Boyfriend says I’m not “model” pretty?

[Brizzybrez]

I don’t even really remember how we got into this topic but my boyfriend was talking to me and then all a sudden he goes “ you’re an 8.5 out of 10” and that’s where I stopped him and was like “ you think I’m only an 8.5” I’m not saying I’m the prettiest girl in the world but every girl wants to think their boyfriend thinks their a 10 in their eyes. I honestly got really upset. I told him to go find his 10 and that’s when he goes “ are you Angelina Jolie” and starts naming off a bunch of models/ actresses. At this point I was in disgust, how could he compare me to people like that. And then to make matters even worse he goes “ you’re a very pretty girl but you’re not that, that’s why your Instagram hasn’t blown up yet.” A little back story, I’m 22 and I’ve wanted to model since 16. I post on Instagram every so often but I don’t look at it as some Job. Anyways, now I’m feeling insecure more then I ever have before and just don’t really know how to feel. Was this a messed up thing for him to say?

[Lockey_]

Well thats kind of "whining at a high level" :P Totally independent of the level, chances are minimal that your boyfriend wanted to tell you some bad news here. 10's are usually totally different kind of people, must be unreachable. A girlfriend can never be a 10 (at least not for long). 10's are like "i have never seen such beauty in my life". This imples that once you see her twice, she is automatically a 9.5 :D

[The_Maphio]

Well if he wants a woman who's "model pretty" he'll have some significant digging to do, a very decent monthly paycheck and great looks to match hers.
He'll do better lower his standards unless the only thing with a female pronoun that he's ever gonna fuck is his hand.

[mike3000]

Pretty dumb thing to say. Be with someone who thinks your a 10 and wants to support you. Based on your photo it’s probably realistic that you could be a model and many guys would probably think you are a 10. I mean I guess 8.5 is still a compliment and he was probably being honest per his opinion but the fact he doesn’t support you vision says a lot about your relationship or lack there of

[bamesjond0069]

She just wants a yes man. And why should he support her vision by lying to her?

[Brizzybrez]

@bamesjond0069 I don’t want a yes man haha I want common human decency what if your significant other was comparing you to Brad Pitt, Leonardo DiCaprio, George Clooney, and etc. It’s not ok.

[bamesjond0069]

Why is it not ok? I personally value objective criticism and appreciate the fuck out of a girl that says... you put on a few too many lbs or your pecs are getting a bit too oversized for your body. I can't stand girls that just lie and say you're hot no matter how you look. Thats nonsense lying catering to weak people who rely on lies to feel good about themselves. Im a grown adult i dont need a mommy telling me im perfect no matter what i do.

[mike3000]

That sounds neurotic. Based on what I see I think she’s hot

[loveslongnails]

I have to tell you this with all sincerity: "models" aren't always the prettiest women out there !! They have a certain look that sells a certain thing, or have the face and body structure that whoever is "buying" her look wants. Please message me and I'll finish :)

[Eric6666]

Ok if you need confirmation I bet everyone here can tell you from your profile photo at least that you are a 10.

And your boyfriend is just being a stupid ass. Even if he thinks you are a 8.5 he shouldn't have behaved so petty bringing it up and attacking how your Instagram is not successful.

[bamesjond0069]

You feel insecure when someone is honest and not just making shit up for you? Sounds like a YOU problem. Figure out how to accept being an above average attractive girl but not the hottest girl in the world or continue having a shitty personality. Good luck.

[Brizzybrez]

Lol as I said above I know I’m not the prettiest girl in the world nor am I trying to be. There is always going to be someone more attractive then you in the world and I am aware of that. Apparently wanting my boyfriend to make me feel special is having a shitty personality? Hmm strange.

[bamesjond0069]

And im all upset, my girlfriend didn't tell me i had the largest penis in the world. She said its quite thick and long but its not as big as some guy i saw on porno... 😥 how dare my girlfriend not tell me i have the biggest penis. And you think this is what someone with a good personality would think... smh? Its what a highly insecure person thinks. Maybe flipping the genders can enlighten you in how ridiculous you sound to men.

