If guy shows concerned for a girl’s safety (who he barely knows) does he like her?

[Anonymous]

Opinions?

[Fireguy17]

sometimes it is just how they are, it could be how they were raised, or they could just be genuinely concerned with people.
I have been a firefighter/emt for 38 years and counting, and I am the same way.
It is just how I am. It doesn't mean anything thing else.
Possibly others might have an ulterior motive behind it, but take it how it was ment.

[Asker]

Me and and my crush don’t really know each other that well and we’ve only had small talk on Instagram so far lol.
During our last conversation I brought up me traveling to turkey.. it was during that time when Turkey had wildfires. When we talked it was right before I left for holiday.
Me and him were talking about me visiting a city that was in the area that had wildfires. He was like oh no, hopefully you aren’t traveling to south turkey? When I said that I’m actually going there to south turkey. He was like that’s quite bad , what’s the situation there? I told him that the wildfires are quite far from the city that I’m going to. He warned me that wildfires usually spread really quickly. He told me to be careful and at the same calm me down by saying “they’ll go away soon”

he seemed to be caring despite not knowing me that well lol.

[Jake99999]

No way to be sure. I am always concerned for the safety of others, women or not, and would look out for anyone if I could.

[Anonymous]

He could genuinely be concerned or he could just be saying the right things to try and seem gentlemanly. Either way he’s trying to be a nice person and maybe that’s because he wants to impress 🙂

[jennifer_bloom]

I don’t think so, I know guys who are protective of morbidly obese 40-60 year old woman, it’s their instinct to protect.

[Jamie05rhs]

Well, he at least cares about her. (Most decent people do care about others.). Maybe he likes her, too. It's a possibility.

[Asker]

Me and and my crush don’t really know each other that well and we’ve only had small talk on Instagram so far lol.
During our last conversation I brought up me traveling to turkey.. it was during that time when Turkey had wildfires. When we talked it was right before I left for holiday.
Me and him were talking about me visiting a city that was in the area that had wildfires. He was like oh no, hopefully you aren’t traveling to south turkey? When I said that I’m actually going there to south turkey. He was like that’s quite bad , what’s the situation there? I told him that the wildfires are quite far from the city that I’m going to. He warned me that wildfires usually spread really quickly. He told me to be careful and at the same calm me down by saying “they’ll go away soon”

he seemed to be caring despite not knowing me that well lol.

[Jamie05rhs]

That's great. All of these things are good signs.

Is he from Turkey himself?

[Asker]

No he isn’t but he’s been there. Do u think he was worried/ caring?

[Jamie05rhs]

Yes, he was definitely caring about you and concerned for your safety.

[Asker]

Do you think he’s interested or just friendly?

[Jamie05rhs]

Do you know him at all? Have you ever met? What is the background story? How did you two become acquainted?

[Asker]

I know him barely. In the past he had mutual friends (long time ago) ever since he saw me with mutual friend and after out brief conversation in real life he has recognized me in public and even stared. Long time ago he even told me that I’m pretty so he at least did found me attractive.

I decided to follow him in Instagram. He from time to time reply to each other stories. He usually reaches when ai’ve posted a life event to congratulate me etc. when I’ve reached out to him he always responds and is friendly. I don't know should I keep talking ir just forget about him.

[Jamie05rhs]

Hmm. Hard to tell. Do you even know if he's single?

[Asker]

I’m not sure if he’s. Why would he bother to reply to my story and congratulate me if he’s taken…

[Jamie05rhs]

Hmm. I don't know. Some people are just friendly. ... But it is true that taken people usually have less time to send greetings like that.

[Jamie05rhs]

I think the fact that he stared is a key element here. I think that's a major clue telling you that he IS interested.

[Asker]

Why isn’t he messging me first then?

[Jamie05rhs]

He has messaged you. He's asking you about your trip. Just continue the conversation with him.

[Asker]

U mean continue initiating conversations with him?

[Jamie05rhs]

Lol. The conversation has already been initiated. Just keep talking. It's not as complicated as you're making it out to be.

[JosyJosy]

Could be, could not be. Some people are just genuinely concerned about others

[RasberrySlushPuppy]

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Gmk96hKThPc

[RasberrySlushPuppy]

this is very concerning 😁

[JosyJosy]

@RasberrySlushPuppy not in my eyes, I'm a killer main XD

[RasberrySlushPuppy]

@JosyJosy you so scary

[Majeston]

More information needed.

[Asker]

Me and and my crush don’t really know each other that well and we’ve only had small talk on Instagram so far lol.
During our last conversation I brought up me traveling to turkey.. it was during that time when Turkey had wildfires. When we talked it was right before I left for holiday.
Me and him were talking about me visiting a city that was in the area that had wildfires. He was like oh no, hopefully you aren’t traveling to south turkey? When I said that I’m actually going there to south turkey. He was like that’s quite bad , what’s the situation there? I told him that the wildfires are quite far from the city that I’m going to. He warned me that wildfires usually spread really quickly. He told me to be careful and at the same calm me down by saying “they’ll go away soon”

he seemed to be caring despite not knowing me that well lol.

[Majeston]

Well that helps; we have some very dubious mansplaining here which could indicate a try at sounding knowledgeable and caring. So he gets one out of two—could be worse.

But still not enough to say anything for sure. Give him more opportunities to react to things in your life and you'll figure it out, most likely.

[Asker]

This is not first time when he tries to sound knowledgeable to me lol…..

[Asker]

Before this he has reacted to ky life events 3 times

[Asker]

To my *

[amirehhh]

Most probably no. He is just a decent human being.

[spartan55]

That's a pretty big reach.