So, There was a time that my past friends with benefits use to be super cool: but it seem like the less he got sex from me, the less he was interacting with me. But little did I know, the whole entire time that I know him this SOB had her secret relationship going on. But anyways, back in 2021 I know there was some issues and some things he got accused for I still don't know the truth. But he started to pull away because I no longer was giving to him and just a communication between us was just fading away. And I do remember I told him that I was involved with someone and he so-called claim and say that he wasn't mad but a lot of my male friends I spoke to them about this situation they told me that he was. But fast forwarding we are now in the 2022 and I completely shut the doors to him. And yes I have tried to reach out to him two different times to try to see what the hell is going on, the first time he told me to get out of here with all that drama and how he's not going to listen to me and for me to leave him alone. Then the second time was this past week I randomly text him from another number. But somehow he figured out that it was me, lol. And he said I see you're still playing with my phone, she said you're hiding behind some number and I know who this is. And he said it again once again for me to leave him alone. But hours earlier around 2 or 3p. m. I saw him, he was delivering mail he works for FedEx. And I know he's just doing his job and that may not have much to do with me. But we may contact with each other and I start walking fast to my house and he got the hell up out of there and drove off. But I'm just trying to figure out why of all places is he delivering to my neighborhood. Like he lives in another city about 30 minutes away. And coming from somebody that doesn't want to be bothered he told me two different times to leave him alone. So, why the hell is he in my neighborhood.
Is he trying to do this on purpose or is he just doing his job?
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You seriously need some mental help.
Maybe I do. But I'm not longer fucking... Him and it's... clear he don't want to deal with me. But it's like.. Wtf!! Are you coming to my neighborhood. Like the thing is from what he told me that they can deliver to wherever they want to but they pick where they can deliver to and apparently he's a manager. But my friend/neighbor has told me more than enough that they seen him around here. And there has been a few times I believe I saw him outside of work sitting in his car sitting in my parking lot.. I trust and believe I'm not looking at anything romantically as you would say he already made it clear on his attentions about how he feels. Now working it's one thing but why is he creeping around my neighborhood? 😡😡😡
What would be the point of him doing that? On paid work time? Highly doubtful. I really think it has nothing to do with you. Drivers don't get to pick where they deliver, he is bullshitting you.
See he still playing games.. Tf. .. yeah I think you told me this like last year in 2021 but this man has said so many different lies is no joke. And he probably knows some people that lives over here I think is some drug dealers across the street.
But there has also been a few times I saw him and he wasn't working he was sitting in his car I mean I can't assume that was him but it was some suspicious weird activity going on a few nights ago. I was coming home one night it was around 8 or 9 and I was walking from the back road, and when I finally reached my destination which is my home my house. I came across some black car sitting outside where the dumpsters are in the recycling bin is the lights was turned, turned on. Then as I got a little bit closer, they got dim in a turned off the lights. So I walked past the car and they drove off. None of course I could have been anyone. And this is not the first time that he's been around here I'm just trying to figure out what changed in his status as far as delivering. I mean he is a manager so I don't know if he's picking where she wants to deliver but you can write a lot of truck delivery drivers that works for FedEx don't pick where they deliver they have to go through their boss.
And maybe I'm looking at this a little bit too much cuz like you said it may not have much to do with me. But he's very much aware that I live over this way and the other times I saw him like a few months ago he was close by home but in a different complex, apartment complex. And I looked up because I heard him he start talking loud when I got out the car and I looked over towards him in the truck cuz he was dropping off mail and he saw me and we made eye contact and I scratched my eyes looking at him... With not a good expression. Then whoever he was talking about he's alright man I'm going to call you back. And oh I forgot to tell you I was uptown one day last week and I had the right away to go and he was delivering then and he was driving and acting as if he wasn't going to stop but also acting like he was going to hit me.. and maybe you're right I do need some type of help but this is just ridiculous.. because I don't know why he's so angry with me maybe because, I told him about another dude or I stop wanting sex. or maybe someone is putting negative thoughts in his head about me and he's believing it like an idiot.. But if you know me.. Spartan55 I am a very nice person and would do anything for my friends as far as helping them. Like I'm not perfect and I know I may have caused a scene and accused him of him messing around with my so-called best friend and maybe he is innocent and didn't. Because a lot of people ain't got time for that.
But maybe his baby mama is putting thoughts in his head about me I'm not sure, she's been trying to keep this man away from me for so long doing magic spells and everything so ridiculous. But it's just the simple fact of the matter he made things clear to me and I finally understand so trust me I'm not looking at this as though he miss me he wants me he wants to talk, NOOO. It's just like all this rage that he has towards me is just ridiculous because him and I used to be so much more than this close that's what I mean not the physical extract but close emotionally. And I has not communicating like we used to or anymore it could be a number of things. But I know I did reach out to his sister about his behavior and the last time that we talked was this past week and he said leave me alone and mentioned something about telling lies on him I can copy that message and show you.. but this is just so uncomfortable because 8 years and this is what I get. Smh.
I know who this is now... wow...
Lol who am i
Erica
Lol damn why is EVER one keep guessing me.. Wtf.. Don't tell me that you are him. m lol
Uh... no... I guess you don't remember how much we've talked about all this over and over and over and over.
OMG!! My heart was pounding out of my chest thank the Lord. And yes we have.. and I'm sorry to keep bringing up this fool. But, all this stuff is just so weird, because him and I we always work through our issues issues! And I'm trying my best to not make this a concern thing because this year is my year to shine and to do what I need to do for me. My birthday is going to be coming up and I'm getting older and older each and every day. And I'm sure he's not concerning his self with me. But I don't understand why he's so mad with me, like this is all about control is it really because I stop FUCKING him. I mean I did just kind of block him off of everything but again we wasn't even talking like that anyways and we stopped talking after a while.
Like I love him. And it feels so weird! Like I know I am moving on I'm moving forward have this weird fuzzy weird feeling in my stomach again.
leave the guy alone.
I did. But I don't want to see him outside at my mail box. He's looking through all my stuff. Smh
where does your statement mention that he's looking through all of your stuff? it doesn't.
you should leave the guy alone.
smh
Okay. Yeah that's what he wants