I’ve been talking to this guy for about a month and a half now (we haven’t met yet and will meet in a month and a half) and I’ve had a number of instances when he’s mentioned how attractive he finds an actress or instances where women that have thrown themselves at him. For example, he told me randomly that he feels uncomfortable because someone he works with has been flirting with him non stop that day. he’s also told me he had a meeting with a woman who has liked him and when he didn’t reciprocate she insulted him and didn’t want to work with him. He also gushes in a way when we talk about movies how attractive these actresses are. For example, we’ll be talking about a movie and then he randomly says “yeah and the main character is so pretty” then I say “Yeah she’s okay I think” and then he says “The other actress is also so hot”. I’m Asian and he’s white so I don’t know if I’m reading into this but the actresses we would talk about were all Asian too. I don’t mind if you find Asian women beautiful or actresses or other women. I find other men attractive, it’s normal. I just dont see why this is information you need to tell someone, especially when you haven't been talking for a long time. Am I reading into it too much?
How do you respond to a guy that constantly tells you when they find someone else attractive?
