If you are a holy guy and respectful, do you agree that you must find a girl that shares your values :)?

[holydude999]

tell me your thinking.

yes

no

A total of 46 votes were cast: 16 girls and 30 guys. See detailed results

[shoeboxcerealcard]

You want to find someone in harmony with the type of relationship you want. We have to stop focusing on the ideal partner and realize what you're after is a relationship not a person. We have to begin to think. We have to take this serious and get it right.

What two people will naturally create the relationship you want? Okay then from that point on you both have to think and act like those people. It's that simple. Be those people or you don't get what you want. IF you don't know what relationship you want, there is no way you could know what partner you want. So many people pick partners that they don't actually want because they never sit down and realize what I've just said.

[LadyKitty]

It depends on You. Me personally? It depends on the religion and how extreme they are. When I found a partner though, I preferred someone who didn't follow any religion or if they did I was open to pagans at most.

Some Questions to ask..

If you were to raise a family, Would you require them to share your beliefs or how would you feel if they chose your partners beliefs over yours?

It depends whether or not what sorta practices you have and if you wish for your partner to be a part of it.

etc So I suggest ask yourself what are you okay with or not okay with.

If you like someone seriously though, Don't let religion stop you for a potentially fulfilling relationship.

[genericname85]

no i don't think that doing anything "entitles" you to the attention of a woman or any person for that matter. like if you use this entitlement mindeset, you're probably not gonna get far in life.

[patois]

Holy: Regarded with or worthy of worship or veneration; revered.

I'm not looking for anyone to worship me. I'm no God.

[Keyboardkat]

If you are looking for an eventual marriage partner, which I assume you are, then it is vitally important that both of you share the same values. This is more important than, say, having common interests, which people always say is important. My wife and I, for example, really have very few interests in common, yet we've been together 53 years because we have the same values. You don't have to be clones of each other; in fact, that would get boring after a while. But common values is a must. I mean, if you hold traditional values, could you see yourself married to a person who is into spouse-swapping?

[Seinna]

No matter what values you have, you're much better off finding a person who shares them. Values and goals for the future must align for a successful relationship/marriage.

[jshm2]

What the fuck is a "holy guy" exactly?

[holydude999]

clean

[Anonymous]

I'm more like a holy SHIT! guy.

And yes, I want to find a girl that is holy SHIT!

[I_Am_Loner0405]

The holy shit type of girl will just make you say holy shit when she divorces you and accuses you of abuse or harassment and you lose your job and she gets your money.

[Opinion Owner]

[sheikalana]

A hundred percent. Don't lower your standards for some basic B.

[Anonymous]

You better, because most free thinking people wouldn't bother with a religious nut.

[shoeboxcerealcard]

Are you behaving like the person you really wanna be?

[handsomelad70]

Maybe not MUST, but as a holy dude, you should find a babe who is morally compatible.

[lorenzomichael]

Yes I do. the Bible says you should not be unevenly yoked.

[deus_ex_sisyphus]

finding a partner that shares your values is generally a good idea

[I_Am_Loner0405]

Wasn’t for Steven crowder

[deus_ex_sisyphus]

@I_Am_Loner0405 Perhaps not, but maybe there was something other than shared values that drove them apart

[I_Am_Loner0405]

Maybe so, but that doesn’t change the fact she’s seeking to ruin his reputation and prevent him from seeing his children. Thought these women were family oriented who refuse to divorce?

[jack1924]

I am a respectful guy not holy…and I won’t end up with a religious person for sure

[BCRanger10]

Couples should have shared values.

[Anonymous]

Well, why would you want to do otherwise?

[I_Am_Loner0405]

Nope

[I_Am_Loner0405]

Pretty sure Steven crowder’s wife was and now he is dealing with extortion and a divorce.

[12karen]

Of course