He knows I'm taken - is he still trying to hit on me?

[AnonyWoman4309]

This is a friend of mine which I had an encounter with before. Earlier today I told him I was taken. We were planning to game after I finished some work and then this happened. Is he hitting on me? And if so what should I do?

[Anonymous]

He’s definitely trying to slide some flirting in there lol I don't know why it seems like guys get more interested once they know you’re taken, like it makes the game more fun for them or some shit. Anyway, even if that guy is a friend I wouldn’t carry on back and forth like that anymore. Yes your end has been harmless but now that he’s being flirty, time to reign it in a bit. Like Already I feel like it means a lot when you get into a relationship and the guy isn’t anal about you having male friends — that’s such a vibe. But respect his trust, and make those male friends respect your new boundaries, as a girlfriend. Once the flirting starts, just go silent or draw the line again. Maybe they aren’t used to these boundaries but they need to adjust. If they can’t then they were never truly interested in your friendship and want that single version of you again.

[oreojap]

You're taken, he's disregarding that. Check him (respectfully) for the sake of your relationship. If he doesn't respect your boundaries or relationship, he isn't likely to respect you. If that weren't the case he would have left things alone when you said it didn't sound sexual. Even if he is just horny, you being his friend in a relationship means you aren't someone to share those thoughts with

[spartan55]

Lol, no, I don't think so.

[COMMODOREII]

What are you going to game?

[Hydrogen]

One horny mf🤣