
Do you agree with the phrase "nice guys finish last" ? If yes, why?


I do for two reasons. First of all nice guys will make sure she finishes :P
Second in the context its actually meant nice guys (And I mean genuine nice guys, not the guys who use being "nice" as an excuse on why they should be picked over another guy they think is an asshole) would wait for a girl they are truly compatible with. I think i'd have had it in me to learn how to play and manipulate girls into bed or a relationship that gives me sex for a bit. But that never really was something I thought about and the moments it did come to mind it was in the context of something i'd never do.
Ultimately that kind of dating would be a numbers game. You date anyone pretty which for me is a lot of girls until you find a girl thats responsive. Maybe she was longing for a boyfriend, maybe she finds you cute, maybe she loves your immense confidence after all if she's girl number 20 that week that your hitting on and nothing of value is lost if she rejects then why would you be nervous right? If you have a 1% chance of getting her in bed just hit on 100 girls. there's plenty of pretty girls around.
Had I played that game I am sure i'd be having a lot more sex than I do but at the same time I would not be able to life with myself.
I instead seek that true soul mate and life long partner but she's incredibly rare. My kind of girl seems like one in a billion not because I am so picky on looks but because its very rare that a girl truly is on my wavelength. It happened once since my standards were so high and it was an incredible relationship with almost everything I desired. It could have grown into evverything we desired if the circumstances didn't block us from transitioning to an in person one. Long distance is hard, long distance in lockdown season where you can't travel to each other is nearly impossible.
I'm still confident ill find a true match, either trough reunited love or new love. That girl will be loved and cherished like she can't believe. My ex described it as being baffled that hollywood romances and true matches are apparently real. I want to give my next girlfriend that experience to since I am chasing the purest form of love and unity you can achieve in human form. But to do so I need a kind of girl thats extremely rare personality wise. Looks wise I am luckily attracted to a lot of girls in my country so thats not to big of an issue. If I walk by a crowded train station i'd be walking past hundreds of girls who are attractive to me. But which of them would have my personality?
They do, there's a difference between nice guys and good guys, nice guys are far too nice they don't set standards or boundaries on when to stick up for themselves or others, they are the ones people end up taking advantage of, unfortunately
Yes but good guys know when people cross the line, nice guys would continue being nice even if a person is taking advantage of their kindness, I believe the difference is when to draw the line, being able to draw a line makes the whole difference.
The saying nice guys finish last comes from somewhere, id imagine that it's that people eventually get too comfortable around nice people and they end up taking advantage of them, maybe even subconsciously
It's a balancing act. You're right.
I don't agree with it. However, it seems to be the case or there wouldn't be a famous saying like that for decades.
I struggle with being kind and nice to not just guys, but people in general. These days that isn't a good thing. Much to my surprise when a person is nice and kind, people assume that you are weak.
I'm here to tell you that being a nice and kind person doesn't mean that the person is weak. It means that you need to go to the dictionary and look up those two words and see if you can find where it says they are weak.
No, we are nice and kind to most people because it's our nature and also what we were taught how to treat people.
But one thing about nice and kind people is when you push them too far, you won't see a nice and kind of weak person. Nope! So watch out for what happens when you go too far with them and believe that you can treat them in such a way like just using them because they are nice.
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I have been in a lot of conversations with girls after they rejected or ignored a guy and some of those were nice guys, and some of them SAID or THOUGHT they were nice guys but really were not in my opinion (for example they pretend to like a musician the girl likes just to build a bond w her but it’s fake). So, I think this can go either way, some truly nice guys do seem to have bad luck in relationships but I think there are more “fake nice” guys in that situation than truly nice guys. Then again I don’t know everything, this is JMO!
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Genuine nice guys (not fake ones) may finish last but just remember slow and steady wins the race. In the end most the women choosing bad men one day will be seeking a nice guy and a gentleman but many of them would have wifed up good women.
The thing of it is it’s not settling. Not allowing oneself to be used by narcissists as well as having some sort of standards for themselves. Not all women are bad and neither are all men but the bad men and bad women figure it out later in life.
Many times what happens is these men will knock a woman up and marry her. That or a woman gets kncoked up and either married the dude or the dude runs off. But the dudes who run off also end up paying child support.
So let those people fuck around and find out later in life… Literally. It’s not worth it trying to win people over who aren’t searching for anything genuine anyways. Many of them try to take advantage of a good man later down the road to lock someone down for marriage.
