What are his intentions and am I overthinking?

[Anonymous]

I went to a car dealership and the salesman was acting super nice. We were just laughing and joking about stuff. When I went in the car to call the insurance company, he told me I seemed really sweet and he would have been so sad if he couldn't have approved my credit, and was glad it passed. He kept telling me it would be okay and he would figure it out when a problem came up. He went out of his way to open my door and mentioned that he hoped his breath didn't smell because we were in such a tight space. I thought nothing of it until I went home and he requested my Facebook. I hadn't given him my Facebook information, which means he just looked me up after seeing my car papers. Was he flirting or being nice? Thanks!

Updates

+1 y

I just found out he has a wife sohe probably wasn't flirting! Just wanted to see what others thought!

[GingerGuy]

Being nice up until the breathe comment and Facebook lookup. Do you feel creeped out at all? Without knowing him, it could be a bit creepy, but if you don't feel that way, then that's good, he's probably genuine then. It's a bit unprofessional of him also, but as long as you are ok with it. He definitely has some interest in you. A car salesman wouldn't look someone up randomly on Facebook.

[GingerGuy]

On update, oh a cheater it sounds like to me then? Looking for a hookup.

[Asker]

I thought he was super attractive but then saw the ring on his finger and just let things be! I'm definitely not going to be a homewrecker. I don't feel creeped out! He was very nice and genuine

[ohshee]

Well I look at it like this congratulations on getting the car he was either being really nice or I find you very beautiful and he wanted to flirt as long as you don't take it that direction then it's not going to go that direction and if he's married well then if it gets out of hand just call him on it to see bro your wife is waiting for you at home

[Ninani]

Definitely flirting!

[Asker]

I thought so too but his bio says he's married!

[Ninani]

People don't just add strangers on facebook for no reason

[Anonymous]

Creepy, me thinks