Why do some guys keep sending offensive messages here? Don't these perverts and creeps know the minimum manners of talking to a woman?

[dipalisaha]

How can a stranger ask the breast size of a woman or repeatedly ask her for a sex chat or ask for pics of her or ask what colour bra is she wearing? Isn't it a shame that this society has to bear this perverts? From where do they get courage to behave such a way online? Why do they see women as just skin and flesh and nothing else? Genuine gentle compliments about the look of a woman is always welcome, but why do these creeps cross the limit? I know ignoring these creeps and perverts is the best policy, but why do they even exist in such a large number including on this site?

[WonderBell99]

Hi there,

If a user is sending you offensive or explicit messages, please report their account to GirlsAskGuys admins and block them immediately. I would not suggest ignoring them because it rarely ever works and they would keep spamming your inbox with countless messages. My best bet would be to block them so that they will not be able to contact you anymore.

Another suggestion, go to settings and set your inbox to "Allow messages from following only" this would allow only those users that you follow to contact you through PMs.

Now, to address the second part of your question, GaG, just like any other website is anonymous and it gives them a sense of safety - they can get away with anything they do because anonymity allows them to do so. They would not dare to act this way IRL.

[PrettyPriya]

I have taken care of the issue for this user privately. 👍

[WonderBell99]

@PrettyPriya Perfect, many thanks, Priya (:

[HighlyQuestionable]

Great work as always, Priya.

[PrettyPriya]

@HighlyQuestionable Why thank you 🙏

[Sirenboobzilla]

Simple: because GAG is filly anonymous. You can create a random email and join here. You can be anyone. Unlike other social media there's literally nothing tying these accounts to real people. So with that, people see an open invitation to act in ways they normally wouldn't without the fear of repercussions

[sidhagain]

Hey dipali

Honestly... I think it's a dual way thing

At times if you're trying to lead and give hints that you like indulging in sexual conversations, they guys trend to get more enthusiastic and essentially your limit and their limit is not the same

Not trying to defend the guys but just putting up a perspective

That said, if you've clearly stated you don't want to indulge in such conversation, they should stop immediately

Or in case they come up with sexual stuff without any context, that's really unwelcoming

[dipalisaha]

They don't need any hint. Doesn't matter whether the girl says anything or not.

[20yearsolder]

Because it's worked in the past, there are thirsty women also. So if it work before, maybe it'll work again. I'm guilty of asking a breast size before. I'm not pushy about it and I always say that if you're not comfortable answering this please don't.

[dipalisaha]

The problem is some guys ask it repeatedly

[20yearsolder]

Tell them to fuck off. Block them whatever it takes

[Pinay_ako]

These guys only have the balls and guts here coz they’re hiding behind their phones. 🤣 But they won’t dare to do irl 😂. So ignore them, block them or report.

[Zolly99999]

Keyboard warriors

[Pinay_ako]

@Zolly99999 🤣 be careful now. You don’t wanna hurt their feewings. 😢

[Zolly99999]

@Pinay_ako but that's what I'm going for🤣🤣

[Pinay_ako]

@Zolly99999 ooooooohhh 🤣 🥊 🤣

[LazerBean]

Please report them. It happens a lot but now that I've reported so many it's pretty much stopped for me.

[PeteBy]

The problem with these 'people' and use that term lightly. Is they make women think all guys are like that. Give the good guys an unfairly bad press.

[dipalisaha]

It's not much difficult to identify good guys. They talk and behave in a way which is totally different from those perverts. It doesn't sound offensive if they give you a genuine compliment about your look. Perverts can't hide who they are. No matter how good an actor you are you can't hide your true colour for a long time.

[Still-alive]

Just make expeditious use of that block button if anyone gives you shit on here. also go into settings and click the box that says only people YOU follow may message you only. should filter out most of those pervert messages

[JohnK123]

I don’t have to ask what color bra a woman is wearing here because there’s already stupid female users here who literally post pics of them nud or in underwear on posts here….

nah I’m joking haha but it’s true women do that too

[Zolly99999]

Because they are immature and insecure and are hiding behind their computer/phone.. they are cowards in real life. A real gentleman would never do this

[Hotboy_booblover]

Yes this site is full of peverts.. they need to be banned..


I am also a semi pevert but not full pevert😁

[Aakash_Hangargi]

What kind of messages would you consider as offensive

[Harbringer26]

Sorry to hear that happened. But this is the internet you know. It's never not been full of those types.

[nawtee_me]

I apologize for the jerks some guys can be….

[dipalisaha]

Why do you apologize for those jerks. You don't need to Sir.

[nawtee_me]

Because it make all of us look bad….

[dipalisaha]

No it doesn't Sir. It's not much difficult to identify good guys. They talk and behave in a way which is totally different from those perverts. It doesn't sound offensive if they give you a genuine compliment about your look. Perverts can't hide who they are. No matter how good an actor you are you can't hide your true colour for a long time.

[Anonymous]

I am done with the creeps on here. Any sex talk and it is going to be an instant block from now on.

[Anonymous]

Many men here are clearly attention starved. I don't get those messages though.

[Aakash_Hangargi]

Do you want those messages 😸

[Opinion Owner]

@Aakash_Hangargi Sounds unnecessarily exhausting

[Aakash_Hangargi]

It's an experience maybe

[jengeorge26]

I find it rude as well

[hafinjun]

Just out of curiosity why haven't you blocked them

[Nadim171]

Are you new to the internet?

[dipalisaha]

Why are you asking this?

[Nadim171]

That's a daily occurrence for Any woman on the internet lol. Yeah it isn't good but, this site shows your gender and your age, they will most definitely keep sending messages like that

[dipalisaha]

Are you justifying them telling all these?

[Nadim171]

No, not at all. But I'm just telling you to ignore it because this will happen everyday, ans happens to all women on here.

[sirderpsalot123]

Desperation.