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Why do men cheat with unattractive women? (Page 2)
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Hmmm you should ask him. But in all honesty why are you with such an idiot. Stupid girls too many.
I did ask him. He told me a bit but doesn’t understand much of what was fuelling his actions. So he told me to get the opinions of others.
This question is another reminder of how I envy and resent, am bitter towards teenage couples, because it's a reminder that I went on zero dates in my teenage years
Yeah we’re sorta more adults. Kids grow up too fast here especially in the poor parts.
Ya, I resent young couples like that because it's a reminder of a youth I didn't have and I feel guys, men, deserve to get angry or upset over missing out on years like that more than women because the burden of taking or accepting responsibility for one's life or situation is expected of men more than women, men are always the ones expected to get off their ass and do something about it
True but I’m just telling you that you didn’t miss out on much
To each their own I guess but I feel like I did
I know having a partner like you.. why will a guy need to cheat in the first place? Irrespective of whoever it is
Exactly
Men like women who are lower than him.
He will cheat again
Ngl some unattractive women got some banging bodies. I am single and I am loving it
True. Hers wasn’t better than mine by a long shot though. It was average.
You look like u got a fire body. Have you heard of awaken with jp?
Well she’s less attractive so she can’t afford to play hard to get ITS ELEMENTARY ‼️ WATSON‼️😂
😂😂😂
I think because they want to test their flirting skills.
Maybe yeah
I think he went with her so they could both do drugs and just made something else up or maybe it is the truth but I definetly dont think its all of the truth
Take your youth and double DDs and move on. You can love a rich man just as easily as a cheater, who isn't wealthy in soul or otherwise.
True
Wealthy men also cheat lol I would advice you to date guys who earn as much you do. they won't cheat at least based on my experience
So wouldn’t you rather be with a rich man than cheated than a bum ass?
@emilym12345 I would prefer to not get cheated and it also depends is that rich men old? Is he ugly? because I literally can't touch a old men but if he is good looking and young than of course I would prefer him
your boyfriend sounds like a psycho and you are missing out on better guys by being with him lol
Wow your rowing coaches sexually abused you? That's messed up , how old were they?
Late 40s. Sadly, it’s common in sports. It happened to a lot of other girls too not just me. It started when I was 16
What is an attractive woman and an unattractive woman? can someone explain to me?
By the way, your boyfriend is very ugly. doesn't look like a man. like your twin
I full hold the belief that beauty is in the eye of the beholder but a major factor is how you present yourself and whether you take care of yourself. This girl had the potential to look good. However, the drugs she was taking left her disfigured. As in broken teeth, wrinkles at 17, and she didn’t even take the time to brush her hair. There’s something really unattractive about harmful addictions. Especially drug use.
Fully*
Fully?
I wouldn't if am going to cheat it better be worth it
Maybe she gave him the love and affection that you couldn’t
You look too pretty for that loser anyways 😊
He thinks she has a better bod
Probably this.
Nah she definitely didn’t. He said it was about power. He said he wanted someone less attractive than me to essentially manipulate and fuck with so he could feel dominant.
He should be able to dominate you. Tell him to step up
I don’t like domination complexes in relationships I see them as toxic to the well-being of the person deemed submissive.
Obv not talking about the relationship in general. A successful relationship is with partners who each lead in the areas they have the most skills and experience. Any relationship where one person is always in charge isn’t successful
I don’t try to be the only person in charge.
Never said you try
I could never figure that out.
maybe because she is really hot in bed
He’d only seen pictures of her with a Snapchat filter on and she still looked bad and she barely showed her body to him. They never met in person and he didn’t see her naked.
Maybe she had more personality.
Definitely did not. She could barely text anything coherent and have nothing going for her. That’s why he picked her. That’s what he said.
He said he wanted to hurt her? That is pure evil!
and he hurt you too I guess that’s your worst fear has come to reality. Sucks!
Maybe she'd down for stuff you're not.
I’m just not a skank. I don’t see why women have to put in constant sexual situations they don’t enjoy so dudes won’t run away. Dating men seems like owning a dog. Constantly making sure every one of their individual needs are satisfied. Expect, unlike a dog, you don’t receive the same love back. It’s selfish really. Then they can one day be like “fuck you if you’re not going to give me a blowjob then I’ll find someone else”. It adds no value to anything. Im sick of misogynistic dudes going on and on about evolutionary hardwiring blah blah blah. A man who doesn’t stick around because one woman is willing to degrade herself more for his approval adds ZERO value. Like imagine if women did the same shit?
Let me be very clear. The dude you're dating (or hopefully daTED) is a piece of shit for cheating and if you haven't broken up I'd be shocked. What he didn't excusable, I'm just trying to give you a reason. You shouldn't have to change.
Thank you for your explanation. It’s probably true. I’m just ranting because I try so hard to be sexually active. But because of the sexual abuse I faced a lot of the time it just triggers me.
That sounds rough, i can't imagine. Any girl should be able to get a guy that would want to support her through that and want her to find enjoyment from it again. Or at least try to.
Any woman willing to stay with a cheater, sexually or emotionally is just stupid. They’ve already proven that they aren’t loyal. Their self-control obviously isn’t as strong as their loyalty to you.
The trust never goes back to normal. They beg you to stay with them and give you half-ass apologies.. it’s a slow deception.. if you accept it then you’re probably just good at self-sabotage.
*them
Same reason why women cheat with unattractive men
I can’t relate to that aye 😂
Then neither can we
They will do anything he wants sexually
It wasn’t a sexual thing it was a game of mental manipulation. He wanted her to suffer.
They make them feel special like they matter
When you’re on ecstasy every girl is beautiful n
He cheated period. Dump him
Well you didn't make a good choice
Sex and attention men crave both
I reckon it had a lot more to do with attention
Easy sex.
He didn’t want to have sex with her. Didn’t try to and didn’t even ask her for nudes.
@Jaaanellie
According to who? Him? Surely he wouldn't lie...
I didn't know they did
For the same reason women do
Boring sex at home
It wasn’t a sex thing
He didn’t want to hookup with her and didn’t ask her for nudes.
Men usually cheat for sex, especially with a unattractive woman. Guys don't usually tell a woman, that the sex is no good.
Only other thing is if you have a really bad personality, so he is looking it from elsewhere. A connection, but not that likely.
He said he just got a kick out of leading her on and hurting her. She looks weirdly like his mother and is a drug addict like his mother as well as a run away like his mother. I reckon it was some fucked up way of dealing with trauma.
Beauty is subjective
Yeah but he also thinks she’s ugly. He said that’s why he went for her. She was someone less attractive than him so she would get all excited that someone better looking than her would show interest. Also, yes, beauty is subjective. However, when someone doesn’t take care of themselves at all and takes substances constantly that make them physically deteriorate they’re making themselves ugly. Maybe she could be pretty if she didn’t destroy herself.
Insecure men do that
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