He wants sex very quickly?

[Anonymous]

Like on 1st date he expected kissing. Then 2nd date, he looked very cold and was getting very impatient and annoyed because we were just talking. He was trying to hide it but at times he would point towards other girls wearing revealing clothes saying how he saw her on the same bus as him or he would stare at my thighs. At tines, he would even fall silent and start looking elsewhere.

I ve seen him meeting other girls at bars so I'm assuming he is used to getting kissed or in bed very quickly?

He's still kept my number saved

[chris_987]

Girl- guys wants to treat me horribly

Also Girl- how can I get into relationship with said guy

[Iron_Man]

Don’t give it up and see if he sticks around

[Asker]

But he's always meeting new girls and texting them so?

[Iron_Man]

Find a better boyfriend

[Keepitreal007]

Next! Don’t put up with that garbage.

[Anonymous]

He just wants sex.

[Asker]

OK but why behave like this?

[Opinion Owner]

Well, see how he’s trying to rush things along? First date kissing, then getting cold and impatient when you aren’t going along with touching and feeling? That is a man who is disinterested in getting to know you, and trying to basically be a hoe. He’s chatting up other girls not out of genuine interest, but to get them into bed. That may be shocking or unbelievable to you, but I’m sure you are aware that not everyone guy has good intentions for you.

[Asker]

On our 1st date he proposed going to a cottage in a different city for a "break". He mentioned it 3 times but didn't follow it up next date.
He was also very polite and nice in his texts first but the moment he saw he wouldn't get sex, his attitude changed, he stopped texting and became very bitter when I stopped texting too.

[Opinion Owner]

Those are things to pull you in, girl. These words are just potential, like him saying “I see a future with you” “I could see kids with you” “I want you to take this or that trip with me” “I want you to meet my family and friends”, etc etc. I’m not saying that a man is incapable of genuinely meaning those things because that would be a lie. But when you couple all those empty words with how quickly he’s trying to kiss and touch, it’s him trying to make you comfortable, trust his intentions and then eventually give him sex. Guys don’t have to be assholes to get laid, of course you’d open up more to a polite, kind man. Then he will kindly ghost you once he gets what he wants. The signs are all there, don’t fall for the game.

[Asker]

I ve noticed that he does this every few weeks like he starts coming online a lot, like a lot on whatsapp so I'm assuming he finds someone to text and charm. Then after q month, the whole frequent online activity stops and he comes less and less..
He has his read receipts turned off too

Do you think he does this holiday sex trips with other girls too?

[Opinion Owner]

Honestly girl I would not be surprised at all. I knew a guy some time ago who was just like that but with snapchat, like his snap score would bump up and up for a few weeks or less, then it would just freeze lol I was keeping an eye on that for like 2 years bc we were on and off in that time but it’s just shady business. As for your guy’s sex trips, I dont know if he’s sleazy enough to just cycle out women like that especially with sex but crazier things have happened. I do think something is happening, maybe he is just entertaining or chatting with another (or more than one) woman, and if she’s not satisfying what he wants or she gets over him, he circles back to you and/or whomever else allows him to come back after hiatus.

[Asker]

Also one thing. I went offline on whatsapp for 2 days in the evening so I didn't open the app after 6.50 pm and 20.00 pm.
I saw he was online in the middle of the night on both days when I saw his chat in the morning.

After 2 days, he also started disappearing after 17 30 and 19.30 pm for 2 days.
During the day also he was gone for long hours but yesterday he came online around 23.40.

Do you think he also checks my whatsapp and considering he got jealous before, he decided to do this because he felt where did I go because I never hgi offline for long hours?