How can I tell him to change outfits?

[Anonymous]

Yo/ guys. i am 15 years old. I am in realtionship with who younger than me. He is 13 years old. HE is cute, he love to me. but he is soso childish. I know he is only 13 years so he may be childish. I want to see him with printerest guys outfits.. His outfits are a little annoying for me. like batman t-shirt... ext. how can i tell him? to change outfits. I am little scared to tell him. because he may be worry.

[IMuser]

The essence of a relationship is to accept each other. Like you may have siblings who are super annoying but instead of changing them, you accept them, sometimes tolerate them and love them

In case of your boyfriend, both of you are exploring your interests and if you really love him (and love yourself), use this time to explore what you like or not like.

I used to wear "Batman tshirts" till i was 18 but now, I got bored, my tastes changed and I wear plain tshirts. Don't change him and don't change yourself for him. Explore yourself, know yourself

[Lionman95]

Show him pics about some of these outfits and let him choose which of these outfits he likes. Maybe dropping hints like:"I´d think you would look good/great in that..." That way you guide him to a possible change while he still can make the decision for himself. If you show some kind of appreciation it enhances his motivation to actually try it out. I know it might be difficult for you but it can increases the chances of him doing it.

[uwu_princess]

Oh fuck XDDDD
He is a little kid. LITTLE KID. And you wanna change his style (like pinterest boys)? What's wrong with you girl?
Better break up with him, don't destroy his childhood!!! 🤦‍♀️ you are immature af.

[Razp_Sorbet]

Let's not go changing a kids outfits to those of 20 something year old men. Let him wear whatever he wants.

[TheMajesticKing777]

13? Really? Was there no one your age? The chances of y'all clicking are pretty slim cause of the age difference, you will soon start puberty if you haven't already and well I don't know if he started yet but it's just all gonna be off balance, if he is childish, that's normal, he is still a child.

[kuladiamond]

I mean its not illegal (yet) but it does sound like she's grooming him, kinda sucpicious if you ask me.

[TheMajesticKing777]

Sounds like they are balancing on a thin rope, this can all fall apart quick, not to mention she is also trying to change the kid like she is forcing him to grow up quicker, for that she should date someone her own age

[TheMajesticKing777]

This isn't about it being illegal, it's more about it being unhealthy for both of their mental health, I can say it right off the bat that this isn't going to work out, she wants someone more mature and he simply won't understand what she wants because his mind hasn't developed far enough to understand what she wants, he is young, he's a pre-teen, she's almost 16 that's a middle schooler with a high schooler, Try thinking of a proper solution for this situation that will be healthy for both of them, you can't lol

[Astarlessnightsky]

You can't.

Either you like and accept him who he is, or you find someone else.

And a Batman shirt is really cool.

[Iron_Man]

You can’t have a relationship with a 13-year-old kid

[Asker]

why?

[Iron_Man]

He’s a baby you’re 15

[Asker]

but he said he love me so much

[Iron_Man]

It doesn’t matter you both have to be adults

[AndrésC64]

You are both very young, so it's good for you both to learn this while you still are. Don't try to change him. It won't work and neither of you will like it.

[Anonymous]

At 15 year old you shouldn't be dating anyone, let alone such a 13 year old kid

[Wise4myage]

He can't possibly love you, because he has no idea what the word even means.

[jahaims]

Smh already trying to change him