won't ever know what “ men want “ every persona to their own
Simple where it counts. Guys who like bullshit mind games are fucked up somewhere deep. I don't care for the chase, I got better shit to do.
Yes we are.
All we want is.
1) a family
2) a wife who loves us
THE HUSBAND STORE
A store that sells new husbands has just opened in New York City, where a woman may go to choose a husband. Among the instructions at the entrance is a description of how the store operates.
You may visit the store ONLY ONCE! There are six floors and the attributes of the men increase as the shopper ascends the flights. There is, however, a catch: you may choose any man from a particular floor, or you may choose to go up a floor, but you cannot go back down except to exit the building!
So, a woman goes to the Husband Store to find a husband...
On each floor the signs on the doors read:
Floor 1 - These men have jobs.
Floor 2 - These men have jobs and love kids.
Floor 3 - These men have jobs, love kids, and are extremely good looking. "Wow," she thinks, but feels compelled to keep going. She goes to the fourth floor and sign reads:
Floor 4 - These men have jobs, love kids, are drop-dead good looking and help with the housework. "Oh, mercy me!" she exclaims, "I can hardly stand it!" Still, she goes to the fifth floor and sign reads:
Floor 5 - These men have jobs, love kids, are drop-dead gorgeous, help with the housework, and have a strong romantic streak. She is so tempted to stay, but she goes to the sixth floor and the sign reads:
Floor 6 - You are visitor 3,261,496,012 to this floor. There are no men on this floor. This floor exists solely as proof that women are impossible to please. Thank you for shopping at the Husband Store.
THE WIFE STORE
Floor 1 - has wives that love sex.
Floor 2 - has wives that love sex and want a family
The third through sixth floors have never been visited.
of course no , we have over 3 billion men in this planet , there is no way every single of them are same
Nope, we're actually simpler than we say we are. What we say is what we mean.