Guys, What should I do? Give up or not?

[Anonymous]

It was about 10 months ago in August 2022, as I was going through insta stories I came across a series reel on someone's story and getting interested to watch it I immediately replied to the insta story and asked him about the name of the series. He then immediately replied me the name of the series. After that I thanked him and he said welcome and started having a conversation with me. The conversation was out of the box for me as I just casually messaged him for the series name. He was the first one started asking questions to me about myself and we started having long conversations. The one thing I knew conversing with him is that I am completely out of his league. He is an extrovert and so handsome, he likes blue color, he likes traveling, he is so hardwoking, etc are the things I discoverd of him. Then after chatting for few days we came to know that we both live nearby so we met and I remember he was wearing white shirt and we went on a long drive. We had such a nice conversation during the entire long drive. After that we went on 4 more dates. All the dates with him were so good as he knew I was an introvert and never knew about places in our area; he initiated to make me get acknowledged with the places and food near our area. He shared about his life, future planning and his secrets with me and with the flow I too told him my secret. He got job and I was the first person he informed. Almost 2 months we were on good terms but after that he started ignoring me. On new year I wished him and he too wished. Then on march 18 i wished him happy birthday and he thanked me. Thats it! I made a poem and digital art hard copy for him on his birthday but he never came. Although I asked him few times to recieve it, he never came. I prepared the gift with hardwork and love. I thought after giving him gift I'll confess and tell him I am giving up on him but that day never came. What should I do? I knew I was out of his league and it kills me falling in love with him.

[caring__1]

It's not about leagues; it's about compatibility. He's not above you or below you; he's just different than you. Never attempt to make significant changes in yourself in order to be acceptable to another person. For every type of person, there are people who are drawn to that type of person. Be true to yourself, and connect with others who appreciate you as you are, not for the potential you can become. You'll end up happier and more fulfilled.

[Asker]

Thankyou so much for your opinion! I'll now give up on him and move on onto a journey of self growth.

[caring__1]

I hope you find someone who truly deserves and appreciates you this time.

[AviatorTom]

Assuming you didn't time travel forward a couple months (August 2022?), give up and move on. He's not for you.

[Asker]

My bad it's August 2021

[Avicenna]

Unfortunately, it’s time to move on

[Iron_Man]

Weird guy had a change of heart and went cold

[In_Trance]

Give up