What do straight guys look for most in a woman?

[StormMistress]

Ok so for guys when looking for your future wifey what qualities are most important to you?

As an example for my husband I care most about kindness, empathy, strength, financial intelligence and prowess (ie taxes and crap cause I suck at them lol) and humour. Also while not as important I’d love it if he were dominant to me in the bed room.

[StrongMale]

The qualities I value in a ‘wifey’ are...
First off, I need to be very attracted to her, both physically and intellectually. After that, I want her to be adventurous, introspective, trusting, trustworthy, intelligent, and emotionally stable. I love women who are very feminine, so a girlie girl is a must for me. I need her to accept and understand my sexuality as a man and tend to it with love, lust and erotic excitement. Where sex is concerned, I love it all, but oral is at the very top of my list of what I want from a woman. So she would have to be completely good with that. I find sexually submissive women very hot, so that would be a bonus. It also means a lot to me when a woman expresses her admiration, appreciation and affection for me. So there you have it! ☺️

[Lionman95]

I look for a partner in a crime a woman with a vision or some kind of passion. For me kindness, empathy and emotional strength in a way that she isn´t currently working through some kind of trauma.
For me a woman is a partner I want to share life with. I like that women oftentimes have a different view and different priorities. Though there are many similarities I cherish women mostly for the differences.
But at the same time that´s what sometimes makes living with women for me complicated because I have a hard time to understand their body language.

[LazerBean]

Right off the bat when they first meet a woman, I'm definitely going to say someone who is easy to talk to and approachable, but also isn't obnoxious about it.

[Sixgunsound]

That certainly helps enable discovery of the answers of the rest of our questions that’s for sure

[MrOracle]

For me, LOYALTY is the #1 thing, followed by appreciative, kind, and happy/positive. So many women are constantly unhappy, or looking to be offended all the time, or are into drama and gossip - when I find a girl who isn't caught up in those things, who naturally is relaxed and happy and smiles a lot, that's so refreshing that I immediately find her personality attractive.

[Sixgunsound]

Self control, ability to reason, work ethic, household management skills, comfort with children, kindness, good heart, good morals. Physical attraction figures in but rather far down the list. Nobody is going to look the same at 70 as they do at 27, and if the goal is to still be together at 70 then the mental emotional and social characteristics are vastly more important.

[JamesDiaz11]

I look for her warmth, femininity and character the most. If she's abrasive, toxic, or promiscuous she's automatically out.

I want her to be submissive to me and to be my biggest fan. Being committed enough to make it through rough patches is required too.

lastly, I want her to be close with her parents, but not overly dependent.

[DoctorSex]

If you truly wish to be effective as a woman and you wish to find a good masculine man, there's 3 traits you must master.

As you develop these 3 traits, you'll draw too you, good men.

3 Traits That Will Help You Realise, You're Dealing With A Valuable Woman.

kind regards,

DoctorSex

[mstbooblover]

Well, that's so seemingly obvious that I don't really know how to answer... First of all, being a "straight" guy, what I'm looking for in a woman is she being a woman in the first place, with everything a woman is meant to have: breasts, pussy... ;0)

The previous basics being granted, it's an intimate friend, lover, confidant, soul mate I want. If I were younger, the mother of my children, something as the soul of the house.

[Sixgunsound]

You may think that is obvious, but the most recent member of the highest court in the United States disagrees

[mstbooblover]

@Sixgunsound What do you mean? Is this about the definition of the word "woman" ? In my case there's no doubt about what I mean. No offence at all meant to other people's tastes.

[Sixgunsound]

During confirmation hearings the latest appointment to the US Supreme Court refused to define woman.

[mstbooblover]

@Sixgunsound That's ridiculously amusing, and at the same time very sad and alarming. I have nothing against people feeling they belong to another gender than the one the were born with, as trans, trannies, ladyboys, etc. But, set aside some in between genetic problem, purely on a scientific basis, 99% of people were born with a specific gender, whatever they later do. Pushing that far the notion of politically correct is a very bad symptom in a society. Well, I guess everyone is free to decide for themselves how to define a woman.

[Sixgunsound]

Unfortunately I have to disagree that everyone is free to define woman however they want to. Thousands of real women are losing sports scholarships or losing other scholarships are losing admission to programs or are losing other access to awards or to domestic violence shelters etc. because they no longer can define what woman means and so those organizations have to let men who pretend they’re women to gain social advantage plug up those spots or consume those resources. As a father of two daughters, I will never agree that there is a fluid definition of woman.

[mstbooblover]

@Sixgunsound The situation you're describing seems some political manipulation, and honestly I don't understand what for. Even with a few trans people walking around, a natural woman is a natural woman. No need for an official definition ? A legislator who doesn't dare to take any legal action because of such a stupid silly point should resign from any serious responsible job.

[Sixgunsound]

The left in the United States is not known for fielding or selecting serious candidates. At least not in decades.

[mstbooblover]

@Sixgunsound Perfection is not from this world, not in gender definition obviously, and certainly not in politics. Shame we can't jail stupidity: prisons wouldn't be big enough ;0)
Or is all this about finding excuses to avoid the state having to pay for all kinds of subsidies for institutions involving "women"? Seriously, a woman still is a woman, and if the person you refered to has doubts, let him go check in the pants of his mother. The real solution for trans people should be case by case individually.

[Sixgunsound]

The least amusing part about this newest member of the highest court in the country is it IS a woman.

[mstbooblover]

@Sixgunsound Ah... Most intriguenly interesting. I guess she's calculating something? Still, even if she's trans, a plain look in her mother's pants may be helpful ;0)
Otherwise if this a legal word definition problem, the kind used in court by lawyers and judges, the next step will be the definition of the words "Man" and "Male". Seriously, aren't there more urgent problems in the country? Still, in any jurisdiction some exceptions in the field of definitions may be included allowing judges to decide case by case. I don't see any other real solution.

