How do I get guys to like me even if i’m not the most popular at school?

[2839102]

Ok so I’m a 14-year-old girl in school I’ve never been really popular and well for obvious reasons in the 6th grade I was very weird to put it nicely but it’s been two years and most people have forgotten and my social status is much better I wouldn’t say popular definitely not but not bullied either like pretty in between (I have a lot of friend just not popular) so I want to know how can I use this to now get guys to like me I would say I’m fairly pretty and have a good body I’m skinny have boobs but no butt I wear revealing clothing maybe something’s will change after I remove my glasses and braces in 3 months but is there anything else I could do to get guys to like me, especially my crush? like should I be more social (I do often come off as intimidating because I often don’t know how to respond so I just stay quiet) or show in other ways that I'm not a “prude” and am available

[caring__1]

If you use sexuality to attract guys, they’ll just use you and then drop you. Make sure your connections are more meaningful. Identify what you bring to a relationship. When people want meaningful relationships, they focus on what they bring to the relationship, not what they believe they’re entitled to receive from it. Maybe you’re a caring person or a helpful person or a kind person or someone who has skills or interests to share. Find settings to show your inner assets. Join a club and take on a role of responsibility. Do volunteer work. Start or join a movement to promote something of importance to other students. Tutor others. Let people see you in action, yet don’t obviously draw attention to yourself and show off.

If you want to show you notice guys, that’s acceptable. Guys like to be noticed for things they say or do (not generally how they look or other things out of their control). Ask them for help or show appreciation for things they say or do. Don’t stick to stereotypes… it’s fine to retrieve something a guy dropped, not just the reverse. Privately, and subtly, help them become aware of things that might embarrass them (their zipper is down or their shirt still has the price tag hanging from it). Offer to help them. Let them know how something they shared in class triggered deeper thinking on your part. Make sure whatever you do has value to them, not just value to you.

Be patient and consistent, and you’ll find what you are seeking.

[FilmGuy93]

Literally just smile and don't be an actively unpleasant person to interact with, and you'll be more appealing than 75% of women.

[PrettyPriya]

Well, here is the thing. You cannot make someone like you. You can increase your chances of getting noticed, which I think is what your point is. First advice is do not depend on revealing clothing to grab attention.

This is going to cause more problems than it will solutions. First thing is that you are going to attract the wrong sort of boys. You are young and do not need that reputation of wearing revealing clothes. Not worth it. Also, you want someone to like you for YOU, not the way you dress.

That said, you can increase your odds of meeting someone by getting more involved in school activities that interest you. I imagine like most schools there are activity groups, sports and other things you can join. That is a great place to start.

Find something that interests you and join a club or activity. You will meet boys (and girls) that have that same interest. It is much easier to start conversations when you already share a common interest.

[Wade12345]

smile and laugh at the guy's jokes. hang out with guys instead of girls, like go tell your crush that you like him, don't wait for him to figure it out.

[Guy13]

You can't make guys, that are decent boys or men, like you in a good way. Attempting to do that means heartache and tears.

[Anonymous]

Your actually better off being conservative. Wondering what is under your clothes is more powerful than showing off the goods.

[boggboss]

U can't make guys like you or approach you lol

[riverrat3]

Smile and be friendly

[In_Trance]

Your age says 22..