[Danny_dan92]

I see what you’re saying about the point where you believe all guys should view their girl as a 10 in their eyes but consider the fact that if say he does view you as an 8.5 and not a 10 like you wish he said. He chose to make YOU his girlfriend

[Ekke118]

It's not messed up, but he really lacked tact to even bring it up if he was going to handle it that poorly.

[Wise4myage]

If that's you in your profile pic, then your so called boyfriend is an idiot.

[Fuentes]

You were probably complaining to him how you haven't blown up on instagram & he probably got annoyed & told you the truth at least he didn't call you a 4 or 5 lol 8.5 is still pretty high

[Brizzybrez]

Lol that’s hilarious you think I was complaining about that 😂 actually no I wasn’t

[Fuentes]

You were men don't randomly blurt out truths & your pretending you don't even rmbr how the convo started but now your saying its not

[spartan55]

I will guess it all started when you asked if you were prettier than so and so...

[Heartache0405]

Why do you care? He’s with you even if you’re an 8.5 in his eyes so what I’m does it matter?

[LegendaryIcon]

instagram was never meant to be for money. they just made it in to it, same with facebook

anything that is free to use, was never MEANT to make money

[Lockey_]

random comment?

[LegendaryIcon]

not at all

[Lockey_]

But also not at all related to the question, right?

[LegendaryIcon]

nope, totally related

[Lockey_]

aha :)

[jasco]

I mean you did ask him to do that but at the same time he shouldn't have said anything.

[Brizzybrez]

Actually, I didn’t ask for this rating and it was completely randomly brought up.

[jasco]

mm i see well i can't say anything to that, you do look pretty tho so with proper training you could become a model if you wanted to

[Aurora1010]

He is an asshole

[Aurora1010]

Lol why are so many people acting like a guy comparing his girlfriend to other women is normal

[Brizzybrez]

THANK YOU. It’s genuinely so confusing and a bit worrisome this many men think it’s OK for that type of behavior?

[Aurora1010]

Yeah I know, a guy should make his girl feel special. He doesn't have to think she is the most physically beautiful cause people don't have control over those type of opinions, but does not have to say things like that.
And tbh he doesn't have to think you are more physically beautiful than Angelina Jolie to see a different type of beauty in you. Your eyes are the ones that look at him with love your lips are the ones who kiss him, that should give them a special and different type of beauty.

[MJtheCoach]

You look like Michael Jackson

[Brizzybrez]

And you look like your no more then over 5’8

[MJtheCoach]

I’m 5’10.. the difference is. I didn’t fk my face up with injections and plastic surgery.

[Brizzybrez]

😂😂 I just turned 22 and never had plastic surgery a day in my life and of course your under 6’0 you sounded like you had short man syndrome.

[MJtheCoach]

Don’t worry your little head. Your Michael Jackson face ain’t in my target anyways. You go find yourself a giraffe. Who’s your midget Michael Jackson looking a22! Attractive natural young girls seem to like me shortness.

[Brizzybrez]

I would say something but I literally can’t read nor understand what your saying. Yikes. Not sure if that was suppose to be a diss or what.

[MJtheCoach]

Yah.. I’m sure! You have nothing to come back with. You just butt hurt. Because you look like a plastic.

[Brizzybrez]

“ you just butt hurt” you look like your 40 but maturity wise a 20 year old

[MJtheCoach]

What doesn't matter! You wish you could look good at me in my age. I’m 40/50/60 doesn’t matter. I’m a guy.. I’m ugly as hell! But hot attractive young don’t go for my looks. What the way you look. You’ll be a melting candle by the time you’re 35!

[Dinosaursandanime65]

Cute is the best pretty

[hhhffg7889]

He's wrong wrong wrong

[Luckycharms12]

Get over it

[PeterCharie1991]

Whats he look like?

[MrReliable12]

Ouch