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Have you ever felt so down and can't figure out the reason?

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Have you ever felt so down and cant figure out the reason?
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  • AmandaYVR
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    No I always know the reasons.
    It's almost always an accumulative effect - like one thing you can handle, but when there's randomly suddenly multiples big, unsolvable issues, that's when it really gets too much. That can lead to a downward spiral of thinking. But being proactive and doing things to try and bust up the log jam... that helps sometimes. Passivity is a life stagnator. And when you really can't do anything to improve those issues, just being kind to yourself, taking a break, curling up, and throwing the covers over for a bit, that's important.

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  • Anonymous
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    I can, I know what to do but can't actually do.
    I lost 6 friends recently as I realized they were fake and 1 of my love interest got married to an outrageous woman.
    So I'm very very depressed. I feel very alone and undeserving of love. I am speechless and can't do anything. I can't magically make 3 new true friends or find the man of my dreams.

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    • roy_ricky09
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      I'm really sorry

  • TurboKid
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    Not down so much but I turn kind of crazy. Things start irritating me more, I get upset out of the blue, etc. It usually happens when someone close to me passes away for the following months. But it's like I don't know what's wrong with me since the type of thoughts that might be bothering me are subconscious and not something I can properly bring to the surface.

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    • roy_ricky09
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      Did you try to notice what triggers it

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    • TurboKid
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      I figure it was the passing of those close people, but it didn't consciously register. It's like, "I'm getting moody for no apparent reason," and that was happening even months after their death. Looking back, I think it was that, but at the time I was just getting irritated or upset out of the blue for reasons I couldn't consciously explain to myself.

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    • roy_ricky09
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      Exactly.

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    • TurboKid
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      I had a colleague who also did that when his father passed away. He had a phase where he was obviously upset but then for the following months, he became all irritable and angry often which was uncharacteristic of him since he was so mellow before, and in ways that I'm not sure he even understood as potentially tying back to the passing of his father. I think with those kinds of really traumatic cases, it's difficult to consciously figure out what's bothering us.

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    • roy_ricky09
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      That's true. I'm sorry to hear about your loss.

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    • TurboKid
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      Cheers! I'm over it now. One thing I found helpful though is to try to cultivate positive thinking. I found a lot of wisdom in Stoicism and Buddhism that helped me even when I couldn't exactly pinpoint what was bothering me. At least I could mitigate it by directing my thoughts towards things that cheered me up.

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  • Sonorous
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    Yes & it usually happens when my perception of reality isn't aligning with observed occurrences. So, something would need to be mentally reconfigured, which can be a very painful thing to realize because there can be many implications attached to it. Many with unknown elements.

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    • roy_ricky09
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      Yes. I agree

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    • Sonorous
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      I do believe it can be known if we ask ourselves the right questions though.

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  • candleteabrunch
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    I just watch nostalgic youtube videos or old cartoons/old movies from my youth on youtube. Cheers me up everytime. Never ending nostalgic content. Especially old movies old toons. And just being appreciate. I'm always happier when i stop and reflect that: hey i ain't homeless or hey i ain't in jail or hey i ain't broke but just low-income. Lol.

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    • roy_ricky09
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      I understand, haven't you tried to know or understand why

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    • candleteabrunch
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      If you need professional help seek professional help. I know i'm fine. I have my moody days but i'm just a little bipolar. It's easy to manage. And that's how i thrive. Peace out :)

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    • candleteabrunch
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      No and not necessary for me. But again seek a professional like a psychologist. I have been to one many times. Always helpful their strategies were and still are to me. Be well. Peace out.

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    • roy_ricky09
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      Oh.. I'm sorry. It's not that I'm feeling like it. Though it's a difficult situation to be in.

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  • FictionalCharacter
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    Yes. Depression, stress and anxiety just sneak up on you. Even if you are doing something productive.

    I’ve had a couple of panic attacks just randomly when I wasn’t even stressed or depressed. One while driving and another while I was asleep.

    So I call my parents about it, or I watch something entertaining on tv, then I probably take a tranquilizer to relax my body for a bit.

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    • roy_ricky09
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      I understand. Thanks for sharing

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  • On_cloud_wine
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    There’s always a reason. I hate to even think that doctors actually prescribe depressants to those who actually have a reason.

