Sex holidays with girls?

[Anonymous]

He asked the girl who didn't sleep with him to go on a "break" to a cottage owned by his friend in Ireland with him on the 1st date. He lied to her about his actual address and she told him she couldn't take him to her place because she lives in student halls and her place is small.

Then he said this cottage thing to her.

Then he asked me to go on a week summer vacay with him and we went.

He also was seeing someone in February and March that time and when I asked him how he has been, he said he was good and he had been in the city. Does that mean he went away with other girls before?

[MrCommodore]

He sounds like a player type who regularly brings girls away.

I'm very surprised any girl would agree to go on a first date for 1 week to Ireland, he must be super attractive and charming. Like it could be dangerous with a stranger.

[Asker]

Do you think he can develop feelings for a girl he goes away with?

[MrCommodore]

No, I honestly think he is enjoying the excitement of the initial relationship and sex, then he moves on to the next girl. His bringing a girl away for a week to Ireland (which is great here) is not anything special, it's his normal practice.

[Asker]

But why bring girls when he's not interested in knowing them? Because he gets exasperated and impatient if she's only chatting with him so what's the point when he gas to stay 24/7 with her?

[MrCommodore]

Because unfortunately some guys are not nice people and just want to use girls for sex until bored, they then move onto the next girl. They have no desire for a relationship

[Asker]

Yes so if he's going away with girls for a week or do then how can a guy like this stay with her when he's not interested in knowing her?

[MrCommodore]

Its only 1 week, he could spends 6-12 weeks with her and then get bored. The point is that it doesn't matter how much time he spends with her, its not developing into a normal relationship.

[Asker]

But why not normal relationship?

[MrCommodore]

I'm not sure, I don't understand why some guys are this way.

[Asker]

But you don't think he can fall in love or develop a relationship with a gurl he takes outside for these trips?

[spartan55]

Yes, every day.