No not really. Just because he nice doesn't mean that he wants that person. And most the girls he might look at and wants. But get turned down. It's because she's just not the one for him... it would never work anyway 2 different people. And A lot times the girl doesn't know the real him . She only knows the nice side of him... The other side is mean
It's like your only going to love the depth you have Experienced... and in the depth the level of love is going to be the same level of hate or dislike they work hand in hand if you know one side. You also know the other side.
So what im trying to say.. most nice guy might think or believe that .. but there wrong . Nice guys that know who there are can just about pick who they want To be with but only if they are right for each other
I really don't take phrases like that seriously. It's far too much of a simplification. It doesn't matter if this guy is nice, mean, a blend of the two, sentient or not. People are gonna adapt to him & be attracted to him simply because he's good looking:

Yes definitely. Some nice guys finish first though. They have to have social skills (be intelligent and smooth), be attractive, be kind and caring, have emotional intelligence, etc.
Those are traits that usually develop later in life. Most nice guys tend to have less social skills and confidence. The guys that are smooth with girls at the start only care to get with them for status and the experience of being physically intimate with the girl. Their plan isn't to settle down, but to experience as many women as possible. They don't care about a woman's feelings. They only listen to their greedy desires.
Women tend to be attracted to bad guys because they come across as confident (disguised arrogance) and masculine, which leads to more thrills in life. They're also smooth and popular. Those guys are not afraid to use that to their advantage.
This goes both ways , but usually yes , because Karma is a bitch
Of course, she should always finish first, and her guy should help her do that... before he finishes. 😎
I’m thinking / understanding that you’re pointing at this notion in terms of relationships? , that the “alpha male” finishes first? And the “nice guy” is “friend-zoned” ? …nonsense in my experience and general opinion I’ve always been a “nice guy” , giving , polite , kind , sensitive , emotionally intelligent , humble , supportive , caring , understanding etc. I have never , and would never compete for female attention , I’m the emotionally strong silent type. Being “nice” doesn’t mean that I am a pushover or weak or even a passive passenger in life , people confuse these all the time.
Being truly kind , sensitive & supportive etc is not a weakness , it doesn’t make you less of a man and I couldn’t care less if it makes me less attractive , do I really want to be attractive or attract , for whom I’m not , like a player.. a pretender? … for what?
By being kind and giving and true to myself which makes me happy what’s the worst that can happen? , i get played? , used? … well that’s on them , clearly they are damaged , .. not me.. I don’t give because I want it returned , I give because that’s who I AM !
If “good” finishes last then it’s inferred that “bad” finishes first? Or at least some way up the field? . That might be true in the short game but life is a marathon, not a sprint , it’s a strategy not a full on frontal assault.
Well thank you , kind words 😊
I've never hit a woman in my life, I've treated them with respect and kindness. I've devoted months on multiple occasions to helping them once, 6-7 days out of the week I was up from 10-4 on weeknights sleeping through school for 6 months just so I could spend the night listening to a woman I loved cry and comforting her. Only to be used and then rejected not just as someone romantically interested but as a friend too.
Romantic rejection is one thing but after everything I did for her not being my friend at least felt cold. Worse it was my best friend, who I literally taught the alphabet. That's how far we went back, she asked him out at my birthday gathering and the next day he told me he was going out with her. Do you know what I did when that happened? I grit my teeth, put on a fake smile, said "It's ok, I just want her to be happy so take care of her."
Even after all of that I still loved her enough to "Let her go." and do you know what he did? He fucked her for several months only caring about her body then dumped her when she said her emotional needs weren't being met. He didn't just betray her, he betrayed me. I made him promise he'd take care of her and he used her instead!
I spent six months helping piece her back together just for someone I trusted and loved as a brother to use her like a toy and break her all over again. In the end though I understand why she didn't want me. I have nothing other than a caring personality really going for me. No money, no job, financially I'm barely scraping by, at my very best I'm average looking. It was a problem then it's a problem now I wouldn't date me either.
I've gotten in fist fights defending woman multiple times purely on the virtue of "They're a woman and that POS is being violent to her. On a couple occasions I'd never even met her before that, I just saw someone being rough with her and I acted.