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    • roy_ricky09
      roy_ricky09
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      I believe not everyone is strong enough to get out if the situation is not good, and meds help.

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    • On_cloud_wine
      On_cloud_wine
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      No matter how scary a drastic change is whether it be moving out or cutting someone off and out of your life, that needs to come from inside. Meds just help you cope longer with your current situation

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    • On_cloud_wine
      On_cloud_wine
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      When maybe you need to make a drastic life altering change for your own well being

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    • roy_ricky09
      roy_ricky09
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      You are absolutely right.

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    • On_cloud_wine
      On_cloud_wine
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      Don’t cope with something you don’t deserve. Blinded by drugs.. no way ever I’ll let that happen

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    • On_cloud_wine
      On_cloud_wine
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      I think I am. Just know. It might feel unreal but it has to be done for your health. Life is way too short not to be happy

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    • roy_ricky09
      roy_ricky09
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      We live a while, and then we die sooner than we planned.

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    • On_cloud_wine
      On_cloud_wine
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      No one really knows when they’re going to die, but it’s best to live and learn and love like you’ll live forever

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    • On_cloud_wine
      On_cloud_wine
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      We’re all in the same boat

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    • roy_ricky09
      roy_ricky09
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      Amen

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    • On_cloud_wine
      On_cloud_wine
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      Amen 🙏 lol

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  • exitseven
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    Yes. Sometimes it is real depression. I always describe it as having nothing to push against when I get sad. Usually I can channel enough emotion to drive it away. It feels like i am paddling but there is no water to push against/.

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  • myNameIsProfile
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    Yeah, plenty of times.

    To help deal with it, I watch shounen type anime, sometimes play video games and work on my Business (which is also fun to me, makes me feel like I'm progressing... obviously 😅).

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    • roy_ricky09
      roy_ricky09
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      Lol... Which is?

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    • myNameIsProfile
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      The progressing and business part, it was kinda no point of me putting the "makes me feel like I'm progressing" part since it's inherent to the process... my bad 😅

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  • NoLookingAtSoleil
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    Yes.
    Can't figure out why the Flemish are so shy on the one side, then so noisy and blunt on the other.
    The dating rituals here seem bizzare (almost self defeating) to me.
    What do I do? Cross the lines and complain about it. Life is too short to be depressed.

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  • Woman1
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    Yes, I have depression and that is my most prominent symptoms, along with exhaustion and the random urge to cry. If it lasts for over a month or you feel yourself thinking about death more than usual I recommend seeing a professional.

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  • rievious
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    I go use a sensory deprivation chamber for an hour. I always come out looking at life through fresh eyes.

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    • roy_ricky09
      roy_ricky09
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      I bet when you get out, you know the reasons and how to not let it happen again

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    • rievious
      rievious
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      Its an hour in my own head and no distractions. Even gravity can't distract me while I'm in there. I love it and I need to do it again soon.

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  • dray995
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    No, I usually know why or what it is that is making me feel “down”.

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    • roy_ricky09
      roy_ricky09
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      How or what do you do to figure out

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    • dray995
      dray995
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      Like I said, I already know.

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  • innerman
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    Xper 6 Age: 31
    +1 y

    Video 🎮games.


    Go to a world of fantasies

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    • roy_ricky09
      roy_ricky09
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      Don't you try to figure out the reason?

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    • innerman
      innerman
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      i rather look for the cure

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    • roy_ricky09
      roy_ricky09
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      Right. How would you cure something that you don't know about

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    • innerman
      innerman
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      Same way we believe in God but never seen said “God”

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  • SpiderManFan2002
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    Nah, I always know the reason lol, I’m way too self-aware lol😂🤠🤠

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    • Still-alive
      Still-alive
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      spidermanfan with the awareness yeahh

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  • Omario2049
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    Xper 5 Age: 38
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    Yes of course. But you just allow it to flow for maybe a day or so then find something you like to do and do it with people u like and that'll uplift u. I find being down is usually a sign U're not currently persuing ur purpose.

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  • Raph37
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    This happen to me before. I don't want to get all godly, but I needed god in my life.

