Do I need to become popular to get guys to be more attracted to me?

[Anonymous]

The last guy didn't seem happy with me because I didn't have millions of friends

[BeMuse]

It sounds like the last guy you dated was a loser. Any guy that needs to live vicariously through millions of fake friends obviously hasn't and isn't do much with his life. Men have their own interests and pursuits. Your number of friends is not relevant at all. What is important is that you have your own interests and that you are legitimately happy. If all you have in the world is your man, then you will be clingy and get on his nerves eventually. Some girls give men space by spending time with their friends. If you don't have many friends, but you are able to fill your time with hobbies you truly enjoy then I think you're good. Some girls mope around and act like sad sacks if they don't get enough attention and they often fill that void by talking to their circle of friends. More introverted women tend to do alright with one or two close friends. So it really depends on what works for you so that you don't get depressed and insecure and then push those feelings onto him.

[Asker]

O have a few friends already what does he expect he has absolutely none so double standard

[BeMuse]

Well you seem pretty normal to me then. He's probably some sort of narcissist struggling with mental illness...

[Asker]

Something definitely wrong with him for sure he's not normal. Saying things like this when your almost 30 is cringy

[BeMuse]

Well good luck on the next one.

[Asker]

Thank you hopefully someone more laid back and not superficial

[Static_In_The_Attic]

Be yourself that is more attractive & don’t be what other people want you to be.

[Static_In_The_Attic]

Thank you kindly for the MHO’s.

[Anonymous]

No because being popular means having a lot of male friends beside female friends which was gonna make things worse, not to mention that you would have fake friends, more than one guy falling for you at the same time, having to buy gifts everyday for your friends' birthday ... so no, he was wrong... having 2 or 3 true friends is much better than having 50 friends and by the way you deserve better, you deserve someone who doesn't care about how many friends you have ( it's not that important)

[spartan55]

Is that something that he actually said (not happy with the number of friends you had)?

[Asker]

Yeah I not joking joking did kinda makes me angry since a double standard comment he has none like wtf

[BarryLiverstone]

Nope. I mean if you have only 1 friend then yes make more friends but if you have several close friends that’s all you really need. Did he say why?

[Asker]

I have a lot of friends but i wouldn't say I'm popular. I have friends in Canada that wanted to travel abroad so I dunno🤷‍♀️ but he has absolutely no friends at all so its pretty double standard much

[BarryLiverstone]

Copied and pasted your reply?

[Asker]

Yeah I hate retyping all day

[BarryLiverstone]

Doesn’t seem like you really want help then

[Gingerguy33]

No you don’t.. a guy should love you for being you not for how many friends you have

[Asker]

The thing is tho I have a lot of friends but i wouldn't say I'm popular. I have friends in Canada that wanted to travel abroad so I dunno🤷‍♀️ but he has absolutely no friends at all so its pretty double standard much

[donnny2367764]

No you dont... just walk around with a gstring or thong and be sure to show your whale tail to attract our attention

[noohair]

No way. He want you to be able to meet other women. You were like a wingman.

[LegendaryIcon]

it helps

women like men who have women already, it seems to be the same with men

[clemdenim]

he was a very shallow guy

[Asker]

But I yet don't understand is that I have a lot of friends but i wouldn't say I'm popular. I have friends in Canada that wanted to travel abroad so I dunno🤷‍♀️ but he has absolutely no friends at all so its pretty double standard much

[clemdenim]

just be glad he is gone

[Asker]

So double standard tho it really annoys me. Probably expa to me but me these girls you see online posting pictures in clubs

[clemdenim]

too many guys have double standards, example; the difference between a stud and a slut, one gets a pat on the back, the other shamed yet they both do the same thing

[Asker]

So over those guys already he's almost r0 imagine saying that about someone

[Asker]

30**

[clemdenim]

Are you having trouble letting go

[Asker]

Maybe because if this bad comment it just annoys me

[clemdenim]

Did i annoy you did not mean to

[Asker]

No no that guy that said I wasn't popular

[clemdenim]

Let him go, do not look back, hold your head up, move fkrward

[In_Trance]

no you don't