Why did he lose interest?

[Anonymous]

He was absolutely blown away with my body and told me it's his vest body that he's ever seen. He said I seemed fun and adventurous but lately he hardly ever texts at all

[Sawyerblu]

You gave him what he wanted. Men want what they cannot have. The longer you hold out on giving yourself to a guy, the more attached they become. That’s why it’s wise to not sleep with them too early if you’re actually interested in a relationship with them. If they don’t ghost you, they’ll probably string you along for a little bit while they chase other girls.


My advice? Don’t reach out to him. See if he comes to you. He’ll probably miss the attention and wonder where you’ve gone. If he asks you to do something on a certain date, tell him you already have plans that day but offer another day instead. This takes the control away from him and the fact that you already have “plans” makes you less available and therefore, more desirable.


If he doesn’t reach out, move on. You don’t want to be with someone who’s feelings are not returned anyways and there are plenty of other guys out there who won’t do this to you!

[Asker]

Thing is we never met up yet and we both did plan to meet up in the summer but we both never got around to it.

[Sawyerblu]

Oh, so what was the extent of your communication? Nudes? This changes everything haha

[Asker]

Yeah bit of sexting and talking

[Sawyerblu]

He was probably just horny and trying to get off. There’s a time period in which you should meet up with someone you’ve met online, otherwise you never get around to it. Normally within the first week is ideal before you set expectations. Just ignore him, let him come to you and if he doesn’t, not a big deal since you haven’t met him anyways. It’s always smart to date a couple guys at the same time really early on, don’t put all of your eggs in one basket. This also makes you less available and more desirable. They don’t want a girl so readily available.

[Joshua0213]

I don't know maybe you did something or he wasn't yelling the truth

[Danny_dan92]

He came, (literally) and left

[Asker]

Yep I'm probably a massive munter right enough

[spartan55]

You didn't show any interest in return.

[Anonymous]

Maybe ur body is not that glamorous. I have to see the picture first

[Asker]

Nope

[Anonymous]

If I could see a pic of let you know

[Asker]

Not a chance