Unfortunately, woman don't want the guy who stands up for them. They want the guy who stands up for them and wins. I'm not a fighter but I'm willing to get in fights I know I'll lose if it's on principle like that. The way I see it if they're punching me at least they aren't punching her right? I might not win but I can shield that's the mentality I go with when I do that. Basically, I redirect the violence to me.
I've seen too many bad things already to let stuff like that happen and look the other way. I feel compelled to do something because I can't keep watching people get hurt and nothing be done about it. It makes me feel sick. There's a lot of people who are dead, traumatized or in the hospital because when something was happening everyone looked the other way and said, "Not my problem." I hear that in my head whenever I see these kind of things.
I was just raised right and learned a lot by watching my dad be a man. I followed his example that's it, but principles don't always = appeal. In fact, I've become unpopular with multiple people because I stood by my conscience instead of them that's how I lost all my friends.
I've mad picnic baskets from scratch and done my best only to find out after I thought it went well that it was a pity date. (Girls don't do that please, it's worse than being honest and rejecting us outright, it ruined my whole month) That one was humiliating too because when I asked her out a second time I did it in a spot we liked to hang out at in public and the store owner and everyone there saw her explain. When I left, I still remember the store owner looking at me like "You poor bastard."
FFS I spent time in jail because I was young and angry, and I trusted a woman who said she was robbed by a meth dealer and nearly raped. So, me and my "friend" who was in love with her robbed him and put the fear of God in him and made him think he was about to die. Then I found out she made up the whole thing to avoid getting in trouble for stealing from my "Friend".
I got very lucky with only a little over two weeks in jail. I had a good lawyer, and the judge basically looked at my case and said, "Oh crap this is a kid that is misguided and fucked up and got turned into a patsy." I was very lucky. If it was the other judge, I'd probably have gotten a minimum of a year in prison. I was lucky though. All I did was loot the car and I wasn't involved in the threats and assault. My "Friend" shot at his feet and made him pray to god for "forgiveness." H pistol whipped him in the face too.
I share a minimum of half the blame for my own actions because I could have backed out at least twice, but I thought if I did, I was letting a predator walk free with no consequences and also letting my friend down when he needed me. That MFer was a talented gas lighter. He tricked me into thinking he was my best friend, and it took me years to realize he was actually my owner and abuser. He drove a wedge between me and my own father. That's how good he was at manipulation.
I felt awful. I still do. Somewhere out there some poor bastard probably has PTSD and trauma because of a lie my friend acted on and I helped. For some context I was angry at the world and had recently experienced one of my biggest trauma's. I basically heard the word "Rape" and wanted to inflict violence on him. in my opinion the tier list of evil goes 1. Rape. 2. Lying about rape. 3 Murder. 4. Cheating/Abuse. Also bear with me this pattern of abuse and rejection continues.
I've brought fresh cut flowers from my garden trying to be romantic, I've bought jewelry paid for dates even when I couldn't afford it even when they tried to help pay because "Chivalry". The women I got my first kiss from and the closest thing I had to a girlfriend in high school I found out a couple years ago was actually raping a friend of mine while we were dating.
I had no idea this was going on at the time but once I was told about it by her victim a bunch of things mad sense. There were two days I remember where my friend went to the bathroom only for the bitch to go a few minutes later. The bathroom breaks were also suspiciously long the first two times then went back to normal length once she started taking a friend.
After the second time that happened my friend started taking a buddy with her every time she went to the bathroom. I thought it was just a girl thing but now I know she wanted a witness to protect her. Naturally my skin crawls every time I remember I let her touch me and I got my first kiss.
The night I lost my V card was so awful, awkward and uncomfortable too. I wish I never had sex and was still a virgin. In fact, I'm celibate now because I've given up on dating and after I had sex with someone, I didn't love I felt sick, dirty, and violated. (I was uncomfortable from the start, but I was in a no way-out position or it at least it felt that way.)
She was mentally unstable and emotional, and I was alone in another city with no ride. She was also depressed and desperate and I kind of felt like I had to comfort her too because she was coming on really strong. I was worried if I backed out, she'd throw a fit or break down in tears or lie and say I raped her.
Her last boyfriend who she clearly still loved killed himself and shortly after she had a miscarriage from another bed partner that got her pregnant. SO with this in mind I migine why you can see why I was uncomfortable and had concerns. Oh yea and this was all on the first night we met so yea that was a shit ton to process.
