What do you think of the Christian idea that getting an attractive guy is about focusing on God as opposed to the guy?

[jennifer_bloom]

My friend who married a hedge fund millionaire was somebody with strong principles and she was the furthest thing from a gold digger you could find. She wanted a guy that could help ensure the survival of her and her kids, but a Walmart manager would have been equally desirable to her if he had approached her when she was single.

The girls I know that got attractive guys cared more about their family and friendships and religion and morals and physical fitness and careers then they did about landing a good guy.

[bededazzle]

i think it’s good to have a gifting principal in your selection beyond let’s say your natural instincts. i am not a religious person, but i think i still understand what you mean. personally, i find it hard to not care about looks, though in terms of higher thought, they have nothing to do with compatibility

[sawno]

I think its the mistake you have been making for to long. God won't give the guy, he'd arrange a meeting at best. When a suitable guy crosses your path strike up a conversation.