He can have any girl why me?

[Anonymous]

This guy is a pretty famous rapper/singer in my area and he literally has girls falling head over heels for him. Why me? It makes me feel bad. Guys what is something that puts a girl over any other girl?

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+1 y

No I don’t want him back and have been telling him to go w another girl but he insists on me. I had to delete some comments saying I looked ugly physically because that’s not the issue at hand at all. If you’re going to go troll show your pathetic dumb ass face and don’t do it anonymously bitch. He told me he doesn’t want me for sex he really wants me to be his girlfriend I guess so no he isn’t trying for a one night stand for those of you that keep saying that too.

[420Rachel]

There are many factors as to why someone is attracted to us, our personalities, our sense of humor, the way we look at life, etc. He thinks you're special for some reason! Of course, he is a man and some men WILL and DO say anything to get a girl they find attractive to sleep with him. "People want what they can't have" is a solid truth. Proceed with caution. Tell him you want to get to know him, maybe see if he wants to get coffee or go to dinner. That is if you're interested, if not then let it be.

[Dvchill]

So he does like u. I would say more then just a one night stand but your looks are def a factor… looks draw us in personality gets us to stay. But I have never approached a girl unless I thought she was attractive… and it also depends on what I’m going for that woman on how attractive she has to b.. the more u r going to b in my life the more attractive I have to find u… soooo one night stand u have to b a 6 or higher date u have to b like a high 7or 8 and go steady 9. And this number starts off as looks and as I get to know u personality factors into the number friends with benefits have to be like a 8 if they want this 8 on the reg 😂😈

[Grond21]

He likes who you are. As a person.

Isn't that great? Is there something that makes you not like him in return?

That's fine if there is. It's just it having a guy who is genuinely interested in you, and who you are and wants to be emotionally connected to you, that's the dream for most girls

[Anonymous]

It’s because you’re so insecure that he believes you’ll eventually give in and then when he’s had you sexually, he can as easily dump you because you don’t value yourself anyway, so he won’t have to feel bad because of what he did.

[Asker]

Now who tf said I’m insecure sis? 🥰

[Opinion Owner]

I’m saying that because you told him that you’re not good enough etc. That’s not even insecure, but low self esteem to be fair.

[Opinion Owner]

Insecurity**

[Asker]

I didn’t say I wasn’t good enough, I’m just saying there are other beautiful girls out there that want him, why doesn’t he go with a girl that actually likes him back you know

[Opinion Owner]

I understand that, but your mentality is rooted in insecurity despite you not being able to see it. Your response should be “Well yes it’s no doubt that he wants me, because I’m AS beautiful as other girls and I bring so much talent to the table. It’s no wonder he’s insisting that we get together”. 💖

[chriscdi]

Maybe he has feelings for you or is just completely lonely now, money and fame can't buy loyalty, all the people around him are in his life clearly for his career not for him, the only one that was in his life for him was you and now he don't got you so now he cryin

[Caliguy88]

I have literally had multiple girls I’ve been with ask me about this. Why them….. And they have all been super hot, fun, etc…. Just be confident. You obviously have something pretty good to be confident of the guy that can get anyone is with.

[Lj0011]

You're attractive. at least people find you attractive and engage with you.. I can't get a damn date or anyone finding me attractive

[Asker]

Okay but he said it wasn’t based upon my looks

[Lj0011]

Well you're attractive. Then you have the cherry on top because you have an attractive personality. Believe it or not some guys want that. Also you wouldn't be physical or interest in someone if you didn't find them physically attractive.

[scooogy]

If you fulfill a guy's individual needs. My ex-crush was a great listener, but since she could care less about covid and her hashimoto, I don't bother anymore.

[Tstrbrainer]

More than your looks, you might have a personality that interests him.

It's alright if you don't feel back the same towards him.
He'll understand in time

[spartan55]

I don't understand, why would it make you feel bad?

[Asker]

It makes me feel bad that I don’t like him back

[spartan55]

You aren't obligated to like anyone, that is absurd.

[Asker]

I know but it sucks to break someone’s heart yk

[spartan55]

I really don't think he will care tbh

[Asker]

He’s been waiting on me for like 2 years so I guess not seems like he just doesn’t give up smh

[Rawkman]

You are really attractive sweetie, And you have a great personality so I understand why he's so into you 😘😊

[Anonymous]

Thrill of the chase.

Pretty funny to see that even if you are knocking pussy away with a stick you still find a way to act like a complete tool.

Thats people for you.

[Opinion Owner]

The guy is full of shit.

[Bklynbadboy12]

Maybe your bringing something to the table the other aren't dont sell yourself short

[Anonymous]

He wants to fuck.
He even said "If you ever need sum you know where to hit me."

[Asker]

That’s slang for “something” sir

[Opinion Owner]

It could be slang for some.
As in some sex.
Either way he's trying to penetrate your lady parts.

[Bismarck_96]

Probably wants a 1 night stand "can't be friends" or wants something serious but ig it's the 1 night

[Asker]

No he doesn’t

[Clarke498]

Is that you in the profile pic?

[Asker]

Yes it is

[Clarke498]

If you're the option other girls won't be necessary

[Joker_]

He has taken a liking to your ass

[rapfan107]

He likes them chaparras😝

[Jerre]

He obviously finds you/your body attractive.

[Asker]

He said “it’s not about your looks girl”

[Shoichiro]

@sheyhoney and I said I was born on Mars. I could be telling the truth but I also could be lying. Someone saying something does not mean that what they said was the truth.

[malwins]

ThAts already a wrong mindset to have

[malwins]

U should have a mindset of „my presence is a present“

[malwins]

Wait! Did he fuck 😂😂😂 already

[Asker]

I know my presence is a present lol it’s just mind jarring that he keeps trying even tho I already told him no. And no he didn’t

[Hispanic-Cool-Guy]

He desires to get into them guts.

[Hispanic-Cool-Guy]

Meaning sex.

[ShadowedSoul]

Cuz you have a wild body any guy will fall for.

[Diya010]

He like you

[Anonymous]

You are gorgeous.

[ItsMeItsMe1989]

why not

[Anonymous]

He loves fat girls

[Opinion Owner]

It’s just your area, he’s a big fish in a small pond. He’s most likely not gonna be famous ever. He has a 1.273737373737 chance he’ll make it big time world wide like professional rappers we see make it big everyday

[Opinion Owner]

Did he beat that booty up yet?