My partner has stopped being as attentive. What can I do?

[Anonymous]

I feel like all he does as soon as he even comes home is talk about work. He has a good job and lots of responsibility but my job is also stressful. We’re only having sex twice a week at the most and for a young couple only a year and a half into their relationship I don’t think it’s a lot.
I feel a bit neglected.
his messages are a bit lacklustre too and not a great deal of effort goes into any phone conversation. I guess he could be busy but he could also make more effort

[Anonymous]

Maybe shower him with more blowjobs to make him feel loved and respected?

[Asker]

Why would I reward bad behaviour

[Opinion Owner]

On the other hand, why would a guy be as attentive to his woman who doesn't give blowjobs and thinks of them as a reward transaction SMH

[Asker]

Clearly you are single or use whores

[Opinion Owner]

Well you're the one that said blowjobs are to be used as a reward for showing good behaviour like he's a dog, and now you're wondering why your relationship is suffering, so I don't know

[Asker]

Why would I reward bad behaviour means why would I do anything good at all. Your behaviour suggests blowjobs equate to love and respect. I’m suggesting any man who thinks with that mindset must either be single or have to pay for it

[Opinion Owner]

Ok best of luck as you wonder what you can do to improve your relationship

[boggboss]

So tell him

[Staximus]

Hot potato alert

[Asker]

What does that mean lol

[Staximus]

It means you are horny haha

[Asker]

That is true lol