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  • TommyMountainFigure
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    Yes I have. I get out of the house and go for a run. I find that invigorating..

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  • oldawg
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    Yes it seems to happen to me quite a few times and I have no idea why.

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  • The_Outlaw
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    I'm aware of why most of the time, but it's kind of hard to really do anything about it at present. It just tends to stick.

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  • blindedd
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    yes, a little more often than i would like to feel lol.

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  • XavierSteele
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    Yes my life has been marked with depression and anxiety to the point of immobility. I've figured out that mine is a chemical imbalance.

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    • roy_ricky09
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      Are you doing anything for it

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    • XavierSteele
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      Yes I am seeing a therapist and a psychiatrist. They've given me some psychotropic medication about four of them. Plus the medical weed is pretty good for anxiety and overall mental health.

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    • roy_ricky09
      roy_ricky09
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      That's great. Any side effects?

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    • XavierSteele
      XavierSteele
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      No none that I can tell. I function pretty well. Thankfully I don't have need to leave the house often since my office is there lol

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  • Iron_Man u
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    When that happens it's usually bad weather and you're bored

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  • InferiorElegy
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    A lot. Just look at me, there's nothing about me that makes me feel good. Sure I keep in shape but that's all I can really do.

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  • Ninani
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    Have you tried to feel your emotions instead of just reacting to them?

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  • Fateeymah
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    +1 y

    Yeah i used to have this problem, am kinda always bored and somehow depressed and dont really knw what my problems are am just broken can't figure anything, sometimes I sat and cry alone.

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  • MCheetah
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    No. I always know the reason why I feel unhappy.

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    • roy_ricky09
      roy_ricky09
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      What do you do to snap out of it

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    • MCheetah
      MCheetah
      +1 y

      Watch funny YouTube videos.
      Play games on Steam.
      Go to the gym, if COVID hasn't closed it.
      Go on a long bicycle ride.
      Take a long shower.
      Possibly masturbate if I haven't done so that week.

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    • roy_ricky09
      roy_ricky09
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      Hahahaha... Good ones.. Lol

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  • ProfaneBloom
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    I mean I think about why I feel the way I do and most of the time it boils down to my ex girlfriend

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  • WalkingBassist
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    I have felt this way numerous times. There are several ways to get out of it.

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  • Anonymous
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    It's probably diet and lack of exercise. Or me running from. Issue

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  • RichardCranium6201
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    Yup. I do. A lot actually.

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    • roy_ricky09
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      Thanks for sharing. How do you figure it out or snap out of it

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    • RichardCranium6201
      RichardCranium6201
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      Occupy your mind with other things. Like hang out with a friend. Or put yourself around people. So that u can hear other conversations. Or go to sleep. Do something you like to do. I don't know. Sometimes i just embrace it.

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    • roy_ricky09
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      Interesting.

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  • karaspara
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    Yes my depression and anxiety is a very real issue in my life

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  • diemydarling
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    sometimes every person can feel like that but the important part is how you are reacting to your feelings and yourself. just accept that problem and listen to your inside completely.

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  • Brainsbeforebeauty
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    I normally know the reason

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  • askGAG
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    I feel down all the time but i know the reasons and i know they can't be solved.

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  • ariadneR
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    Yes.
    I figure it out after.

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  • Guanfei
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    Yeah. And it lasted until today.

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  • michael1469
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    Yes, thanks to my employees.

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  • Anonymous
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    No that's called crazy

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  • BeMuse
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    Nope.

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  • Anonymous
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    Yep, I am rn

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    • roy_ricky09
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      Oh I'm sorry. I'm sure you know what caused it

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  • queenish_
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    Yeah sometimes

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  • holhartedly
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    All the time

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  • Jxrdyn_13
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    Depression

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  • Hotboy_booblover
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    363 opinions shared on Guy's Behavior topic.

    Yes sometimes..

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    • roy_ricky09
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      Figured out why?

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  • Anonymous
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    I pray

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  • Dinosaursandanime65
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    Yeah, last December.

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  • anylolone
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    861 opinions shared on Guy's Behavior topic.

    Not for long.

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  • Agape93
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    Yeah

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  • jaeminshypewoman
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    nope

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