My boyfriend gets really intoxicated and starts acting up when he hangs out with his guy friends. I want him to tone it down a bit. Should I tell him?

[Anonymous]

I don’t mind him going out with his friends but I’ve noticed that his behavior has been getting worst. Last night he went out and not only was he doing coke and drinking tequila with his friends but he was acting dumb wiping sweat off his face with $100 bills (Oh and there was way more spread across the table in front of him because they were playing cards-his careless spending is getting out of hand too). This is not the guy I fell for and his behavior is starting to bother me.

[girlnow1]

Ooh honey I have to say it sounds bad but really you have to remember you can’t control other people but you control you.

It is getting out of line so he needs to change. You tell him and if he doesn’t remember you can’t control him you can only tell him it’s affecting you and hope he gets his act together.
if not it’s time to control the one person that you can - yourself and you move away.

[Alyssa11]

Yes, you can do it in a way where you show concern over him rather than telling him what to do.

[cloud9vortex1234]

He needs to get his act under control ASAP. There will be no stability as long as he's on coke and abusing alcohol. People like this can't be in charge of money while in this State of Mind unless you and him want to be broke. There are too many Good and Decent People to be putting up with a loser like this.

[spartan55]

Lol... yeah I'm sure this all just popped up overnight...🙄

[Asker]

No, I’ve known about his drinking habits and his dipping and dabbing with other stuff but the sweat wiping is new to me. If it weren’t for the video I wouldn’t have known.

[spartan55]

Why are you making a big deal about that? It was just something stupid he did while drunk. Didn't hurt anyone or himself. You young people just feel required to put everything on social media, it's mind boggling. I'm so glad that bullshit wasn't around when I was a teenager/20s, because I definitely would have put up something I regretted.

[Asker]

Okay. You should’ve just gotten to the point and that’s it. Nobody gives a fuck about what it was like during your dinosaur years.

[spartan55]

Yeah sure, have fun with your moron boyfriend then. I'm sure you know everything about everything already.
🦕 Dinosaur? Really? Good one...

[spartan55]

Be sure to have a drink waiting for him when he gets home? Oh, and towel, so he can't use those c notes...😂 😂

[Asker]

You’re hurt for no reason. Bye.

[spartan55]

Yeah, don't think so. So stupid...

[jimmy2]

I would leave him there nonthing in his future but pain for him self and you

[Anonymous]

It might be time for an intervention. It sounds like he has a drinking problem.