Don’t you think a guy should be very grounded in his values?

[Anonymous]

I think it’s the best thing. For example I want sex after marriage and find a girl that’s the same even though I’m not religious.
I won’t settle for anything else. It’s my values.
I don’t want a girl that’s been touched

Yes I agree

No I disagree (people should be more understanding)

[Aditiiiiii20]

Sounds good.
But how are you gonna find out if she's virgin or not?
What if she tells you she is and years after marriage you get to know she lied?

[Asker]

Why would a girl lie? I would make sure she knows and not lay out all my cards on the table

[Asker]

*Make sure I know

[Aditiiiiii20]

Because a non virgin Boy may not say no to a virgin girl and same goes for a virgin guy.
Maybe she could lie to get more options or maybe just she doesn't want anyone to know about it.
I have known a lot of woman who do this.
So good luck for you.

[Asker]

All I can say is, it’s not easy to find a girl you’re compatible with. It’s very hard. But I have a belief that when you find it, it will be super easy and everything will fall into place without much effort.

[Asker]

Also I don’t have my values written in my head. People might even be surprised I’m a virgin and never had a girlfriend

[Aditiiiiii20]

Yea I used to be like you like strictly dating only virgins and stuff until I realised they could be lying which quite has happened so now I just go for the vibe.
Maybe finding a more religious type girl could be good for your values as there would be more chances of her being a virgin.

[Asker]

I’d prefer to just stay single if I can’t find what I want. I’ve come to the point in my life where I’ve done all the right things. I deserve to find a girl that has done the same with her life

[Aditiiiiii20]

But what if she actually is the right girl for you but was stuck with the wrong guy? Will you still stick to your morals?

[Asker]

Really hard to say. It depends how I feel about her. Is she really nice, has she got it all? I don’t know it would be a hard blow. But I wouldn’t say NO straight away. But I would wonder why she was with a bad guy in the first place - a lot of girls like those guys without realising it.

[Redstang88]

You can want whatever you want, just doesn’t mean you’re gonna get it. I just think it’s a foolish thing to write someone off over something so insignificant

[Guy13]

You’re a solid guy…Some woman will enjoy being around a man that makes it clear where he stands on things. Women only like a little bit of mystery

[JakeS00]

Yeah, I'm like that too. Just how I grew up.

[faithgrace4u]

Oppps wrong thing yes i agree with you

[888theGreat]

I am , no one like me. Hasn't help me

[Avicenna]

Absolutely