Crush on physio.. is he just making general conversation?

[Jellybean28]

I have a slight crush on a physio I see but embarrassed as I have a disability and psychological issues. I'm scared he will find out about my mental health history or my hospital admissions.. Dont know if he can find out more info about my asked me if I had a partner and I said no asked him if he had one and he said no but he's seeing a girl and she's 31.. asked me if it's normal for them to want to settle down etc at that age.. asked me if I wanted kids.. I dno if he's just making convo or if he's slightly interested? He's so freaking hot. I'd be so embarrassed if he found out about some of my past regrets as well or knows someone that knows me and he's just taking the piss out of me.. He also asked how old I am and said that he's 28.. And asked if I thought 28-early and 30s kind of means you're in the same dating range...🤔

[SueShe]

I believe that you are overthinking the entire issue and he is only making small talk with one of his customers.

Also, it would be very unprofessional of him to try to pick up a customer as this is most probably against the rules of the company he works for, provided the company is a serious one.

The fact that you call him "freaking hot" leads me to believe that you are probably not the only one of his female customers to share that kind of opinion. If he is just a little clever as he is "hot", then he should know that flirting with customers is a taboo topic.

[SometimesASiren]

He's trying to get a female perspective on what's going on in his romantic relationship. Sounds like he doesn't feel ready for what his partner is ready for and is wondering if all women her age (ish) feel that way.

[Jellybean28]

He literally works with 5 other women haha not like he can't ask them instead of asking a client. Or even a friend. He just kept going on about it too anyway then asking if I want kids which he's asked before if I have them.. too lol. maybe you're right and I'm looking into it too much..

[SometimesASiren]

Maybe he's surveying anyone he can. Or, since he sees and works with his coworkers every day, he doesn't ask them because he's more afraid of giving off the wrong impression to them. He doesn't want to make their working relationship uncomfortable.

[connemara_crocodile]

Your mental health doesn't define you. If he finds out about that he will only learn about your past, that's not a bad thing, it's the history of you.

We all have some degree of mental health problems... Some more, and some less. It's what you do with then what matters, and he will see that you were taking care of them. If you ask ne, that's nothing but a good thing.

[Anonymous]

sounds like just making convo

[IncognitoBandito]

I'd keep it casual until you're more certain.

[Iron_Man]

let it go