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Yep. I’m sure she’s attracted when she dies that. Saves me the total embarrassment when a gal looks at me and almost runs!
now a days both make a move but it depends on who wants to
Yes, too many women want you to read their minds, that doesn't work.
With mixed messages that women constantly throw out I'd say it would be a refreshing change
As somebody who gets it often, yes, it's nice to noticed in a good way.
Yes because when I approach it literally never works.
I would enjoy it if a woman gave me her number on her own. But that's never gonna happen.
I can take it or leave it. Who initiates contact isn't all that important to me.
I like it a lot. It solves the problem of the anxiety I still have when I have to approach them.
It would be a surprise to be sure but a welcome one.
I would like them to make the first move. Or at least make it clear that the want a move to be made
Yea last time that happened I got a BJ winthin weeks. Time before that it was a handjob the first night. That’s all I got the first night. Refused to blow or fuck me. She was also very hot too. Fine women are a higher demand
I have no problem with a woman making the first move.
ya it’s nice not having to do the asking every time
I do like it most of the time
And it depends on the mood of the guys too
Hey, welcome back, hope you're well x
Omg hey! I’m doing so much better than I was. Lovely to see you’re still about x
Oh so good to hear, I was worried about you but great to hear your doing well! x
I’m still here. Still a miserable little gremlin but doing my best haha x
Awww, as long as you appeciate a good sized toblerone, a poem by John Cooper Clark and a beer in a Lancastrian pub then as Gremlins go I'll forgive you lol x
I will always appreciate those things! x
I'd rather make the first move
Fair answer. Care to elaborate why?
Honestly I'm not sure why.. I just prefer it that way. Maybe it's because I'd rather be rejected than reject someone or maybe my mentality is a bit traditional and I feel like the man should make the first move.
Rejection on both ends isn’t fun. Fair enough if traditional works for you though
Yeah but I think I can handle rejection better than the girl I reject will. I don't think rejection is that bad unless you keep getting rejected over and over again.
Welcome back to the site yeah sure why not
Hello! Yeah it’s been a long long time... and no strong opinion either way?
It would be nice a nice change for once instead of the man always going after the girl
I did this last night, that’s why the question sprang to mind!
How did it work out for you
He text me the day after and asked me out Friday so fingers crossed! Seems like a good sign 😅
Great
Glad to see you’re dating men instead of women
Any particular reason?
Yes the only thing to do
That’s right
Given the state of things nowadays, that is probably the safer move.
Of course. I love it when a woman gets on her knees all on her own... no need to ask nicely, she just does it to please
Do women ever make the first move?
I wouldn’t say never but have I ever seen it happen or to guys that I know? No 😂
I did the other night!
Yes like it when a woman makes first move but then
slide her panties off give the pussy and ass to him
Love it. Apparently my first moves weren’t considered “moves”.
Sure if it was to happen but it never will.
There’s still time my dude!
About 8 months.
I’ve single 6 years!
Almost 35
I’m 31 😅 I spent 6 years of my twenties very very single.
Oh sorry no I was saying almost 35 years single.
That sucks dude :/
It is what it is.
That’s a resounding yes!
It'd certainly be nice!
In this hyper-feminist/misanderist era, it's the only way unless you think prison is much fun
Love women who knows what she wants 😍
I would. Seeing as my first move always fails.
I enjoy being asked sometimes.
No, i am old school. I rather be the hunter
Definitely yes it 2022 go for it
Yes if she is a good girl.
Care to elaborate?
I wouldn't feel very special if she has plenty of male friends too and free with them. But that in itself would not be a deal breaker. But if her friends are lets say thuggish type then I would be very nervous and keep wondering what's her deal. At least initially.
So if she had male friends and asked you out first that would be a dealbreaker? (Just trying to understand)
No. But depending on the male friends or just the company she keeps it would make me very nervous. If the girl is total stranger. If I know her and her friends for some time it would not be an issue. I think from what you described in your post. There is nothing to be concerned about. I would take the phone no as sign of eagerness which is good. If its said in a flirty way even better.
Okay I think I get you and you’re free to feel a certain way about those situations I guess!
Well, if you want context, I can explain. Basically, met a guy at a party on Sunday night. We kinda spent all night gravitating towards each other, laughing and joking and (according to all my friends, flirting) and I figured I don’t want this guy to leave without me shooting my shot (I wasn’t sure he’d make the first move) and just went hey, it’s cool if not but do you want my number? To which he responded that he was gonna ask me for a drink. I just wasn’t sure if my over eagerness messed things up!
It shouldn't. Party is a place where people meet. So in that context its definitely fine. So how did it go. You two messaging?
Yes, he messaged me the next day. Which surprised me. I used to remember the days when you wouldn’t hear from a guy for at least 3 days (I’m so old) and he asked me for a drink on Friday.
I think I’m just massively overthinking things as I haven’t been on a date in years!
Lol 3 day texting rule. I read it in some dating books somewhere. lol.
It’s a stupid rule. If you like someone, why wait?
So say I sister. Life is so short.
Yes. The vast majority appreciate it.
FUCK YEAH!!!
Love this enthusiasm 😂
Most of the time it's not work
Oh yeah, it’s a hot turn on.
You are a redhead not blonde
I was blonde when I made my account many many years ago. Not sure it’s relevant to the question though?
for the 100rd time, YES
I would prefer to expres obvious interest
*her to
Yes. Very much so.
I love it.
Yes, it’s hot
Yep.
It would be great.
Love it.
When she goes right for my crotch hell yeah!!!
Yeah I have no problem with it!
Yes.
If course we do.
Yes !!!
doesn't matter as long as she's feminine
yes I love it
I do!
yes.
For sure
In my position as is... NO.
Do you care to elaborate on that? What are your reasons?
Well , my status for one thing and the fact that i'm taken is another.
This question was more for single men if I’m honest with you. Not really relevant to your situation!
True
But i still always get hit on frequently
No it creepy and masculine, yuck
Why is it masculine to say, hey I’m enjoying your company, do you want to go out sometime?
Man some guys are weird.
Because it switching genders roles and it feel like you a lesbian when u do that
You sound like a 12 year old when you talk like that. It’s very childish.
Looks like someones insecure.
Dude, if you focus on what is masculine or feminine by society standards, you miss out on so much of life
No u just easily offended not my fault how about u grow up I gave u my opinion I not sorry for something I say that not trolling at all but stay offended over honest opinions
@dragoblack bye not getting trap by bunch of babies getting offended over a honest opinion
@Blonde401 u a 31 years old woman getting offended on a question u ask? Seriously to make it worst i never even trolling u ask a question and I gave u a opinion u then proceeded to insult me when u dig for why I think that it sad u older then me but never act as immature and sensitive over a question I ask
I’m not offended. I think your way of thinking is very close minded and childish.
I am older than you. Which is why I think you’re very childish.
Yes u are I told u a opinion and u attack me after u dig more in why I think that, so u insulted me after a honest opinion u want I am not sorry
Ok, don’t be sorry. I really don’t care
Well u do care all u had to do take my opinion or agree to disagree not insulting after what u asked because u asked for it and I not even trolling so how having a honest opinion is being immature?
Just because you’re ‘honest’ doesn’t mean you’re correct or mature.
Whatever u make no sense