How do I avoid such conversation withy crush?

[Lonergirl____9983]

I have a crush on this guy friend we talk for hours... but the thing is he talks even about his visit to strip club and the girls he saw there... it's kind of getting on my nerves... I now feel that he doesn't have any feelings for me and that's y he speaks about those things... but I can't avoid him as he is my friend but how can I avoid such conversations

[Anonymous]

You have to be upfront. If I’m talking with my friends and they start talking about conversations that I don’t like, I just tell them. Even if you say it as a joke.
For example, if he starts talking about strip clubs and girls just laugh it off and say “this is not a conversation I want to have”. If he’s ur friend, he’ll understand. And then just start talking about something else. Or start asking him questions about other things you’re interested in.

[Lonergirl____9983]

Ya I should try doing that thanks

[Lonergirl____9983]

He didn't tell anything sexually about though , he was telling me how beautiful the strippers eyes looked

[Opinion Owner]

Yeah, well do you think if you told him you liked him it would make things awkward?
I’m only asking because if someone you didn’t like was telling you about how pretty someone was, it wouldn’t bother u. But because u have a tiny crush- it makes u a little jealous.

[Lonergirl____9983]

Ya I do think it would make things awkward... Because we have a good connection and I know he is in no place to commit... But the hearts what it wants so a little part of me still hopes that he would like me... the other doesn't want to destroy this good thing we have btwn us I want to him to be happy and I think me confessing would spoil it a little bit

[whynothoe]

I also had this type of crush, I think he had a crush on me and tried to make me jealous by saying all that, but it didn't work.

in short, probably too immature to admit his feelings so he's trying to run you away.

[Anonymous]

Tell him you don't like talking about those things or jokingly tell him that it makes you jealous.

Although it may be what the guy wants, to make you jealous.
The other would be that he does not look attractive and wants to make you understand that there are better women than you.

[Lonergirl____9983]

Well he described the eyes of the stripper telling me how beautiful they looked he didn't describe anything sexually though... i don't think he would try to make me jealous