“Good guys always finish last!” Is this statement true or false? Guys, what do you think? Ladies, your thoughts?

[Pinay_ako]

[Bmories99]

I'm my I can say yes because it's the nice guys who tend to be shy. The nice guys are also the ones who will put everyone else's feelings before their own.

[Sparkie460]

It's true very often. Good guys try to get ahead the legal way. Other people swindle their way to the top.

[Sparkie460]

Thanks for the mho

[Pinay_ako]

Your answers are always good! Gotta give credit where it’s due

[Sparkie460]

Thank you for the compliment. I love your questions

[Pinay_ako]

🥰 thank you for that!

[Sparkie460]

You're welcome

[WeirdoFriendly]

To the kemit picture. I don't need the seat lifted up so I can do my business.

Though, I believe that the statement "good guys always finish last" is somewhat true. Friends of mine have gotten far more and gone farther than I ever have by being sort of the "bad guys." Now, I'm not saying that I fully care about that because I've gotten to learn about females my own way. But, I wish I could experience a females mood, pleasure, touch, smile, joy, sadness, etc. I would like to have a relationship with a woman who wants a gentleman rather than a scoundrel. Anyway, I hope this answers your question.

[jahaims]

For me a good guy is just someone who is mature and usually at a younger age. They are least likely to find another mature person their own age because it is more rare so you have to see females your age go through a few "bad guys" (immature) before they mature enough to realize the stuff they chased after and thought they wanted isn't what they thought it would be. In that process they either become jaded because guys who don't treat females the best are getting into relationships or they stay "good guys" long enough to get a damaged female or someone who made it through enough bad guys that they have matured and learned what they actually want.

[RavVid]

If you are carrying the extra weights of honesty, integrity and caring then you certainly can't run as fast as a guy who isn't. But those characteristics mature into a strong definitive sense of how things should be and I think Ladies like that strength of self.

Bad boys will win the first few laps but fail to reach the finish line.

[SaltyBeaches]

Do nice guys always finish last? Nope. Women like men with strength and character, but that doesn't mean they can't be nice. But being too nice to make up of other things that are lacking is not attractive either

I've never understood the toilet seat thing. If it's down and you want it up, put it up. If it's up and you want it down, put it down. No biggie.

[Lionman95]

Yes because they are often times overlooked and called boring or not adventorous enough. Also a genuine good guy is rather a friend to a woman and not a husband or a boyfriend because they don´t seem to have the backbone to walk away from a woman playing with them.

So good guys oftentimes don´t finish in a relationship but as everybody´s darling.

[ThoseCognacEyes]

A guy can be good while at the same time cognizant of his self worth. If that’s the case, then no, I wouldn’t agree with the above statement. However, some good guys might help others before helping themselves, usually out of loneliness or the way that they were brought up. Nothing is wrong with that inherently but unfortunately we live in a jungle. Eat or be eaten.

[ChiTown33]

I'd say it depends on what your definition of "success" is. Am I in a relationship? No. But I'm not unhappy either. I know what I bring to the table. I know my worth. I also know my flaws. Enough people tell me i'm a catch. But I'm only one half of equation. I'm NOT going invest in someone UNWILLING to invest in me. I would totally expect the same for her.

[altaboy]

A lot of my lady friends seemed to always pick jerks. I could never understand that. I also had difficulty understanding why they would get mad when I pointed that fact out. I don't think that I have ever really understood women.

[Pinay_ako]

You never will. People are complicated

[peedy]

Yes its true I have sat beside many women just after a break up and listening to them bitch and cry why can't I find a nice guy and watch as they leave me sitting there and go after the first asshole that come ls through the door and a few months a year whatever they right back where they started bitching about this new guy, like a broken record doing the same thing over and over expecting a different result
That is when I walk away

[MCheetah]

No. More often than not, they don't even get to compete, nor "finish." Women see good guys as weak, submissive, and pathetic. The original simps.

So somewhat true, but mostly false. But not for the reasons women are thinking.

[bamesjond0069]

They do. Literally. All the bad guys nut with her and when she's no longer attractive enough for that some "nice guy simp" will come marry her and finally after all these years, he will get to finish with her. Smh. Thats fucking sick and pathetic.

[OlderAndWiser]

Don't good guys make sure that their lady either finishes first or at the same time as the guy? :) :) :)

[Chazmatazz269]

It’s definitely true. Though i’m told “good girls” struggle similarly. I’m not convinced, but i’ve never been a good girl, so i have to assimilate what i know with what i’m told.

