If you are interested in a guy you need to make it known to him. Contrary to popular believe most mean are not players and don't really know how to talk to women. I am 45 and I have pretty much stopped saying high to any women much younger than 35 or so because they tend to may me feel like I am some type of creepy old man.
What's stopping you from saying something to him or saying hi how's your day going and trying to turn it into a conversation?
Dudes probably been rejected so many times by women that he's given up or assumes someone that much younger than him isn't interested in a older guy. Serious though younger women treat older guys like they are all creeps or perverts. I only say hi to them most the time and keep walking.
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Odds are that he felt like he put himself out there when he made the comment about your eyes and maybe you didn’t respond how he hoped so he figured you’re not into him and now he’s but hurt or he is too shy so he feels defeated or a million different scenarios but who cares if you’re interested in him you should get the ball rolling like strike up a little conversation or ask for his help carrying something or moving something heavy in your apartment and then tell him you appreciate the help and would like to buy him coffee or something along those lines 99.99% of guys are going to say yes and at the very least they aren’t going to be jerks if they’re not interested girls have the upper hand big time
Maybe he’s just goin through a tough time w/ his mental health or other external factors in his everyday life that have rendered his focus of interest.
if there’s a ever a chance in-passing: try asking him how his day’s been goin then see how he responds to you.
He may not be interested anymore, but you should try and talk to him.
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Nope you are not. These could be his limitations. He might be expecting too much from you after exchange of those smiles and waiting for you to approach him like he had swept you of your feet. On a cold response he might be applying an ignorance tactics on you and making you tempted to talk to him. So better wait and even start ignoring him in the same way till he loses his patience and start talking to you back. In case he doesn't you can presume that he is taken already. He did try to approach you and on your response he retreated due to his own limitations.
Could be a number of things. Something could have happened and he’s overly stressed or depressed about something. He could have started dating someone or he was waiting on you to make the first move and since you didn’t he has assumed you were simply being friendly and not interested.
It's common courtesy for neighbors to smile at each other and enagage small talk. The fact that he told you you have pretty eyes means he saw you as more than just a neighbour, which I'm guessing you didn't reciprocate, and he interepreted this as you're uninterested. If you like him more that that, perhaps try smiling and greeting first, in which case he might open up to you. If you dont see him more than just a neighbour, I suggest not worrying about it and go about your day
Okay, you are seriously cooking all sorts of notions in your head. First of all, who said he ever liked you? Because he looked at you? No... that doesn't mean much really. Have you talked to him much?
Sounds like he was interested and something occurred that put him off you completely.
Did you have any other guys over or arguments with people in the building?Who knows maybe he found another girl that could actually form sentences in his direction
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Maybe he found a new girlfriend maybe he just got real shy maybe he saw you walking with some guy anything is possible it’s all just a big guessing game
Why do so many of you dames care whether or not some random guys gives you attention?
”But... but... he used to say hello and smile and now he doesn’t. What does it mean?”
That you’re not the center of his universe?Im not understanding the point of this post? You're just a neighbor the man doesn't know you. Why are you obsessing over a stranger? This is why I rarely speak to neighbors because of behavior like yours
If he's socially awkward or is under stress he might.
Boys and girls expect the other to make the “next” step.
“I smiled at her so it’s her turn to ask me out.” stupid but that’s how people think.he just found you pretty but that doesn’t mean he likes you. sorry 😞
Who cares? You simply like the attention, you don't really like him, just confess it!
He accidentally let his feelings show before but he got a hold of himself.
Stinky fanny or breath most likely. He vould have smelled her and now wants to avoid. How the fuck can anyone know. Ask him...
Its called moving on. If he didn't move on you'd call him a stalker
It's difficult to know what he think about. Maybe you can try to ask him. There must be a reason why.
Maybe he asked around about you and he found out you are the village bicycle...
Playing games to lure you back to him.
He's no longer interested anymore.
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