I was so uncomfortable. Listing to a woman cry about her abusive mom, dead dad, dead boyfriend and dead baby while I held her as she cried was one of the most uncomfortable things I've ever done. and the sex made it even worse. Part of me feels sick because she'd been drinking, and I couldn't tell for sure how much of it was her being upset and needy and how much of it was the booze. She wasn't slurring or anything, but she'd had a couple beers so that made me super nervous.
I've also been stood up, used as cover for their real sexuality, teased, called gross while she gossiped to her friends right after I asked her out, looking at me and laughing. I've been strung along, used and tossed aside. I literally walked through multiple blizzards to help a former friend with a breakup even after I gave up dating. I was hoping if I rekindled the friendship, I could meet more people through her and make new friends. (I have no friends IRL only online ones.) once she felt better though? Ghosted again.
It also pisses me off though when I hear about abuse on this site because it enrages me and makes me feel sick. I see these posts of women asking if they should stay with their boyfriend because they "Love him" even though he's been beating them for months. Yesterday there was a woman asking if she should forgive a guy who... 1. Banged her in the back of his car on the first date 2. told her to her face he could do better than her right after. 3 made her walk home while he drove his car next to her at a snail's pace watching.
I hear stories like that, and it makes me want to track the bastard down and hurt him. Abuse is bad enough but after everything I've done and been through trying to find a partner hearing those story's cuts me. They have something I've wanted for years and can't even get a chance at meanwhile they get a chance, and they shit all over everything love is supposed to be about like it's nothing!
I'm flawed but I try really hard to be good. I get involved in charity I help people even strangers. I've even made a game out of sneaking around my apartment complex at night and taping caramels to people's door so they can have a pleasant random surprise when they open it. I'm not trying to brag I'm explaining the lengths I've gone to be a real nice guy instead of the "Nice guys" you see on reddit.
So, yea if the biggest thing you have going for you is being nice than you're going to finish last. Being a good man isn't enough on its own. You need more than just kindness to be appealing. if that's where your quality caps out. You will finish last over and over.
Sorry for the wall. I normally don't answer questions without an in depth answer especially if it's one I have personal investment in. This was one of them.
Explain to me how exactly and which part?
I would rephrase it:
“Indecisive people finish last”
Nice guys are typically shy and awkward and try not to offend anyone or ruffle any feathers so they get screwed over
There are 2 things I recently learned which can summarize what a person needs to make it in this life:
Thick skin, and sharp elbows.
Women don’t like a bad boy because he’s bad.
They like him because his bad boy nature opens the door to many things they would enjoy.
Just because a guy is “nice” doesn’t mean he’s owed love and affection.
So what is he to do?
Go out there and claim it the hard and dirty way.
Simple
First, what no one wants to say out loud is that "Nice Guy" is a euphemism for "Needy Guy Being Phony So He Can Get In Your Pants". He doesn't like you as much as he wants something from you. And he will be irrationally nice to get it.
So do nice guys finish last? Best case is a woman thinks they're pathetic. Zero respect for them. Going down the tier list, next up is creepy. Why does this guy agree with everything I say and do? That ain't normal. Does he have any opinions? Does he have a spine?
So yeah, nice guys usually get blocked.
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I'll summarize. As stated, this is misleading. "Nice" is not the determining factor.
But if you just alter the wording to
"Life rewards those who are more assertive, and the less assertive are often overlooked."
Then the statement becomes true.
And do to cultural reasons, people with poor character and poor values and even low intelligence are often very assertive while it is common for people with a kinder and gentler nature as well as higher intelligence and more studious inclination to be more humble and less assertive.
Strange, right?
Since I've never heard this expression, here is what I found:
"The idiom "nice guys finish last" suggests that people who are considerate, kind, and unassertive often get overlooked or don't achieve their desired results compared to more aggressive or less scrupulous individuals. This phrase can often be heard in contexts involving competition or pursuit, such as business or romantic relationships."
Good thing I looked that one up because I initially thought this idiom was talking about intercourses🤷♀️. I think that expression may apply to competitive environments yes, like some specific curriculum or specific corporate jobs? As for romance, from what I have seen, it's more like "nice guys come first"
In terms of intercourse... I dont mind if the guy finishes first and then finishes me off.
But to always have it done that way? A little balance is nice.
