So 2 months ago I had sex with a coworker after he said that he thinks about me outside of work and loves to pick on me (which I admitted to me thinking he was flirting) etc.. I admitted to having a thing for him and then he said he did too, he kissed me and we had sex (yes drinking had been involved). The sex was amazing he was calling out my name a lot so I assumed he enjoyed it too.
Afterwards, we were cuddling and he started looking for his phone and I took that as time for me to leave, I did. we have never spoken about that night, it was a little awkward afterwards, I messaged him telling him it was and he said there was nothing to feel awkward about. fast forward a month later and he was kinda seeing this girl and still picking on me and saying that I should know 'you know we love you' etc.. he and this girl are on the fence, he still has tinder, and coworkers can tell he is flirty with me and just the other day I had to go by work to do something and he was there, I said hi and as I was leaving he was like I haven't seen you in a while and I said I was away then asked me a bunch of questions about my family, like how many siblings I had, stuff about my parents etc. it felt like he didn't want me to leave, like why does a guy you have sex with want to know personal things about you?
I like him but I am confused AS FUCK, and I think I should talk to him, but it's hard because I don't know what to say and at the end of the day I still have to work with him.