[Sixgunsound]

It’s a political stunt that harms real women the most.

[mstbooblover]

@Sixgunsound But what is she really aiming at?

[Sixgunsound]

I don’t know. It isn’t as though unelected bureaucrats have to face voters in November. Solidarity with the agendas of those who put her there?

[mstbooblover]

@Sixgunsound Organized incompetence I'd say. Bad and inefficient politics.

[Sixgunsound]

Absolutely

[Crafteroon]

Passion, kindness, intelligence. Passion for any kind of topic, desire to know about it, argue about it, etc. Kindness for others, animals, children, even if they don't want to have their own. Intelligence, capable of logical thinking, understanding that you can be passionate about things but understand logistical and factual limitations.

[Guanfei]

Kind, caring, fun, loyal, family oriented, respectful, responsible when it's necessary, and doesn't mind my child heart. If she can have it too, it's a good thing.

[StormMistress]

Well as long as you don’t mind my child like heart too 😘

[Guanfei]

That would be the best for me. I'd feel caged if I couldn't be a brat sometimes ^^

[StormMistress]

Haha always fun to be bratty 😂

[Guanfei]

More fun than doing taxes and doing chores for sure 🧐

[Hispanic-Cool-Guy]

#1: Must be a Christian who loves Jesus Christ above all and the Bible.

#2: Must be smart. Not necessary education wise but very strong common sense and the world around her.

#3: Submmisive attitude.

#4: No serious addiction i. e. drugs or alcohol.

#5: Respectful.

#6: Open minded.

#7: Honest.

#8: Loyal.

[StormMistress]

That’s a lot of boxes to tick though. Wouldn’t that make finding the one a lot harder since you’re really narrowing the pool of options? Would you settle for a wife with say 6 of these qualities or is 8 the absolute minimum?

[Hispanic-Cool-Guy]

The things I said are reasonable.

[StormMistress]

Yeah but to find one with every single quality is a tall order just saying. What if she had all these except she wasn’t submissive? Or she wasn’t religious but she respected your religion?

[Hispanic-Cool-Guy]

No Christian then no go.

[Pudsmucker]

I have some that is supportive, that would teach our children. Financial savvy. She has put with childish ways and put me in my place. Willing to travel. Stuck with me through good and bad times. We have been together for the last 44yrs. We have been faithful to each other. I am still childish

[Cowboy6666]

No. 1 Loyalty

Then kindness, caring, open mindedness, being straight forward, genuine, doesn't hide anything from me, sense of humor, respectful, comfortable around me.

Plus points are girly girl behavior, longer hairs, educated, skillful, active.

[TonightYouu]

We look for a woman to love us like our mothers but that’ll never happen because wives and girlfriends take care of you for their benefit because you take care of them but mothers take care of you for your own benefit because they love you we just want a woman to love us like our mothers ( not treat us like our mothers ) but Love us like her we want a woman to selflessly love us

[rabbitzzz]

Beautiful, loyalty and most importantly doesn't bruise the ego. Disrespect won't be tolerated.

[loveslongnails]

Very smart, kind heart and a good soul, very pretty without make-up, soft features, strong sexually kinky appetite, comfortable in any situation and able to converse on all levels. If she can such an orange through a garden hose, even better.

[JPresidente]

You listed a lot of great qualities but I would add, being chill and not so uptight about things, high sex drive, up for going to sporting events and not afraid to laugh at yourself.

[RV2121]

Most men only care whether she is attracted to them or not because it's hard for men to find a partner

[Bluemax]

Compassion

Beauty

Intelligence

[FilmGuy93]

A sense of peace, good financial sense, respectful, gentle.

A healthy man is going to want a healthy woman to bring him peace.

[007kingifrit]

i want playfulness, a resistance to social media mob mentality, the ability to converse well, her own unique hobbies, an eagerness to have kids.

[EarthRealm]

I don’t want kindness I don’t want empathy I want to be respected and I wanna wear to see what I want one oh one without her being a bitch

[VV3ZZY]

Someday I hope to meet a beautiful extreme sports chick
Who likes animals and rock music and doing fun stuff.

[MikeInHawaii]

I have an MBA. Where were you before I was older than dirt?

[msc545]

Honesty, compassion, beauty, kindness, and decency. Good luck finding these things.

[bamesjond0069]

Not fat

Obedient

Submissive

Cooks

Cleans

Youthful

Innocence sexually

[Shy_Steve]

Usually kindness and empathy are the biggest ones.

[Jerre]

Her personality, her looks, how much she likes to fuck

[Deku2009]

Open minded , polite, excepting, and must have non very obese body

[LoyalAffectionate]

Intelligent affectionate compassionate passionate loyal considerate thoughtful sympathetic empathetic tactile communicative LOYAL

[Tim-loves-it]

A woman with a good heart and a great sense of adventure!

[marmalademan]

for me two things honesty and logic i could break it down but that's the basic things i want

[spartan55]

She can't use the term 'wifey'... ugh.
...🙄

[NathanDavis]

genuine confidence

[FunkyMonkee]

Usually, their dick.

[dailyoctopus94]

Sanity.

[StormMistress]

Well that rules me out 😂😅

[dailyoctopus94]

Damn 🤣

[convo_king89]

Attractivenes

personality

[KrakenAttackin]

Modern women really are clueless.

[msc545]

worse than that - they are vicious, manipulating, and dangerous as hell.

[pizzalovershouse]

Attraction an sex appeal

[JohnK123]

A great attitude

[Spiritofn]

Tits

[Randalama]

Angles.

[hafinjun]

Low moral standards

[TheEagle_000]

Tits and ass