But yeah... kind of hot if he can't contain himself, so long as its not like the first few minutes of it being in lol
We have to define our terms. Overall I agree. Usually "nice guy" is code for a pushover, a weak guy, a guy who is a simp, never takes bold action, friend zones himself, has no boundaries, doesn't have standards or self respect, always goes along with what a woman wants or says, is afraid to upset her.
Now, a guy who is strong, masculine, decisive, a leader, one who goes for what he wants, will want away if someone crosses his boundaries or disrespects him, stays on his life purpose and cannot be swayed from it... can still be NICE but that is usually not what people envision when they say "nice guy".
Generally, nice guys do finish last because women see them as doormats because they don't go after what THEY want and always pedestalize women they have interests in.
This guy has it all figured out:
Based on what I've seen throughout my life , nice guys always do finish last , I think it's most probably because they present no challenge , just do everything correctly , don't project themselves out there , take no risks , so are often seen as boring , they tend not to be dominant enough..
It's all a bit " Ho Hum " .. is that all I get.
@molonski2 Not sure
It's not that nice guys actually finish last. It's that there are "nice guys" who are only nice because they're scared or don't believe in themselves. They're basically acting nice because they think they have to, not because they genuinely are. These guys are fake nice, and women can see right through it.
Real nice guys are different. They choose to be nice, but they could be tough or tell the truth even if it's not what someone wants to hear. They're honest and real, and that's way more attractive than someone just pretending to be nice out of fear. So it's not that nice guys finish last; it's that fakes finish last.
I think that men who are focused on trying to be pleasing to women, instead of being themselves, finish last. So if this is what is meant by nice guys, then I agree. However, if by the phrase nice guys what is meant is a man who is kind, then I disagree completely. A strong masculine man who has kindness is one of the most attractive men a women can meet
I don’t fully agree with the phrase. Kindness and integrity are valuable traits, and they don’t have to lead to ‘finishing last.’ Sometimes, people may perceive nice individuals as less assertive, but over time, those who stay true to themselves and their values are the ones who build meaningful connections and earn genuine respect. It’s about knowing how to balance kindness with confidence and assertiveness.
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Its always the avarage guy getting rejected by all the pretty girls that end up with the nice guys finish last! If an abarage guy goes for a fat lady, he will most likely be rewarded with all her love and loyalty for being a loyal unshallow gentleman!
I don't agree with any generalizations... because people are different and like different things
I like it if we both are satisfied to the point of exhaustion... but I don't care who finishes when... especially since we would do many rounds for sure :D
so... not an order of events is important but the general result :D
I don’t think it’s 100% of the time, but a large majority of it yes nice men do finish last in the way of dating, relationships. Especially nowadays w a lot of women being promiscuous. Running around, getting railed by a lot of dudes, even trained. End up e a kid or two then realize all these men they messed w in the beginning don’t want to settle down. Now that she has real financial responsibilities like kids, she needs help. So the. She will give one of these nice men a chance who have probably been after her for quite sometime. Even before she acted like a 304.
I'll assume you mean "finish last in relationships with the opposite gender", and to that I'll just say that if that's really true, then I'd rather remain single! If there really are women out there who really do prefer the "bad guys" (ex. criminals, thugs, cavemen), well then they're welcome to them! I hope they get what they deserve.
No. Nobody deserves love or attraction just for being nice. If you're nice but have the personality of a wet blanket, don't be surprised if people aren't into you. Being nice is like the bare minimum standard for a relationship. Everyone with a healthy mindset wants their partner to be nice.
Yes and I’ve seen it happen to women too, but let’s focus on the why. Well, I’ve seen them date women who don’t deserve their kindness and in turn they come very cold towards women.
Smart nice guys don't. Dumb nice guys might. Because being nice doesn't really make one finish last.
Because they aren't really nice, you notice that when you dare to say 'no'
kinda? nice guys are just more likely to be boring or not as confident in MY experience
more likely to be fun, but you stay away from them bc it's just a waste of time
I think I'm a nice guy, and I'm very athletic, no I'm usually first !
I stand by what I've always said... I'd rather be single than change who I am (ie. Stop being a nice guy)
No a good guy
I don't know how these guys who are too shy or insecure ever get anything done. It's easy to sign up for classes, but how to they go out and get a decent job or start a business or get a woman? I read something the other day I think it was from The Art of Work where it said most people sit around and wait for things to just come to them instead of going out and getting it, and therefore they don't ever get anything. I don't know how you can live your live that way. Can you imagine people in the 1800s doing that? They'd be dead in a week.
