My understanding is that grilling is typically done with one's hands and eyes, not genitals. If I'm mistaken... I'm torn between saying "I kind of want to see that" and being very, very glad I don't have to.
And did this have an effect on the BBQ skills of her son? I indeed observe that BBQ-GIRL cooks are a lot less than us guys. So... is it ''instinct'', or is it 'teaching'?
I don’t know if it’s exclusive to men, but I’ve never not seen it turn into a dick measuring contest when there are multiple dudes around, similar to when someone has the hood up on a car or someone is building a fire😂 Odd phenomenon, haha.
yes because the vibrations of our penis induce flavor crystalizing energies to form in the meats. this is why we whistle sometimes while grilling. obviously.
100% In my past relationships I've handled the seasoning and preparation as well. Relax and watch some Netflix and I'll make a dinner that will blow your fuckin mind!
There are really many more men than know how to grill compared to women. I know how to grill and I would gladly spoil a boyfriend/husband. But if he wants to do it, I'm ok with that too.
Yes the BBQ is the man's domain. I do all the outdoor cooking be it on a bbq, camp stove or open fire. I absolutely love it and my wife never complains when I'm cooking since she doesn't have to.
@Still-alive She never wants to. She has stated many times that it's a man's job to bbq. She will tell you she doesn't know how to bbq but that is BS. Just her way if avoiding it and it works for us since I love to bbq.
I love a good bbq. I often go out with friends into the forest with a bbq and just cook up food. It's amazing how calming it is to all sit around with a few beers. The concentration on the cooking and focus of each person always amazes me. Whoever is in charge of the BBQ has the full attention usually. Not sure why it is, but it's damn satisfying!
Get your hands off my grill woman 😂😂 Nah, I don't think it's a man's job but I've never really had a woman in my life that could cook in the kitchen let alone on the BBQ.
I'd rather eat what a woman barbecues. Men just fucking burn everything. We just put it on cremate and flip it over once or twice until both sides are burnt black. Women pay attention when they cook. They're meticulous. It tastes good.
No... I hate gender rolls... In my marriage my husband and I both love to grill... my husband isn't the best at cooking or baking but he can grill... when it comes to food I can do to it tho
We do cook together. I'm certainly not territorial of the kitchen and he pitches in there as well. It was never by design, but our teamwork in meal preparation is great. :-)
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I'm not sure, but it's the ONLY cooking my husband will do. I do the seasoning, marinating, sides, and bringing of cold drinks.
My understanding is that grilling is typically done with one's hands and eyes, not genitals. If I'm mistaken... I'm torn between saying "I kind of want to see that" and being very, very glad I don't have to.
In my home: yes.
The Missus' idea of a barbecue is to burn some meat on a coal fire that basically had a chance to be edible.
That was my paternal grandmother's cooking as well.
And did this have an effect on the BBQ skills of her son?
I indeed observe that BBQ-GIRL cooks are a lot less than us guys.
So... is it ''instinct'', or is it 'teaching'?
Not exclusively. My wife grills every now and then. She's pretty good at it too.
The American Royal is coming up soon :-)
I don’t know if it’s exclusive to men, but I’ve never not seen it turn into a dick measuring contest when there are multiple dudes around, similar to when someone has the hood up on a car or someone is building a fire😂 Odd phenomenon, haha.
https://www.youtube.com/embed/kI9_wnlOx0Qyes because the vibrations of our penis induce flavor crystalizing energies to form in the meats. this is why we whistle sometimes while grilling. obviously.
I thought I could pose a question that had no chance of eliciting a penis-related response, but clearly I was wrong!
Lmao, no. It's whoever wants to grill.
Some men are helpless with any kind of cooking. And I know many women who love fire.
Cooking is not gendered. It is human.
100% In my past relationships I've handled the seasoning and preparation as well. Relax and watch some Netflix and I'll make a dinner that will blow your fuckin mind!
Awesome!
There are really many more men than know how to grill compared to women. I know how to grill and I would gladly spoil a boyfriend/husband. But if he wants to do it, I'm ok with that too.
Yes the BBQ is the man's domain. I do all the outdoor cooking be it on a bbq, camp stove or open fire. I absolutely love it and my wife never complains when I'm cooking since she doesn't have to.
So what would you do if your girl wanted to do it for a change?
That's awesome!
@Still-alive She never wants to. She has stated many times that it's a man's job to bbq. She will tell you she doesn't know how to bbq but that is BS. Just her way if avoiding it and it works for us since I love to bbq.
How do you feel about women wanting to bbq in general?
I am fine with it. My wife likes when I bbq for her so it works for us.
I love a good bbq. I often go out with friends into the forest with a bbq and just cook up food. It's amazing how calming it is to all sit around with a few beers. The concentration on the cooking and focus of each person always amazes me. Whoever is in charge of the BBQ has the full attention usually. Not sure why it is, but it's damn satisfying!
Get your hands off my grill woman 😂😂
Nah, I don't think it's a man's job but I've never really had a woman in my life that could cook in the kitchen let alone on the BBQ.
I'd rather eat what a woman barbecues. Men just fucking burn everything. We just put it on cremate and flip it over once or twice until both sides are burnt black. Women pay attention when they cook. They're meticulous. It tastes good.
No but Men Are Good at Bbqing meat. Also Some women don’t won’t to fool with setting up the grill and starting the coals.
Nope. It's an art, not a job.
True, it's something mostly men do. But that is because it's usually fast food or hosting and thus the woman can do other less heat intensive jobs.
No... I hate gender rolls... In my marriage my husband and I both love to grill... my husband isn't the best at cooking or baking but he can grill... when it comes to food I can do to it tho
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It's a gender role that's still alive and well here.
You are over thinking it. I think both should cook together.
We do cook together. I'm certainly not territorial of the kitchen and he pitches in there as well. It was never by design, but our teamwork in meal preparation is great. :-)
No not always, I don't know I don't grill much when I was growing up all the men in my family grilled so I guess I just kept it that way lol I
If it is I have been doing men's work for years now.
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Maybe you were a man in your past life some habits don't die that easy 😜
No in our family it´s mostly my mum doing it because my dad hates barbecues though I know it´s different in other families.