What does it mean when a guy says he wants you to fight for him?

[Anonymous]

a guy I dated told me that it seemed like I didn't care.. he said he wanted me to fight for him.. I'm nt sure what to do

[snaves04]

when he says he's gonna go home, say, "nooo, don't go sweetie, I'm not done kissing you yet!" or if a girl he knows/doesnt know, starts flirting with him in front of u...pop your hip out (body language, shows that your not going anywhere), give her the mean bitch look. if she doesn't catch on, then step in between your man and the girl saying, "back away from my man."

-this shows that you care enough about it him, that you don't want girls being all over him...that he is YOURS. like in his case, he should intervine if a guy is hitting on you when he obviously knows he's your boyfriend...he should protect you (makes us feel special). same goes with guys, they need to feel special.

also, if he tells you that a girl keeps txting him (flirty) and she knows you are with him, call her yourself and bitch her out. don't be too cruel, but don't be too light. if your too light, she won't get the message that he is your man and that's final.

hope that helped :)

[what_the_hell]

Omfg, how childish. What are we in the seventh grade? He can go fight for himself.

[udolipixie]

He wants to feel needed by you you could try asking him to do things, texting/calling him, initiating things, or best one nothing.

He's just going through an ego trip ignore it and don't feed into his attention seeking and validation behavior.

[Shyguy333]

He feels like you don't really care weather or not you two are hanging out/together with each other. This reminds me of my last girl. I could never read her because before we realized that we were attracted to each other so much she was inviting me to come hang out with her and like 5 other guys I didn't know. It turned out she thought they were creeps but it she made me feel like I was just another guy vying for her attention.

So... what you need to do is take some initiative and go after him.

[diabloknk]

He wants you to do more to try and get his attention. He feels like you're not trying hard enough, and it makes him insecure, since it doesn't feel like you care.

[what_the_hell]

His insecurities and low self esteem are not her problem

[Quadrophonic84]

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