Why would a cheating guy still want to keep me close?

[Anonymous]

I had no idea at first he was engaged to some girl because he acted single. One day I confessed to him and he said he couldn't leave his future wife. He wanted me to stay close tho?

[DaveJord]

You thick in the head or just naive as hell? Because he's a two timing slut. He wants his wife because she is his idea of the perfect stereotypical wife... you know the type women he wants to have kids with and age with. You are the side piece he wants to bang the hell out of on the side, when he gets bored of his mundane marriage sex

[Asker]

Screw him I'm 100x better shape than his fomrer party girlfriend, worked abroad, uni. I also have never went to clubs and sallow my self like a slut online either shame on you to judge on here

[DaveJord]

Shame on you for asking such a stupid question if your so smart... maybe you need to do some self refection on why you need to come on here for validation then shame people for being honest with you. You sound like a Karren, get over it.

[spartan55]

So you really think he will choose one when he can have both?

[OlderAndWiser]

He just wants you to be his side girl. He's a cheater; what more do you need to know about him?

[Asker]

Why is he doing to well educated/pretty girls. Im not a side peice I've done way more in life them him and his girlfriend combined

[spartan55]

@asker LOL you think that matters here? If you haven't stopped seeing HIM, you ARE A SIDE CHICK.

[Asker]

@spartan55 I did I unfriended him off social media when I found out

[OlderAndWiser]

You are assuming that this guy shold be aware of your feelings and thoughts. Guys like this are 100% self-centered and never consider how any of this would impact someone else. They are not like you or me and they do not have the same thoughts and feelings that we have.

[Asker]

I'm hating that people on this are giving bad answers. Saying I'm some dumb side chick I've been to uni, worked abroad and 100x better shape than his girlfriend will ever be

[OlderAndWiser]

"bad answers" = answers you don't want to hear. You don't want to think that you were used as a side chick. Okay, but if everyone tells you one thing and you disagree, what is the most logical explanation?

1. You are right and everyone else is wrong?

OR

2. You are wrong and everyone else is right?

[Asker]

What's so good about his girlfriend she's got party pics all over the place. I don't even drink and party so sick of guys just asking for nudes

[OlderAndWiser]

I never said one word about his girlfriend being better than you. That is just your jealousy or scorn over rejection.

[Asker]

Wouldn't say I'm jealous just annoyed how he say me just as a fling really. He actually I could get somone better looking than him my friends say he's not attractive

[OlderAndWiser]

So learn a lesson from the experience, become a small bit older and wiser, and move forward. That's all you can do.

[Asker]

he's probably doing it to heaps of girls online. The girlfriend weirdly looks very similar to. I think he fancied me back in highschool tho

[Asker]

To me**

[DaveJord]

@asker sounds like your obsessing Karen over this guy... you think your better then his real love and for some reason it seems to have hurt your feelings. The guy does not love you, and you got suckered, so get over it. Sure the guys a real ass hole and wrong as hell, but your are not as smart as you give yourself credit for either.

You found out he wasn't single and you confessed to him? And he rejected you. What was there to confess? You found out and that should of been it, if your as special as you pretend to be then there was nothing to confess and nothing to come on here asking or seeking validation for. If you're so confident and amazing you would of ended it and that would be it. But obviously you're not over it and that your real problem, because this has touched on some type of insecurity of yours... so that what you need to sort out for yourself and not shame people here for being honest with you when your aren't being honest with yourself.

[OlderAndWiser]

@DaveJord "Don't ask if you don't want the truth." :) :) :)

[Redhead999]

He wants to have two girls to f*ck whenever he wants. You aren't good enough to be with long term but you are good enough to f*ck. Have some pride.

[Asker]

I'm not bothered what he thinks of me he doesn't really know me

[Redhead999]

He knows you've no self respect

[Asker]

You have to remember I didn't know at first that he was engaged?

[spartan55]

@asker
Now you know so that excuse is used up.

[Asker]

@spartan55 I blocked him when I found out tho

[DaveJord]

@Redhead999 you nailed it.

[SnakeBoop]

Trash will keep acting like trash

[Wise4myage]

He loves the sex, but why stay with a cheater?

[Asker]

@daster4442 who are you talking to?