Was the car salesman being nice or more? Thanks in advance! Maybe I'm overthinking?

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Posting again because I wasn't able to add updates to the first : I went to buy a car because mine had broke down. The salesman was super nice and we were just talking and laughing. He made small comments like that he would have felt really bad if he couldn't have approved my credit bc I seemed sweet, how i would be a great nanny (bc it was on my occupation papers) he went the extra mile in every way, opening doors, leaving several of his business cards around to make sure i had it (handed me one, wrote the website on another, left one in my car) and even running inside when he was off work just to give me his insurance guys business card bc he said mine was high and he wanted to help me. Then made a comment when he was in my car (to call the insurance company) saying he hoped his breath didn't stink being in such a tight space with me. About an hour after I got home, I saw that he added me on Facebook. I accepted and he liked 2 of my pictures from the beginning of the month. I also saw that he was married Was he being friendly or was it more?

Answer 1

josh1138

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As a mechanic who works at a dealership I can say the people who sell u the car get a bonus if they sell the car to u depending on where they work so they are paid to be helpful and nice
But friending on facebook is a little beyond that

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Stevefiveo | 173 opinions shared on Guy's Behavior topic.

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It was more but every car salesman is a shark.

Answer 3

coffeismytea

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he's a prick ahole... He's hitting on you intended on cheating. What you do with that is your own problem.

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He hasn't texted me or anything though. That's why I'm confused
coffeismytea

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he hinted you, but for men it's always a guess work, you either come up and talk about it, hint him back strongly, or leave it at that. I'd leave it at that, because I'll never be supportive of cheating, but as I've said, what you do with it is not my problem, it's yours. Just be aware that you might create problems for his family.
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My curiosity got to me and I hinted! I liked one of his pictures back and 10 minutes later he messaged me saying he was ordering my wipers blades, which I already knew. We had a conversation thay seemed pretty professional. When I saidi was coming in he literally got up from his customer to take care if me when there were 3 other people thay could have. I removed him on Facebook but I didn't want ti assume his friendliness was more

Answer 4

Asker

He hasn't texted me or anything though. That's why I'm confused

Answer 5

coffeismytea

he hinted you, but for men it's always a guess work, you either come up and talk about it, hint him back strongly, or leave it at that. I'd leave it at that, because I'll never be supportive of cheating, but as I've said, what you do with it is not my problem, it's yours. Just be aware that you might create problems for his family.

Answer 6

Asker

My curiosity got to me and I hinted! I liked one of his pictures back and 10 minutes later he messaged me saying he was ordering my wipers blades, which I already knew. We had a conversation thay seemed pretty professional. When I saidi was coming in he literally got up from his customer to take care if me when there were 3 other people thay could have. I removed him on Facebook but I didn't want ti assume his friendliness was more

Answer 7

ewok737

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He's there to make money off of you.
If he continues to contact you probably wants to see how far he can get with you.

Was the car salesman being nice or more? Thanks in advance! Maybe I'm overthinking?

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