Would you date/be in a relationship a guy who constantly talked about other girls?

[Lena000s8]

My boyfriend constantly seems to constantly talk about other girls. Whenever he sees some girl he's attracted to, he says that "that girl is (super hot)". Also, sometimes he asks me my opinion about other girls.
This makes me really upset. Each person is entitled to his own preferences, but to publicly announce it all the time, is disrespectful..
I feel really bad, insecure and inferior. I used to suffer from bdd, so his behavior causes me anxiety

I also don't understand why he's dating me, if I'm not good enough for him.. I tried to communicate my feelings to him, but he doesn't seem to understand and gaslighted me... What's your opinion about this?

[WhatTheHeckkkk]

Hell. No.


Sorry, I’m not usually the jealous type of person, I’m fine with people expressing their attraction to others or a boyfriend having friends of the opposite sex, etc. However, announcing it every single time he finds someone attractive, is just annoying and disrespectful to me.


It’s disrespectful. You don’t go to your partner and point someone else out and say “I would fuck/date them.” lts just common decency to keep it to yourself and not act on it. I wouldn’t stick with someone who did that.


He gaslighted you and is invalidating your feelings… You should break up with him.

[dustybiker]

You give him permission to act this way by not speaking up. It is a choice to stay with him.

[PatKirby]

If the guy you're dating or in a relationship with is constantly talking about other women, what does that tell you?

It tells you he's thinking about them - not You. He's either trying to make you jealous, trying to get you to be more like them, hinting about breaking up with you, or who knows what. Either way, pretty much tells you everything you need to know. Adios muchacha.

[TommyMountainFigure]

Speaking from a guy's perspective, I wouldn't date a woman who constantly went on about other guys. It's disrespectful.
I would probably tell her to go be with them then if they mean that much to her.

[Smoke-n-Growls]

Nah. Done that once and it was a sign of just how sex crazed and mind-only-on-sex my ex was.

If he can't keep his own thoughts in check, and he's constantly looking, then what else does he have room for in his mind? Not a lot.

Also, I just got tired of it. I don't mind it - I'm bi, I appreciate a good looking woman, too - but when it's so constant it gets boring.

Tell me about cybersecurity. Talk to me about programming. Ramble about your latest hobby.

Like, yeah, women pretty, I get it. But seriously - there's more to life than ass and tits.

[In_Trance]

If it was the other way around the answer is absolutely not.
I'm sure there's no girl that wants to hear about other girls

[Lena000s8]

You mean if you were in a relationship with a girl, who constantly talked about other guys?

[In_Trance]

Correct

[20yearsolder]

No I wouldn't because I'm not gay but you shouldn't be in that relationship either.

[Anonymous]

Do you want to date a player or a guy that has a low body count? I like a girl with a low body count, not a player.

[Avicenna]

You shouldn’t go that

[ausfreak11]

he sounds like a wanker and has no regard for your feelings.

[Anonymous]

You should say I bet he has nice cock. He will hate that.

[Iron_Man]

Aww There’s another side of that story

[kiranoir]

Yeah of course has long has his gonna love me

[yourdrug98]

Does he compliment you too? Or only others?

[YourToy69]

Dump them