I don't think most guys care about breaking a woman's heart. I only broke up with one woman and it really bothered me. It was mutual but I still felt bad.
Sometimes... it depends on why we broke off the relationship. In some cases it's such a relief to get out that"breaking a heart" is the least of a concern. We're just so happy we survived and got out. It all depends.
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I feel awful... I’ve broken a girl’s heart several times and we keep getting back together. She wants to love me but I know she’s not what I’m looking for... I’ve told her this but she keeps coming back... I’m just lonely and I like her a lot, but she’s not right for me and I know this deep down... how can I break her heart again? No matter what I do it seems wrong
@devilish-cutie been giving it a try, but the signs are right in my face, I know it won’t work out in the long run. I know it has to end at some point. She’s cute but not really the kind of attractiveness I’m looking for, I am in way better shape. Besides that we just don’t have that strong intellectual connection I’m seeking, we are so different
I get you tried but maybe you didn't really give it a chance if you constantly think it won't work cause of reasons you listed. Also if you are so certain in your reasons its cruel to lead her on. So it seems to me that you aren't really certain of it.
@devilish-cutie I suppose I have allowed myself to become uncertain. It's more like I'm split. A very logical part of me knows it won't work out, but an emotional part doesn't want to let this person go. I wouldn't say I'm leading her on really, I've told her this so many times, she knows exactly what she's involved in.
I think you men make big mistakes thinking like that, more neglecting n discarding emotional input importance. Mind can trick you too. Values, emotions cannot be rationalized thsts why their story isn't irrelevamt. I think for right decisions you gotta align brain n emotions as much as ypu can.
@devilish-cutie yeah true... that’s what’s making me hesitant. Part of me thinks I should just keep it going and see where it goes, but I can already see it falling apart. We just aren’t meant for eachother but we have a good emotional connection so I can’t break it off right now I don’t think... I don't know I’m a mess honestly
Sometimes we want something that is only fiction n not rl, or dont know what is good for us or what we need. I think we also a lot just dont want someone completely in not to get her but that way we won't ever find love. Thats why i sqid, give it a proper chance like for real, without holding back, thinking it might actuwlly work out. And if it doesn't than properly move on. But u know do it all properly.
What men? Where? I’ve been made to believe that men are basically a luxury good that can be replaced on your next paycheck. Maybe don’t go after the guys that have already fucked every chick at the bar.
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No. Unless karma comes around and teaches them a lesson. Then they're sorry and realize what they've lost🙄
Of course! I regret every girl I ever hurt. But you can't fake feelings that aren't there. It's better for both of us to end it than to go on in a lie.
Yes. Although moat women think men are dogs... even dogs have hearts. When I was in college this teen girl had huge crush on me. Didn't give her a chance but yup still remember her
The same thing can be asked, do woman feel bad for breaking a heart? The answer is, it varies some do and some don’t design on whether they are jerks or not.
Not every heart, no. It's one thing if your time togeather caused the other harm but I think most people, not just guys, are able to reason away unanswered feelings.
Yes, But I would feel worse if I had strung her along.
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Do women feel bad for doing the same thing? Yes if a guy has a heart he's going to feel bad. But what does that have to do with anything. If he's not attracted to her he's just not.
They act like they do but they have little guilty about it. Women are the problem as well. She can be in love with scene or drama rather than the man they are with.
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Flip the question.
Do girl's.
The answer gonna be about the same.
Ask yourself.
Why should he?
Why should she be entitled of that he should feel bad because he doesn't have any feelings back?
I don't think most guys care about breaking a woman's heart. I only broke up with one woman and it really bothered me. It was mutual but I still felt bad.
Regarding update, if everyone has good answers why don't you " like" them?
Cuz I don't have time to like 69 answers
So you don't read them all? I'm not trying to be mean, I'm just curious.
No, I read them all. I just dont have to press like to all
Ok. I hope you didn't think I was giving you a hard time or anything like that.
Sometimes... it depends on why we broke off the relationship.
In some cases it's such a relief to get out that"breaking a heart" is the least of a concern. We're just so happy we survived and got out.