[ObscuredBeyond]

I'm to the point that when an old fling posts evidence on Instagram that she's actually done things to improve herself as a human being, I get a sense of warmth inside. But I still try to be realistic about how unlikely it is to get back with her.

Meanwhile, trying to learn Linux as fast as I can.

[Lyndsielee666]

If I’m the one scrubbing the toilets and making sure that shits clean he better take 3 seconds and put the lid down 🙄

[Djaay]

I have never so much as heard even a rumor of a woman picking up the toilet seat after she was done. So why do us guys ever have to put it down.

[Lyndsielee666]

@Djaay because we’re the ones cleaning the toilet tf

[Djaay]

No... that's hardly never true , especially in my house. Not buying it woman...
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[Lyndsielee666]

@Djaay damn find someone that’ll clean I guess Lmfao

[Djaay]

So why do you not put the seat back up when your finished?

[Smoke-n-Growls]

Nah, not at all.

That is 100% a "Nice Guy" line.

Maybe if the "good guy" didn't treat being nice like a sex punch card, he'd finish at all.

[FilmGuy93]

It's been extremely false, in my experience. The problem with "good" guys is that they don't know how to make people value their time and attention. You have to learn how to LOVINGLY place a premium on those things.

[USLegionary]

[Crafteroon]

Truly good guys finish last, some just aren't as good as they think they are.

Sometimes it's not possible to finish last, but you can do your best to make sure everyone finishes at least.

[Andres77]

Context.

If it's during sex, that's the way it should be!

[Pinay_ako]

🤣 that was my point!

[Midgetmcwidget]

It’s like the saying, it’s always in the last place you look, you wouldn’t continue to search for something after you have already found it

[NathanDavis]

not for me... I ended fourth in track and field overall, lol... not last

[OddBeMe]

The toilet seat thing is more a cleanliness issue. Its a polite way to remind men to check you haven't showered the toilet seat in urine. As some do…

Nor do men (50% at least) wash their hands…even today

[Shy_Steve]

False, Not necessarily.

It's the Shy Guys that usually Finish last.

[Pinay_ako]

Why is that

[Shy_Steve]

How would I know, That's just what most Girls seem to do.

[AviatorTom]

Good guys take their time... and at least finish what they're doing

[Xtendable]

I think, whether we are male or female, if we are confident and comfortable in who we are, a lot of things don’t matter

[Iron_Man]

I’ve heard that before maybe. I’m not so sure about the girls as long as you’re attractive probably can always get a guy that’s got some cash flow going with security

[exitseven]

This is true more often than not. People that lie and cheat usually make out in the end.

[forknowing]

true, All the hot girls keep me in the friend zone... should I be mean to them or?

[Pinay_ako]

Don’t go for the hot ones if they’re mean. There’s a lot of good girls out there who’s worth loving

[forknowing]

agreed! besides they don't have to be hot or even skinny, just fun and nice with a dirty side for (hopefully) later ;)

[fonduegirl]

I think some decent men are just bitter that they don't get picked. That's all.

[madgoat]

I'm not sure that's always true. Perhaps that's why there are so many divorcees.

[Gangactivities911]

Nice guys aren’t good in bed it seems like so yes

[Boldy_Erin]

I've dated some guys who turned out to be not so nice. My boyfriend is amazing and very sweet.

[Jerre]

Totally false. I am a good guy, so say my numerous friends, and always finish first or near first

[Hispanic-Cool-Guy]

I'm a nice guy and I get rewarded for it. 😉

[Zolly99999]

OMG it's so true. I have lived it many times

[007kingifrit]

in most things in life yea, being nice will hold you back but not everything and not always

[Twalli]

We may finish last, but we finish with a girl

[Pinay_ako]

This!!!

[motownplayer2000]

It’s almost always true.

[motownplayer2000]

Then women ask well where are the good guys… lol

[Pinay_ako]

I like good guys 🥰

[Amur8711]

Yes, I believe Good Guys do finish last.

[Pinay_ako]

Hi 👋

[Amur8711]

Hi 👋

[spartan55]

Are you kidding me? Of course.

[GingerGuy]

If they "finish" at all even, yes.

[Wise4myage]

Yes, its very true.

[WhitneySnow]

False

[RobEurope]

I dont know what it means.

[KrakenAttackin]

Absolutely.