Why is he gentle with me with sex?

Because he doesn't want to hurt you, and probably thinks you're not into the rough stuff. Being into spanking and choking and whatnot doesn't mean you're a psychopath; it means you have a kink. If you want to try something more... vehement, let him know. If he's experienced with it, he'll probably want to start lightly and move up slowly, since he knows how both flesh and feelings can be hurt, and doesn't want that.
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Have you asked to be a little more rough?
I asked him to smack my ass. I have a bigger one do most guys have and he likes my ass. He did it maybe 4 times in a year
I did why are you swearing at me lmao we have healthy communication he just chooses to be gentle
It wasn’t only once it was a few times during sex and once I said he’s allowed to spank me outside of sex since he likes my ass
Okay, whatever you have told him hasn't produced the result you want. You have 2 choices the way I see it. Either talk to him to him about it, and be clear/specific what you like, and what you want. OR do nothing and hope he gets some mind reading skills.
**if you do go the discussion route I highly recommend having it out of the bedroom and not during sex** Good luck!
That’s just a guy having sex?
You haven’t earned his trust
That’s a fair assessment
I wouldn’t say he’s that far into it tho. They just used the leash he can be dominant but I wouldn’t say he’s exactly worthy of the Dom title and I don’t know if he wants it. Meaning he experiments but doesn’t label him self as a love for bdsm but isn't opposed to it either.
Well his passed ex liked it he’s the type to do what a woman pleases if that’s what they are into.
Oooooo that’s very true
Is he a pussy?
I don't know his roommate said it’s cause he actually likes me ( not romantically but respect wise) but I don’t know how true that is
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