If nice guys finish last, it is because girls don't like nice guys so I think this question should be asked to girls. For example as a female what is your opinion on the issue?
no not really! nice guys finish last only with women who are not nice! Mature nice women can spot nice and polite men while avoiding the bad ones!
Also the term "Nice Guys" lose its meaning if the guy knows how to flirt well, women fall for any guy thats charming and knows how to flirt, nice or not.. so i guess this is more about knowing how to flirt than being nice!
no one who comes first is ever truly a nice guy whether it's in politics, in sports, in any competition
that sounds good on paper but doesn't work in practice
would you define Mike Tyson as nice? how about Michael Jordan? Novak Djokovic? Magnus Carlsen? Trump? Genghis Khan? Batman? there's ambitious women too who aren't exactly well-liked either
everything comes with a price though and the desire to win changes one's behavior. soldiers and cops who have been in life and death situations know this
Yes. Most people don't appreciate nice gestures done for them especially after they become accustom to it they take you for granted.
I consider myself a decent person by human standards.
If you nice guy as in terms of letting others taking advantage of me then no with the exceptions sometimes I let customers get away with stuff because of my job sake at one point in time.
* mean
Because sex is over when the man has got his orgasm. So first the woman has to get what she wants and then eventually the man.
Yes, another name for this is clitoris-centered sex.
Of course sex should be mutual enjoyment. I don't understand why you are sort of p1ssed. If I put the focus on her needs why should that be a problem?
Well it's good guys finish last and yes it's true. Do you agree
Cause good and nice are completely different things
No problem this are a lot of nice people but because there nice doesn't make then good. A person can be being night to you so you can let down you guard so they can take advantage. How many time have you heard a person so they seemed nice but a good person would never do that they'll always try to help you
Some do while some don't but there is some truth to that.
Like few guys can compete with serial killers in popularity among women.
However all nice guys I personally know are in a relationship already.
Anyway faking your personality is not a path to success even if it does get you laid. Not only would one grow to resent the women not dating the real him but himself for not being good enough he is.
Yea for the most part. Good guys finish first and bad boys finish 2nd but not always.
Nice guys usually have trouble with conflicts but that means they're more likable just not always a good thing. Good guys are kind but firm on where they stand and bad boys are firm and don't care where you you stand on something
It's a fact, and science proves it.
https://www.nbcnews.com/healthmain/want-catch-ladys-eye-dont-smile-study-says-1c6437381
I'm not even sure of what people mean when they say this, but my answer is yes/no...and sometimes they end up in between
What is being defined as a “nice guy?” If nice guys “finish last” does that mean women like being disrespected by men? Not sure I ever really understood that saying
Yes unfortunately this does seem to be the case. You don't have to be an asshole but be careful if being too nice or you will be th
rown in the friend zone !
Yes, a polite gentleman will make sure you finish first before he makes his run for the end zone.
I'm going to go yes. Because any person who identifies as a nice guy aren't, and so they finish last because they're usually dodgy sexists.
But the second mouse gets the cheese!
Yes, because most "nice guys" are really just manipulators. They also tend to be indecisive, which is a turn off for most of the women I've met. And they also tend to be boring.
Honesty ; most
Girls dislike nice guys they do not provide drama
Yeah cause I get to fuck her first and he gets sloppy seconds.
Yes, because they don’t know how to treat their women
Most of the time I do think good guys don't get the gold. My best guess is that they are not entertaining enough. Sure a girl likes a sweet guy but he just doesn't have that edge. Just a guess.
Ofcourse they do, they always end up in the friendzone because they are to nice and boring
The world meets nobody halfway. Unless rich. At some point you have to decide what you want grit your teeth and go for it.
Yeah nice guys let me finish first
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Yeah, they do always have and always will. Because Girls like nice guys, but they want a bad boy at least that’s my experience.
Yes. Awesome guys finish on my face.
No. Nice guys get the hot girls and practice making kids a lot
A bit of cliche eh.. only a guy who would have given up might had came up with at first place.
Winning is a conscious decision.. perseverance is the key
Decent guys finish last.. yeah
Women like the bad boys and like the sense of adventure.
I. had a girlfriend that was abused in every relationship.
I treated her great... she dumped me after 3 years. Probably went back to abusive relationships.
Some women just can't handle boring, decent guys.
Nice guys finish last because they don't have premature ejaculation.
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