It all depends.
I feel awful... I’ve broken a girl’s heart several times and we keep getting back together. She wants to love me but I know she’s not what I’m looking for... I’ve told her this but she keeps coming back... I’m just lonely and I like her a lot, but she’s not right for me and I know this deep down... how can I break her heart again? No matter what I do it seems wrong
Maybe you dont really know what you need? Maybe give it a try?
@devilish-cutie been giving it a try, but the signs are right in my face, I know it won’t work out in the long run. I know it has to end at some point. She’s cute but not really the kind of attractiveness I’m looking for, I am in way better shape. Besides that we just don’t have that strong intellectual connection I’m seeking, we are so different
I get you tried but maybe you didn't really give it a chance if you constantly think it won't work cause of reasons you listed. Also if you are so certain in your reasons its cruel to lead her on. So it seems to me that you aren't really certain of it.
@devilish-cutie I suppose I have allowed myself to become uncertain. It's more like I'm split. A very logical part of me knows it won't work out, but an emotional part doesn't want to let this person go. I wouldn't say I'm leading her on really, I've told her this so many times, she knows exactly what she's involved in.
i get it, i just dont get why men always give more importance to rationality over emotions, love cannot really be rationalized but okay
@devilish-cutie because I’m thinking long term. Emotional decisions work in the moment, logical decisions hold up over time
I think you men make big mistakes thinking like that, more neglecting n discarding emotional input importance. Mind can trick you too. Values, emotions cannot be rationalized thsts why their story isn't irrelevamt. I think for right decisions you gotta align brain n emotions as much as ypu can.
@devilish-cutie yeah true... that’s what’s making me hesitant. Part of me thinks I should just keep it going and see where it goes, but I can already see it falling apart. We just aren’t meant for eachother but we have a good emotional connection so I can’t break it off right now I don’t think... I don't know I’m a mess honestly
Sometimes we want something that is only fiction n not rl, or dont know what is good for us or what we need. I think we also a lot just dont want someone completely in not to get her but that way we won't ever find love. Thats why i sqid, give it a proper chance like for real, without holding back, thinking it might actuwlly work out. And if it doesn't than properly move on. But u know do it all properly.
I think we also just dont want TO OPEN UP TO someone completely TO not to get HURT*
I don't like turning people down, but you have to reject people who want things you don't want. I don't really dwell on it afterwards.
Sometimes I think it just comes down to the relationship is falling apart and to even think of marriage would be just insanity.
What men? Where? I’ve been made to believe that men are basically a luxury good that can be replaced on your next paycheck.
Maybe don’t go after the guys that have already fucked every chick at the bar.
No. Unless karma comes around and teaches them a lesson. Then they're sorry and realize what they've lost🙄
Do girls even?
Of course! I regret every girl I ever hurt. But you can't fake feelings that aren't there. It's better for both of us to end it than to go on in a lie.
Yes. Although moat women think men are dogs... even dogs have hearts. When I was in college this teen girl had huge crush on me. Didn't give her a chance but yup still remember her
The same thing can be asked, do woman feel bad for breaking a heart? The answer is, it varies some do and some don’t design on whether they are jerks or not.
Yes
I always feel bad.
Lol I think you should be asking women this question.
Guys get rejected way more than women.
Yepp
When we first approach yes and all we know about her is a pretty face with no attachment yet.
yes. it haunts me, but i made the right decision. she might not have been right for me long term
Not every heart, no. It's one thing if your time togeather caused the other harm but I think most people, not just guys, are able to reason away unanswered feelings.
To the best of my knowledge, I have not broken a female heart.
Yes, But I would feel worse if I had strung her along.
Do women feel bad for doing the same thing? Yes if a guy has a heart he's going to feel bad. But what does that have to do with anything. If he's not attracted to her he's just not.
They act like they do but they have little guilty about it. Women are the problem as well. She can be in love with scene or drama rather than the man they are with.
I feel bad for betraying a side character in a game. Breaking someone's heart in real life will break my heart more.
It's unfortunate, but it is what it is. No doubt, I've done that, I don't want to know the details.