Both of them are masculine and play tons of sports But i saw them in the room with the lights off, my boyfriend (16) was spooning my brother (16) and they was both asleep, (image below from google is kind of what they looked like) they was also both shirtless as well, I asked them both about it, They both calmly said they was just watching a movie and they got comfy and just fell asleep, my boyfriend is 6ft 2 and beefy and much bigger then my brother so i thought it was my sister before i saw my brothers face because my brothers body was covered by my boyfriends body, But like at school if someone talks sh*t about my brother my boyfriend gets oddly protective, I Thought most guys hated there sisters boyfriend, They are like bestfriends, Guys what is happening from your POV?
Only way to tell is talk to who ever is the most approachable and not likely to lie their ass off.
you do need to handle it delicately, as in you will treat it in confidence and not tell anyone, as I’m sure neither would want even just being on the same bed known about, .
I think you need to talk to both your brother and boyfriend. Most teen boys do not spoon with another boy. They both may be gay/bi or just experimenting but in any case you should all talk about it. If you don't talk about it someone could get hurt even more by just ignoring it.
Sounds like they have some intimacy going on. This is not a "just friends" situation that you walked in on. And FYI, playing sports does not lessen the chances of a guy being gay or bisexual.
It's actually a good thing he stands up for your brother. Also good if he's goid friends with him. One of my sister's exes tried to become friends with me. I wasn't opposed to it, but I just didn't see him much. If he's friends with your brother it means he wants to be good with your family if you get married. He's not going to be confrontational with the family you bring.
Yes, I would sit them both down and tell them you want to know what the hell is going on with them spooning they could be experimenting this happens in teens with both males and females
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Heterosexual guys don't normally spoon other guys. Your boyfriend may be bi or gay and you can't change that. I'd keep an eye on them and see if it was just a one time thing or they do other things that lead you to believe they are not straight.
