Why does the guy I’m in love with keep telling me about female celerities or actresses he finds attractive. Is this normal?

[Anonymous]

I told him I was gonna watch a movie and he’s like oh I love (certain actress in that)!!
or I said I like the show catfish he’s like oh man the new host kammie Crawford is bad or even other things if I mention a female celebrity I seen in concert he’s like oh yeah she’s hot.
is it possible he sees me as one of the bro’s

[kyleelyn199723]

Possibly so, or he’s just way too vocal about who he finds attractive, which is a huge turn off in my opinion

[Asker]

I mean, I know for sure if I said something like that he would ignore me. He used to not do that at all, maybe I did or said something and he’s trying to make me feel inferior back, I’m not sure but it could just be he’s really comfortable now, so just says it or he’s trying to cause some sort of reaction, but I guess either way it stems down to the fact that he isn’t considering my feelings and definitely isn’t trying to impress me

[kyleelyn199723]

@asker agreed! A man shouldn’t be making you out to be competition, even if she is just a celeb. A genuine man doesn’t speak about his attraction to other women

[Asker]

I’ll see if he does it again, I don’t think it’s something I should have to speak to him about because like to any normal man beyond the age of 18 it should be self explanatory that, saying that wouldn’t make the woman they’re with very happy. I guess it’s something I need to think about if I want to be with a man that will always do that - like yes acknowledging others are attractive is fine but to bring it up when I’m randomly expressing interest in music or films is just.. silly, immature and rude

[kyleelyn199723]

@asker absolutely you do. If he is starting that now, chances of him changing are slim

[jennifer_bloom]

He might be doing it to lead you into a conversation about dating and romance or to show you he is not interested in you

[The_Naughty_Guy]

It’s just his opinion but I guess any girl would not feel good if her boyfriend compliments other females.

[fred_durst]

many people said honesty is key to make relationships works , however i think he overdone it

[Asker]

i mean he wouldn’t like it if I was doing it he would for 100% facts ignore me and act funny

[Hangry06]

Maybe he got too comfortable with you
Try to do the same in front of him and see if he's ok with it

[Anonymous]

He's expressing an opinion, that's all.

Why does it bother you? It has no bearing on his feelings for you. Take it with a grain of salt.

[Danny_dan92]

I’m just as confused as you are

[Asker]

Is it something you think the majority of guys would say in conversation with a woman they are dating? And both people have admitted to having feelings? It just seems, he clearly isn’t trying to impress me so either he’s too comfortable or something

[Danny_dan92]

I think it’s crossing a boundary in an immature, obnoxious and unnecessary way

[BarryLiverstone]

He’s being honest

[Asker]

true but when we watch football or basketball and see tall athletic handsome guys I don’t even care to comment on it because it wouldn’t register in my brain to vocalise that infront of my partner. I know for sure he would ignore me and act funny if I did that. So that’s something you’d say in front of your partner?

[BarryLiverstone]

Sure. And I would expect her to do the same in front of me. Celebs and athletes are of course hot. That in no way changes how she sees me