Why did he unfollow me?

[Anonymous]

Somewhere in August I hooked up with this guy. He did make sure I got home safely then it was awkward so we stop talking. I messaged him sometime after, he responded quick and we talked normally, but I felt being treated as a fan (maybe it’s in my head cause I prefer men chasing me, not the opposite). I assumed he wasn’t interested in me. So we haven’t spoken ever since. I did post before occasionally of course, but this time I posted a selfie (me in a dress), I got whole bunch of guys going crazy but him... HE UNFOLLOWED ME AFTER SEEING THIS.

Yeah I understand, he didn’t like me but still he didn’t have to remove me, it did break my heart a little.

[spartan55]

"it did break my heart a little" because a guy unfollowed you... maybe a bit of perspective would help you.
So you assumed he wasn't interested. How do you think guys feel when you play hard to get?

[Asker]

Is my part perceived as playing hard to get cause if it is then I have to change this. Its not in my intention to play games but I was told you gotta step back a little bit and let a man chase you cause otherwise you appear as desperate and y'all lose interest. Was I doing it wrong? I know this one is lost case now but gotta know for the next dude (s)

[spartan55]

What you did was make him lose interest by 'stepping back'. Remember this: it is NEVER considered desperate to show interest in a guy. By that logic aren't all guys desperate then? Of course not, that's absurd. Guys have to know they are wanted too.