Boyfriend being distant after a fight 10 days now. What should I do?

[Anonymous]

So we are dating for about 7 months now long distance. We meet once in 20, 30 days. We had an argument and since then he is very cold and distant to a point I thought we are broken up. He’d talk to me daily but in such an official manner.
Yesterday I asked him to tell me straight up whether he wants us to be over because he is extremely cold and he answered “It’s true I am cold but we are not done”. Like what does that even mean?
I explained my side of the story and there is nothing more to clarify. Plus he was the wrong one and I am not even mad.

Should I just let him take his time cooling off or what should I actually do? It’s been 10 days now I am getting bored of it.

[OlderAndWiser]

If you are sure that he was at fault, you are focused on the wrong thing. He is a flawed human being, just like you, and conflict is inevitable. The goal of a relationship is not to constantly evolve until you have fixed all of your flaws while your partner is making the same metamorphosis. Instead of who is at fault, you should be thinking about "how can we resolve this conflict and continue loving each other?" The blame game leads to stubborn intransigence and ultimate failure of the relationship.

[Changiis07]

Let him reach out to you. And the fact that he can't communicate and it takes this long, I mean long distance is not easy but it's not fair to you to be waiting to hear from him this long

[LazerBean]

Y'all are a little old for that sort of bitchery.

[In_Trance]

talk to him. tell him to stop being a bitch